Should I confront her? Or limit the info. Please explain briefly. Thank you...details below...
This girl I go to school with always copies my ideas, my behaviours and a lot of other things.
I honestly don't know if this relationship can be salvaged. Now that I mentionned something to her before about her behaviours she just got even SNEAKIER about it. She always watches tv and copies the people on there too. I am not so much into the tv so I feel like she is stealing the things I learned from my family. I feel like she is an intruder.
She is always asking me my next step before I take it. Once I said my plans and then changed them after (for personal reasons) and she yelled at me. This is my life, why is she yelling at me?
2007-09-30 14:14:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She isn't a real friend. Don't say or do anything except find a new friend or friends. Good luck.
2007-09-30 16:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your friend thinks everything you do is great and looks up to you and doesn't think much of maybe his or her own ideals if you really like this person as a friend you could talk with her and encourage her to come up with a ideal or maybe brag a little of something she does even if some of it you thought of first low self worth is hard to battle maybe school counselor or teacher could help she probably was yelling because she was afraid of losing your friendship and deep down she knows your right and it hurt her because it sounds like she that's you do some petty neat things and so do the people on TV and just don't know how to be herself or is shy or need Little help take care if she s a true friend show compassion's my dear friend for life is short and good friends are hare to find Debbie c little pumpkin Dalton GA
2007-09-30 21:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely confront her and tell her how you feel. A perso nwh ocopies off of others is a person who doesn't know how to live their own life so they feed off of others. I am going through the same problem....my dads girlfriends daughter was a normal person when I first met her....but when she noticed how I was goth she started to wear all black clothing, listen to my music, etc. She tries to say she's emo but I know for a fact that she's a complete fake copying bit**.
2007-09-30 21:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you either got an admirer or a STALKER im leanin more towards the stalking just cut ties with hewr if you can and ignore what she does to copy you, dont let her know what your plans are in the first place it is none of her business she isnt your mother BEWARE
2007-09-30 21:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