Friends - September 2007

Hey all,,,, I don't know what to get my girlfriend????? It was her birthday last week, and could'nt get her anything coz She has everything i could think of. And she is surely expecting a gift from me as her friend... Plz help.....

2007-09-30 23:42:14 · 3 answers · asked by lady"P" 2

2007-09-30 22:42:44 · 3 answers · asked by anita b 1

2007-09-30 22:36:48 · 4 answers · asked by avril 1

this is very intersting for me because i saw lot of girls mislead by the boys n they short fall with their character n struggled a lot.

2007-09-30 21:48:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-09-30 20:08:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend is going through a lot. She has had some major family issues (fights, getting kicked out, stealing, divorce...), and has been forced to stay at my house quite often lately. I've been trying my absolute hardest to help her out, because she means a lot to me. She tells me all about what happens at home, i'm like her diary in a way; i know more about her than her own mother does. But what she doesn't know, is that i can see that she is bringing herself down a lot. She used to slit her wrists, she is suicidal on and off, and she gets into serious depression. And i've always noticed that she goes to the washroom a little too often. At first i thought it's probably just some bladder problem, and i'll leave her alone about it. but just recently i found puke stains on the carpet in our guest washroom that she uses. She always tells me when she is feeling sick enough to puke, so this is really unusual. I care about her so much, but I just don't know how to help her.

2007-09-30 18:44:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying not to get into the lifetsyle of a 21 yr old. I know this sounds corny but it's like the "LA lifestyle". At first you're kinda cautious about it but one night at the bar turns into having that fun every weekend.

I've heard it's not worth it and it gets old pretty fast but I hate to admit it but i get tempted...I'm a student wanting to go into healthcare and not to sound biased but it's very competitive and challenging - you're either cut to be in it or not - there are not second chances - someone's always trying to get your spot.

I've never "experienced" this lifestyle but i've seen it second hand with older cousins and friends...I get "judgement" from people that i'm "innocent" but it's not that...I just don't wanna get tangled up in it. I just want to concentrate what's in front of me first and deal with parties later. Don't get me wrong, i'll have fun once in a while but bars/clubs just seems risky and dangerous right now...

2007-09-30 18:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my boyfriend(of 5 years) and all of our friends are going on an ice fishing trip up north. Any other time I would be invited, but this time it was completly planned without me, and when I asked if I could go, he said no because "your a girl" and then gave me several other excuses.
I have always been one of the guys, I fish, ride dirt bikes, go mudding, that stuff is my life. I would love to go... His main reason is that they are all staying in a HUGE one room ice house, and it's just the boys. I have never notbeen allowed to do something, because im a girl, in my life. I have always done everything with my guy friends... and I don't have any chick friends to speak of that I would ever go do anything "just girls" with. Anyways, I am just upset that I can't go. At first I was supposed to go, then a few months later he told me that him and all our guy friends were going, and that I couldn't...
advice, thoughts..

2007-09-30 18:20:10 · 20 answers · asked by tashae_33 2

I know that at this PRESENT he is having very painful times and overly stressed and hurt feelings.
Would you offer to him, as well, as I will - to come out of the negativity he has taken refuge in, while feeling so sad and wounded in the heart - as we have ALL experienced from time to time - and offer to him a few words of concern and the return to a far more positive state? I know he will appreciate it very much. He is a good person in a world which can be so ruthless, still, he is of deep and worthy feelings, and has much caring and genuine of being to offer . . . but now he is going through very hard times and he is such a young man with much of his goodness to offer to the world!
I believe that we, all being brethren, may succeed in helping him, find reason to take a safer refuge in positivity again, if we
encourage him. I would be very grateful and thankful for any kind words and encouragement you may join me to offer, to trust to return to the Light again.
Thank you all!
Abi G

2007-09-30 17:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6

but this time i m very upset she has many boyfriends and every time she go out she lies her family she is going with me i m not into all this once her family people became my foes and they hated me i feel very bad and then i told her sweetly but she is not understanding my position sometimes i feel telling her daughterin law about this that i m not with her what shall i do ?and same time i dont want to loose her too but i m very upset about it also how should i give this massage to her family that when she goes out i m not accompaning her

2007-09-30 17:03:27 · 4 answers · asked by volini 2

okay, my problem is that I have been one of the guys my entire life. I have a dirt bike, I go hunting, fishing, all that stuff, anyways my boyfriend and all our friends are going ice fishing this winter, and he refuses to let me go because, "your a girl". I have never not been aloud to do something because im a girl, in my life.
Yeah, there will be 4 guys all ina HUGE ice house on the lake, and I would be the only girl. But they are both of our friends, infact I think I only have two friends who are girls, and all of the times I can remember when m guy friends didn't allow girls to go, they were up to no good...
Please tell me what you think. Anything would be helpful. I am just frustrated as hell, plus I DO like to ice fish, it would be nice to go! ?????

