Friends - September 2007

I am now a Junior in college and I'm realizing that I am tired of my friends, well most of them. I have been friends with most of them since high school and I think we have finally grown apart. My roommate last year and friend for 6 years is driving me crazy. I had to deal with a lot of issues with her boyfriend and I was fed up with her at the end of the school year. I saw her tonight for the first time since may and I felt like I had nothing to say to her. I am worried because these are the only close friends that I have and if I give up on the friendships, I have no one. It is very hard for me to get to know people. I am very guarded and dont trust people, not even my friends. Should I try to make new ones or finish college with no one?

2007-09-03 16:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by that one girl 2

we just started high school and we're both meeting a lot of new people. and i'm cool with her getting alot of new close friends, i'm happy for her. but she isn't talking to me as much anymore, and she isn't as nice to me, and she's moving me down in her top eight on myspace. and i don't know if i sound paranoid or whatever, but i just really don't want to lose my best friend. we've been through alot together, and now it's like none of that even matters. i just don't know what to do. :[

2007-09-03 15:21:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My roommate and I have been sharing a room for a week already, and we're not jiving well. She is kind of reserved and likes to talk to old friends on the phone and the internet. On two evenings a week she is gone for practice, and while she is here we don't do things together. We've hardly done anything together. Other people hang out with their roommates all the time, and they are having so much fun, I feel left out. What should I do?

2007-09-03 15:20:11 · 4 answers · asked by ajbbbygrl 3

2007-09-03 14:57:33 · 21 answers · asked by BELL F 1

We're in highschool and she gets D's and C's.I want to help her but i don't have any advice:(

2007-09-03 14:47:33 · 15 answers · asked by Miupony~ 2

This is hard for me because I feel like I meet someone new and then we're at a soccer game or something and they just start talking to everyone and I'm shy so it's hard. I also don't drink so I feel like I'm instantly looked down on because of that.

2007-09-03 14:32:17 · 19 answers · asked by Tom from the Top 3

how can a person tell the difference between real friends and fairweather friends. It seems that I have made so many fairweather friends over the course of my life, - so when things are going well everyone is there, and when times get hard - like when my wife died, then everyone vanishes. So if I have money then things are fine, and if I'm poor (and I'm not asking people for money) then they go away. it's like everyone just wants whatever they can get out of me. If I'm able to make all the effort and call people then they're there, but when I wasn't able to go and call everyone - then there wasn't people there who were concerned about me. I just can't believe how selfish people are. I just don't get it.
I know people that if I'm giving them stuff then they talk tom e, and if I don't they don't call at all. I pretty much quit giving to anyone who doesn't include me in their life. it used to be about anyone, but not anymore.not sure if I should do that though. thanks.

2007-09-03 14:28:14 · 1 answers · asked by art_flood 4

I ask because I was always (and still am) one of those people who everyone hates. I kinda talk to much. I hate it about myself too.
but I want to be a shy person but just can't! I want to fit in with a crowd, even if it's (gonna go to hell for this but) the preps.

I am like the extra piece in the puzzle that doesn't fit in anywhere and no one wants.

what do I do? don't say "be yourself!" cause that's not exaclty helping

2007-09-03 14:17:31 · 12 answers · asked by Beatle-Juice 3

i am sick of my so called friend who won't even bother to reply a simply 'hello how are you' email?

2007-09-03 14:06:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just came back from a trip with a "friend". Her parents were wonderful and paid for my trip. My "friend" on the other hand was so selfish and mean the WHOLE trip and very jealous if I talked to her parents more then her or if we didn't do things her way. At one point, she said "we paid for her f**king trip, she can do what we want to do" She would say comments like that in front me. But since it was on a cruise ship, and I had no where to go, I held back my comments. Do I confront her now or is it too late? It had been over a year since I saw my friend and she wasn't like this before, that I know of.

2007-09-03 14:06:31 · 8 answers · asked by rusty49178 1

Or do you each tend to like different types of people, ie one of you preferring more intellectual, more active and sporty, more artsy, etc. or are you perfectly in agreement the type of people you like to socialize with?

2007-09-03 14:04:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend gets $100 dollars a month for her allowance. Is that a lot? Just wondering...:). No rude answers please.

