Friends - August 2007

I got in this situation which got me into flirting with this guy.
My friend looked at the convos and thought he liked me.
She kept putting these thoughts in my head, about me and the guy, and I started to like him.
She kept trying to hook us two up. We asked him to hang with us, my friend and I, but then he couldn't go.
Then I left on an almost 3 week vaca.
When I got back my 'crush' and my friend had hung out alot, and then she started to like him.
So now she likes him, and I can't like him.

2007-08-31 20:14:09 · 14 answers · asked by Whompa 2

I recently ended a relationship of seven months and met another girl at the same time this relationship started. We talked as friends during this relationship and the other day in conversation it was mentioned that we were breaking up and she asked me if I was moving and invited me to a party and said I was invited back when it was planned but never told me till now. Also she has started inviting me to other things as well, my question is...why the strong insistence on whether I was moving or not before inviting me to these events?

2007-08-31 20:12:09 · 9 answers · asked by Loves Los Angeles 1

well today my friend Magda called me crying that her bf had recently broke up with her and she wanted to hang out with me and my friend francisco.....i wasnt able to make it but it turs out that Francisco and magda ended up kissing....well Francisco has a gf that moved to georgia and he loves her very much they pretty much planned their whole lifes together... he called me up crying.....but he likes them both but doesnt wanna hurt either one of them because both magda and his gf have been through so much with past bf's that they will most likely end and he is also fed up with all of this and claims how he just wants to end his life rather than make a choice between who he considers to be the best 2 girls in the world....he is like a brother to me and i really dont want him to do anything stupid...what can i do? what should i tell him?

2007-08-31 17:14:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I the only one? I see groups of people all over campus and hanging out at night and going out and partying... I am a pretty, smart, and very kind girl but I am having a really hard time meeting anyone. I have only been a student at this school for one year (you'd think enough to meet people, but I haven't!). I have been bulimic and I isolated myself from all people for years but now I am sick and tired of being alone. I live off campus so I find that very difficult to meet people. And then class...you don't really get the chance to meet people. I feel so out of the social scene I don't even know if I would know how to do it. There is no reason for a normal 22 year old girl to be so alone! I think part of it actually may be though that I don't trust myself with other people, given my sick past and how I pushed everyone away. I am used to being along..but people aren't naturally meant to be lonely. We all need people! Any advice from others in similar situations. Please no rude answer

2007-08-31 17:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

HE gave me a necklace, earrings, and a bracelet and his friends say it cost $180 total!! I loove them sooo much. How do I make it up to him. Please be serious. My friend already said sleep with him.

2007-08-31 16:50:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says that I ingore her and that I don't pay her as much attention to her as everyone else when I was the one who was cheering with her when she got asked out and crying with her when her ex dumped her. She is just mad and she says I have to prove I am a real friend but no matter what I do she wont listen and I don't want to lose her forever. She is one of my BFFS. What do I do??

2007-08-31 16:49:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

lml ^_~ lml

2007-08-31 16:19:47 · 3 answers · asked by crispin P 1

I just had my first kiss at 15!!! but didnt kiss back, and i thought it was gross like the moisture from his lips getting on mine anyone else thought this..... is there supposed to be moisture???? if i kissed back would it change anything??? whats rong with me .........

2007-08-31 16:06:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have this female friend. We had a few fights and stuff at the end of last school year. And we needed to be away from each other. She said to give her the summer to cool down and we could be friends this year again. We basically did not talk all summer. So it's been a week since school started and she's seen me around and is in one class also. She looks at me occasionally, but she hasn't said a word to me yet. Should I wait it out and let her come back to me or should I bring up the topic with her?

2007-08-31 15:52:11 · 4 answers · asked by DarkNoel 3

so my old classmate has apparently tried to rob someone and stabbed him. he's about 18 or 19 and he has 3 felonies on him and his friend.

attempted murder, assault with deadly weapon, and attempted robbery..

so do you think 30 years is too much for beating a guy up? i mean the guy got stabbed and badly beaten up like knocked out with blood and **** but no permanant physical damage. he might be scared to go around a certain district but he walk and function correctly.

don't you get 25 for killing someone non premeditated? how are you gonna get 30 for not killing the guy though?

2007-08-31 15:01:53 · 23 answers · asked by anonymous 2

know one thinks aim pretty

2007-08-31 14:37:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy and my class (mind you - I am in my early 20s). Anyway, we had to buddy up for a class that we are in. Which was fine with me...at first. So, we decide to meet up to discuss a project that we have to work on, which would have been fine, except.... he is so stinkin nice. He is not even really a looker, but he is so nice....I mean like really helped me out, and would help a old lady across the street . Most people would enjoy working with such a nice person. But not me. He makes me so nervous and I don't know know why. I hate the fact that I think that I am starting to like have a crush on the guy, just b/c he is nice. What should I do? I don't want to start ignoring him, but I think that I may have to. I just don't know how to act around him. And please don't tell me to just ask him out and or pursue anything with him. He has a lot of friend who are girls, and is generally a very nice person- so no, I do not thinks that he is interested in me so no advances

2007-08-31 13:51:50 · 6 answers · asked by breezy 3

My friend always gets the credit for everything! I love her but still, I created a dance move and taught it to her but she got the credit i did something but she got the crdit for it. Please help me. I love her but she has got to stop.