2007-09-30 16:50:05 · 5 answers · asked by tashae_33 2

ok I'm thinking of having a birthday/halloween party(since my birthdays the 25th)and it's gonna be a Costume party but me,my sister and our closest friend that we always hang out with r going to have elegant dresses and we''ll help do each others hair and make-up.Is this immature??I'm turning 14 and my friend and sister is 16 and there will be ppl of all ages?I haven't told anbody about this idea but it was my sister and our friends idea to have a party inthe first place.BUT do u think this is imature??

2007-09-30 16:48:16 · 31 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4

2007-09-30 16:00:43 · 2 answers · asked by devonh7 2

im 16, a basketball varsity...should i control or stop myself of the feeling of being gay? i like to see naked men and enjoy myself looking at my team mates naked in the shower. i also kind of masturbate to mem porn but all of these are very secret. im ashame or afraid that they found out my feeling that i will be outcast especially my dad, my elder bro and my best buddy. i have my girl friend for two years now and we had some kissing that i also became very aroused. we plan to have sex soon but i dont know

2007-09-30 15:51:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been friends since middle school, he live like 5 houses down the street. his parents aren't usely home, so i go with him on the weekends, and stay until 12:00 AM with him, just talking listening o music, etc.

i like him, we have alot in common, whatever i think, he thinks, we say the same things, and like the same things, i keep leaning my head on his shoulder, just for fun, but he dosen't seem to mind.

im bisexual, he "straight", i've had a girlfriend before, he hasn't, im not a virgin, he is, it looks like every year, he likes a diffrent girl, and keeps stalking them, but i still like him for it.

how can i make him like me?

2007-09-30 15:41:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

A student that went to this school near mine passed away. He was in grade 8, I didn't say one word to this person but I feel depressed and I feel like I know him somehow.

I don't have a best friend or a friend I can express my feelings to at all. You see, he was supposed to go the same high school as me and I always wonder if he could be my best friend, my good friend. His best friend is currently in my French class and I want to get to know him. Me and him share the same dream..to be a professional basketball player.

Am I being stupid? Should I be even thinking that he could've been my best friend? What should I do?

2007-09-30 15:34:09 · 5 answers · asked by m21 2

so my parents were gone this one weekend and my friends broke into my house when i was a penn state and had a party i didn't find out till after my parents got home. they blamed it all on me and now we don't talk....they want to get a relationship with me when i'm now moving out in less than 3 weeks. I'm adopted and they never really seemed to care. they only care about their blood kids and i get blamed for everything... i can't deal with this....i cry myself to sleep and my parents pretty much destroyed all my friendships by doing and saying stupid stuff to my friends and they treat me like shittt.......i was raped my 9th and 10th grade years of high school and they make fun of me for it....i really hurts and their is so much stuff i could say but i don't know what to do or where to stop....i need HELP

2007-09-30 15:29:05 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ perfect angel lips ♥ 2

My friend is with this one girl who hurts him (physically)and i dont like her at all. And ever since he has being going out with her he thinks that he is so cool and says stuff like "I really dont care dude" and he thinks he can run me and stuff and i dont know if i should still be his friend. Should i?

2007-09-30 15:21:58 · 6 answers · asked by J 2

okay i added a guy to my msn(well he added me like a week ago(8 days actually)

it been going all good, but like this past 3 days its been like...well hes been signed in a lot but he hasnt been starting the conversation i always have to be the one to im first. also when i do that he doesnt realy get into the conversation much. i asked him wuts up why are so quite but all he said was he had a lot of work to do.

so? wut up with him and me?
also i have to see him tomoro(same school) how do i act?

2007-09-30 14:36:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like 1 of my friends, & we've been friends 4 almost 6 yrs now so we're pretty close. & a few days ago I asked him on im if I could kiss him, & he said yes, & about a half hour later I asked him if he was sure & he said no, not 2 kiss him ne more cuz I've had my chances. & I told him I didn't want 2 just go up & kiss him cuz idk how he was going 2 react 2 it.idk if he would b happy, or mad, & I didn't want 2 risk my friendship 4 that. and now he says I can't kiss him, but I really love him, & all of my friends say i should just do it. so wut should I do?