2007-09-03 13:24:47 · 22 answers · asked by julia 6

hii, my friend is wanting 1000 dollars au to pay for his PR. the thing is we havent been friends for awhile because we had a big big fight.. and im not sure that he will pay me back, but i know he realy needs the money..its alot for me and ill have to put it on credit and not tell my parents or jaanuji, which i know is wrong to do...but should i give to him to help? his parents cant give, and no one else will help him??main kya karron? plz advise? we where realy close pals for a while and i know hes not lying that he needs the money, but i will surely put myself in a big trouble for this....but i feel like i should help as he has no one else?? what would u do? ( we had a fight because he said he loved me and i told him i love my jaanuji and he wouldnt leave it alone and i had to stop talking to him untill he understood that i only love my jaanuji and not him..)

2007-09-03 12:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by Tu_Jahan 2

so, I need everyones help. I am dating the most amazing guy out there, he treats me perfect, like a queen, he's so respectful. and we don't need anything but eachother to be happy, just being in his arms makes my whole day. we are perfect together.... but theres a catch.... he is 19, and i am under age. my mom isn't alright with me dating guys because she is afraid i will get hurt... but she knows Nic very very well and trusts him, our whole family has known him for about 3 years. we have been dating behind her back and finally have discided that it cant happen anymore, that she deserves to know, we both respect her to much. so we are both willing to talk to her and break her the news, but my biggest concern is that she will not allow him to come by anymore, and will not approve, please, this isn't just another high school relationship to us, but something serious... love. Please, anyone and everyone, give me idea's of things to say, it would help very much, especially since i am planning on doing this today, just please, give me your idea's, thank you so much for your time.

2007-09-03 10:37:43 · 2 answers · asked by B 1

me and my friend were skateboarding on our lunch break and then out of nowhere he just fell head first on the concrete...i wanna take him to hospital but he said its no big deal and that hes not paying $1000 just for nothing....but he cant stay at work cuz hes messing things up...he keeps forgetting things and putting stuff in the wrong places...but hes stubborn and still wants to keep working..what should i do???should i take him to the hospital anyway??

2007-09-03 10:35:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-03 09:38:39 · 15 answers · asked by Reo 5

okay so i was bestfriends with this girl for 5 years then in the 9th grade she was talking bad about one of my good friends who she was also best friends with her then my bf tought that i was the the one that told my other good friend that she was talking bad about her wich wasnt true we were cool with each other for a little while after that but then my bf cousin called me and told me that my bf and along with one of my other friends were talking bad about me calling me a 2face, kiss up, and they said i was really boguz. my bf cousin told me that they said that casue they though i had taken my other friends side wich was not true and that my bf felt like i was ignoring her so what i first though about was il talk to her more but then i started to get mad & i stoped talking to her & now i have a new best friend and alot of bad things have happend since me and my ex bf dont talk any more but the thing is that i really do miss her id like to call her and talk things over w/her shouls i

2007-09-03 09:30:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, i have this friend, hes a boy. and we've been bestfriends ever since 3rd grade. he's a little on the girlish side. his voice is sort of girlish, but he lives in a house with ALL girls. he weras hollister, abercrombie, and american eagle. and everyone always talks to ME about how they think hes gay. i know for a fact that he's not but all the time, they make fun of him and i cant take it anymore. hes my bestfriend, and it hurts hear people talk about him like that. i always deny it, but they alwaysss repeat it to me. he's had girlfriends before, but people have nothing better to do than talk about how he sounds like a girl.

how do i make them stop?

2007-09-03 09:19:59 · 14 answers · asked by kimbaaa! 2

its 4 months now, we have realised that we are attracted to each other. we are very close each ones family, dont know how to overcome this feeling we have for each other. any ideas?

2007-09-03 09:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I go to a computer centre to learn hardware.I have a boyfriend.We both go to class together.Our faculty and my boyfriend are of same age ,26. Sometimes the faculty scolds me before my boyfriend in the class. My teacher actually is a very nice boy with no bad intentions toward girls and he respects girls most.To girl students he is like their brother.I often go to his house when he is alone (his parents are not in the house) to learn computer., too.My problem is my boyfriend is very angry and he is jealous of my faculty. He thinks sir loves me and is trying to take me away.Once he argued with sir over a petty matter.I feel very shy as I do not want to reveal that we love each other.I fear someday my boyfriend may hurt sir's sentiments or may use slang. How to control him?

