Me and my boyfriend has nothing to talk about on the phone he ask what i had for dinner, i tell him a little about school that's pretty much. what should i say to make the conversation more interesting.
2007-08-31 01:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by trini4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell Jokes, Play 20 questions, that is a good way to get his curiosity going. (make him be the guesser) Another fun thing to talk about hypothetical situations. "what would you do if...
Good luck!
2007-09-07 13:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh! I think even centenarians talk more than that, and that! after living together for 70 years.
Could it be that you don;'t find each other interesting?
Do you hang on to fill the status quo?
Maybe you should re evaluate what you relationship consists of.
If there is a spark, ask him of his interests, what he wants from the future and reciprocate in kind. Dare to dream!
I do not mean to be rude, but it reminds me of my oldest daughter's first bf. Complete in lack of ambition, nuance and life in general. I hope thats not the case with him.
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2007-09-08 01:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by hocnbury 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you interested in him as a person? Ask him about himself and his life? What does he want to do with his life - what career is he thinking about doing? Does he like sports? There is so much to his life that you don't know about and must be curious about. If he's good at something or has a favourite hobby, as him questions about it. Talk about something you are planning to do together - such as a special celebration or get together.
2007-09-07 23:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by aja5505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that the two of you have nothing in common if you have to make and effort to have a converstion and try to feel something to say it tells u that it really isn't all that much of a relationship. Get a Clue!
2007-09-08 07:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lesa Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys have no common interests and are bored with each other. Time to move on or spice it up by trying to sign up for doing things together that you both like.
2007-09-08 01:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by theperez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had you thought maybe you could ask him about his day and what you had maybe problems with maybe math or something he could maybe explain to you sometimes they can help and then you would better understand whatever you are having trouble. you know guys are generally good at math. there are so many things to talk about what is he going to do and did he do his homework now. stuff like that. hows his firends doing
2007-09-07 23:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan to do things together, like going to the movies or hiking or volunteering, that way you have some other things to talk about.
2007-09-08 02:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by gorjuspiper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you think your relationship is in a rut and you need to spice things up a bit that should get him started.
2007-08-31 09:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Tante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just anything....what ever it is it will become interesting if the one you are talking is important to you
2007-09-08 04:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by silveria w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what interests you both?, start your conversation from there.
2007-09-07 08:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by sunnie_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