2007-09-30 14:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by 25BlueDogs 1

Should I confront her? Or limit the info. Please explain briefly. Thank you...details below...

This girl I go to school with always copies my ideas, my behaviours and a lot of other things.

I honestly don't know if this relationship can be salvaged. Now that I mentionned something to her before about her behaviours she just got even SNEAKIER about it. She always watches tv and copies the people on there too. I am not so much into the tv so I feel like she is stealing the things I learned from my family. I feel like she is an intruder.

She is always asking me my next step before I take it. Once I said my plans and then changed them after (for personal reasons) and she yelled at me. This is my life, why is she yelling at me?

2007-09-30 14:14:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean I think that I would have learned my lesson, but I still find Mr. Wrong totally hot.
Is there a cure?

2007-09-30 13:59:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

first of all im starting out by saying that this is actually my friend im talking about...

my friend just told me that her dad abuses her, and that tomorrow the school guidence conceler is moving her into a HAWC center tomorrow, what do i say to her? i feel awful about it and i wanna try to make her feel better.

2007-09-30 13:56:28 · 21 answers · asked by TB eventer! 4

My "friends" are pot heads and have been at a community college for over 3 years now...They rarely call me to hang out and rarely ever invite me to go to places with them. I used to be close to them and hung out with them all the time but somehow we've drifted apart (partly because I moved for a year to school and just came back). They didn't even say happy birthday to me last week and didn't come to celebrate it...even after I told them that my other friend was throwing a party for me at his house. I've known them for about 5 years now, but they seem like a**holes now...what can I do?

2007-09-30 13:54:35 · 4 answers · asked by OO 1

A lot of the time, I feel so faded in the background. I feel like I have no friends, and I hate it. I feel ugly and many people make fun of me for being the shortest girl in the grade. My parents are no help, most of the time all they do is bash me about my personality and hit me when I do something wrong Help

2007-09-30 13:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was 17, I was raped by a friend of mine. When I told one of my closest friends about it, he didn't believe me, so I didn't go to the authorities because I was too scared to think they wouldn't believe me either. I have tried forgetting that the rape ever happened for the past 6 years, but it has caused me to not be open and honest with others and not to trust anyone, including my friends and relatives. Recently, I've been going through a state of depression and just started reaching out to my friends telling them about my situation, which helped me stop blaming myself for the rape. I am looking to seek professional help because of my friends, but it is still very, very hard for me. Are there any other ways to get through this?

2007-09-30 13:46:14 · 10 answers · asked by LadyPrincess 1

This will sound really stupid. Theres nthis guy at school that basically tricked me into telling him I'm bi. Know everytime we are alone somewhere we will say something along the lines of "I want you to f*** the h*** out of my tight a**" daily o.O I try to avoid him but he follows me and we have all the same classes. He would do things like hug me and one time he kissed me. I kind of liked it, but someone might see him and they will find out I'm bi.

2007-09-30 12:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband likes to hang with his work buddy and we've visited over their house several times this past year. I just find his wife terribly boring with no interests. She yells at her 4 kids a lot and her husband has taught them curse words. When she is away from the kids she wants to get "hammered" which I don't enjoy or she wants to go out to the bars. Should I just avoid going with him over there or should ask that he distance himself from them too? It seems like if he is going to be friends with him, I get unavoidable invitations over to their birthday parties and cookouts. I just don't enjoy staying over there till midnight, the conversations are so dull and I don't approve of how they raise their kids. What do I do?

2007-09-30 11:56:43 · 4 answers · asked by ashanabu 3

2007-09-30 10:56:48 · 8 answers · asked by nia s 1

further e-mails, phone calls or contact from me. She had been in the hospital for tests and I called to find out how she was doing - she had called and left several messages for me telling me to call her sister on the other side of the country to tell her to contact my friend in the hospital and I did so. Well, when the sister wasn't able to reach my friend in the hospital she called me after I was already in bed for the night. We talked briefly and I said maybe the reason she wasn't able to reach the friend was that she had been taken out of the room for the tests. The upshot is that my friend the next day called me and left a message that I was only to tell her sister to call her, and not to talk to her sister. Well, that is the reason, I assume, for her e-mail to me stating she wanted no further contact. I e-mailed her stating I did not understand her action and that I was sorry in any event. This friend has helped me build my business and I would hate to lose her. Help!

2007-09-30 10:30:11 · 5 answers · asked by sweetpea 2