this guy i know kinda blows hot and cold with me..hes nice, v warm, friendly, chatty,he teases me, hes asked me to help him out wit different things (to my advantage)hes an attention seeker.sometimes when im talkin i feel as if he doesnt listen to me, he does this to other ppl aswell. he rarely answers my calls or replies to my texts. i dont call or text him that often just once a week, bt theres stuff that i have to ask him. as i need something from him..(cant say what, coz its business). i didnt ask for it, he asked me if i would like to do it so i agreed. the other day we had a cheeky text conversation where he sent me like 10texts back and forth..i just want you to give your FULL opinion on it.. why does he ignore my calls, and then text me like 10times back and over???? thanks!!
2007-08-31 02:04:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like when he wants or needs something, he goes overboard and when he doesn't, he just doesn't care that much. I don't like friends who are hot and cold. That's selfish even if you get something out of it.
2007-08-31 02:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY!!! I had one of those for 2 years.He would send me texts when he needed something and I would oblige, but if I ever needed something from him he would text days later as he lost his phone was busy or a hundred other excuses. Things then get cheeky and we would text 200 times per day! Because he behaved so unavailable of course I fell or him, truth was that he was an attention seeker and an outrageous flirt, I finally had it out with him and he "liked" me but nothing else. He is playing a game and treat it as such!!" good luck!!
2007-08-31 02:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by patlynn2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he ignores you when he is doing something. Maybe he's hanging out with friends or another girl. Watch out for guys that do drugs hunnie. Most are players and losers. You don't want to be in a relationship with him. Maybe fool around a bit.
2007-08-31 02:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he is just playing, i wouldnt think anything more is going on otherwise he would reply to your texts and not just satisfiy his need for attention. I wouldnt bother if i was you your only inflating his already over sized iggo in my opinion. Find some other hot stuff to text lol goodluck with that.
2007-08-31 02:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by suzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's testing you to see how far he can push you and get away with it. Is he a good "lover"? Those kinda guys are so self-centered they usually flunk in the romance department and that's a good clue to hit the road!
2007-08-31 02:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an attention seeker like u said. he messes with u because u give him attention. he is the type that doesnt know what he wants so he will play around until that person stops. he will do this as long as he wants. he is actullay using you but to you it seems like u have the upper hand. i know i have seen this happen before. just be friends but have boundarys let him know when he crosses them. dont give in. give attention but also let him give to u
2007-08-31 02:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with him for a while, see what happens if he doesn't bother with you during this time get a new mate.
2007-08-31 02:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a self-absorbed person, who only interacts with you when he needs something from you. He takes and does not give. In short, completely selfish. Ditch him, quick.
2007-08-31 02:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Brenda T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he do this? He's a guy. We're kinda wired like that.
2007-08-31 02:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being teased. Stop being an easy target to this humour. Stop responding, and see how affects things. You are being so obvious.Play him at his own game
2007-08-31 02:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by bottle babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