2007-09-03 08:31:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My spouse has a friendship with a coworker, which I was aware of. I was not aware of how frequently they talked and how secretive this friendship was. The friends spouse found out the extent of it and threatened to call me so my spouse had no option but to tell me. My spouse maintains they are just friends and has said that as I am so upset the friendship will end. What else don't I know and where do I go from here? I thought we were a happily married couple soon to celebrate our 25th anniversary.

2007-09-03 07:48:48 · 14 answers · asked by Alan W 1

like to every one i dont try to be shy i just never talk to anyone . i have little friends and last year i had the worst year because i would never talk to anyone and all my friends were in all different classes. i dont want to be this way and want this year to be great so how can i change. no rude comments pleeze

2007-09-03 07:47:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

im not used to having a male mate in work. Anyways as my male friend in work asked me to lunch i returned the favour and asked him two weeks later. Is it ok to ask him to lunch again as i dont think hes the type to keep asking or is used to having someone to go lunch with. I do think he likes my company as he did ask if i wanted to go and look at his new flat when he moves in) . Im sorry i just dont know how to play these things and dont want him to think its a one off thing.

2007-09-03 07:44:42 · 3 answers · asked by jesabel1234 1

I wanted to know if its possible (over one month) to have people in the palm of my hands? I belong to this club at school, and am known as the funny one. I want to be able to have people missing me when I'm gone for only one day, without disappearing for a week or two. It sounds evil, I know...but I want to be more than just popular. I want people to be so excited to see me when I come, which means I guess I have to be very different each time I see them. I want every guy there to find me attractive in a way they cant put their finger on. Now, how can i do this?!?

2007-09-03 07:11:36 · 1 answers · asked by lilac27 3

ok well she is really mean to me and i never did anything to her EVER. she gives me attitude for no reason. and she talks about me behind my back. im a really shy person and she is sooo mean to me and i dont do anything to her.Even when im looking at her or she ''thinks'' im looking at her,she will be like ''eww stop looking at me!!'' or she will tell her friends or the guy i like ''omg is she looking at me'' or something like that. it really hurts me.i dont know what to do. And shes going out with the guy i like (i think he likes her) but i don't care about that because if he can go out with sumone liker her,he is a waste of my time. well im really sad and i don't wan't to go to school ...any advise?

2007-09-03 06:40:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wouldn't cause i don't care if someone is or not and i hate people that do care and threanted them when they never did anything. plus, i believe it is not against religion... do u?

thnks for sharin' ur opinions!

2007-09-03 06:21:44 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want a beautieful smart girl friend around 14 or 15 that live in newyork

2007-09-03 05:43:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just feel kind of lonely. I am realizing my friends here aren't that great. I'm not sure what to do about this..?

2007-09-03 05:40:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, just yesterday a friend of mine called me up to ask if I wanted to go to the carnival with her. I was a bit surprised because her and I haven't talked to each other in quite awhile. I became REALLY offended when she said "Well, I asked my other friends if they wanted to go with me, but they were all busy. So I called you." How does she not realize that this offends me? She called EVERYONE ELSE before me. I was her last choice.

And a few days ago I called another friend of mine to see if she wanted to hang out this weekend. She claimed she'd be busy and couldn't. Then she called earlier today and she's like "I'm not calling to hang out because my friend is here, but I had to ask you something." (It was just a simple question, unimportant.) But I'm getting really annoyed! What is wrong with me? I don't get why they feel they can say this to me and think it's okay!

2007-09-03 05:25:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is married, I am divorced, we both realize we can't be more than friends. He said he is my friend for life and even if he got a new job, he'd still meet for coffee and stay in contact because true friendship lasts forever no matter the circumstance. I don't understand why he is suddenly saying it has to be a work friendship. In the past when he gets really busy he has blown me off, but then a week or two goes by and everything is cool again. Wondering if this is just a repeat of past events and he'll still be my good friend despite what he said in a not so nice manner the other day... I never even did anything wrong!!

2007-09-03 05:00:44 · 9 answers · asked by blondie 1