2007-08-31 13:15:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

need a friend

2007-08-31 12:12:25 · 17 answers · asked by tj 1

i just moved to a brand new school. it's so tough. i get lost so many times and i have some trouble making friends. i'm a very friendly person but i guess someone could say i'm a little shy. i don't want to act stupid and just go up to someone and tell them my name. but i really want to meet new people friend-wise and relationship-wise. i have my eye on this cutie that rides my bus that i'm interested in. and i also met one girl and she's a really nice friend but that's the only friend i have right now. so any advice please?

PS: if this helps, i ride a bus and there are a TON of kids at the school.

2007-08-31 11:09:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend wont let me help her. She acts like I'm the one causing it. Should I talk to her boyfriend since he is also my friend?

2007-08-31 10:45:34 · 34 answers · asked by Caslynn 1

A lot of women always have to be surrounded by at least one friend, they don't go out to the movies by themselves even if nobody wants to watch a certain movie with them and end up missing it, or go out and get a beer, they generally don't go out to grab a bite by themselves, are we that insecure? Its not like we can't take care of ourselves, or live in such an unsafe country where we may get kidnapped or shot. Should we be more independent?
Yesterday I went out to eat at a restaurant by myself and felt like everyone was looking at me in pity. I just help my head up and amused myself with thoughts, but couldn't help and wonder about the situation........
And in the past when I've gone out to get a beer at my local bar, I've felt like I have the words "I'm easy" on my forehead...... just awful, 'cause I sincerely do enjoy my own company!

2007-08-31 09:56:11 · 16 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3

i totally appreciate the flexibility of being bymyself. when i want a coffee or lunch i'd rather go by myself wander around and pick something up at leisure. Is there anyone else like that.

Also I have a challenging work load and dont talk about it too much, some colleagues go on and on ranting and proclaiming if they get something in their inbox. I find that people assume that they are the bussiest. Oh well!

2007-08-31 08:11:29 · 4 answers · asked by El Dorado 2

I fell in love with a guy,but we ended up being better off as friends.We were close friends for years until about 6 months ago,when he admitted he was in love with me.I had been with my current boyfriend a year,and felt so confused i left him for my best friend.However,i realised it was a mistake a little too late,and told my best friend i couldnt be with him,and i think it really hurt him,as he was saying he loved me & really didnt want to let me go again.Anyway 5 months on and he wouldnt talk to me,he would walk by me in the corridors without a word,and i could tell it was because he was annoyed,or upset.So today,on impulse i asked if i could speak to him,and said sorry,to which he replied 'you dont have to say sorry'(smiling!?) I then told him i just didnt want to act like strangers,and i missed him,as to which he replied 'i'll admit ive missed you too' with a smile,and then just started chatting away.How come he wouldnt talk to me before then,and was nice about it?!

2007-08-31 07:46:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im new to the school and Im in Highschool Im a pretty shy kid and I want to meet new people but Im SO shy about the whole thing can you help me I only have like one friend and its a boy I need a friend thats a girl

2007-08-31 07:39:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think, that the most beautiful thing for me, was made by my best friend, Miriam, in a moment of depression, she saved me from the suicide, and she was near and even now review as I couldn't live, without her friendship!

2007-08-31 07:32:11 · 17 answers · asked by Tony 4

2007-08-31 07:23:46 · 22 answers · asked by soulm8s7 2

Ok, I will share it with you and I am so embarrased.
I work in a huge company with around 700 people all together.
I am not English so one of my work colleage (male) often asks me to translate for him messages he receives from his friend (girls), cause I speak the language. Today he gave me another text but the message there was dirty and with many sexual issues. I told him I was too embarrased to translate it but he insisted so I finally did in on a piece of paper and handed it to him. After he read it after few minutes he came back to me and apologised for it telling me he did not know what the text could have been about. I liked him so I said it was ok. After about half an hour ANOTHER colleage from the work came to me and said he had seen the text and asked if it was me who translated this. INSIDE I felt soooo low but kept cool. He said MANY people have read this and laughed at it. Am I to be blamed? I FEEL totally quilty. Many people know about it now. Why did he do it? Help!

2007-08-31 06:49:06 · 19 answers · asked by tulip 4

2007-08-31 06:32:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-31 06:22:16 · 14 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

and she immediately turned the tables on you, like you
were to blame
LOL
funny friend
LOL

2007-08-31 06:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by tinabadina 3

my g.f. broke my heart, and i'm unable to patch-up my broken heart, can ANYONE HELP ME PLS!!

2007-08-31 03:24:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

shes a real biatch!!! she talks about people and says mean things about them. i sometimes do too but not like her most of the people she talks about r my crazy fmily members. her boyfriend is really rude too and they r both really ugly and she is really ugly and tall. who r they to talk about people? what would u do?

2007-08-31 02:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by msblack23 3

this guy i know kinda blows hot and cold with me..hes nice, v warm, friendly, chatty,he teases me, hes asked me to help him out wit different things (to my advantage)hes an attention seeker.sometimes when im talkin i feel as if he doesnt listen to me, he does this to other ppl aswell. he rarely answers my calls or replies to my texts. i dont call or text him that often just once a week, bt theres stuff that i have to ask him. as i need something from him..(cant say what, coz its business). i didnt ask for it, he asked me if i would like to do it so i agreed. the other day we had a cheeky text conversation where he sent me like 10texts back and forth..i just want you to give your FULL opinion on it.. why does he ignore my calls, and then text me like 10times back and over???? thanks!!

2007-08-31 02:04:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend has nothing to talk about on the phone he ask what i had for dinner, i tell him a little about school that's pretty much. what should i say to make the conversation more interesting.

2007-08-31 01:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by trini4life 1