Friends - August 2007

I want to make friends over the net.

2007-08-31 00:51:40 · 19 answers · asked by Saheb 1

there's guy dat i've known him42 yrs now..i got2know him 2 summers ago were we spent every single day together..+another guy&girl..anyway he used2like me a lot..infact his whole family knew abt me which was a bit awkward buy anyway..i ended up gng out with the other guy..note i had like this guy45 yrs straight..anywayy moving on..last summer i stopped hanging out wti him till i met him again&we became bst frnds again..once we had a bad argument&started calling each other names&the nxt day i gt **** drunk&he ws the only guy frd2care abt me..anyway..this summer i realised he likes me again..but i dnt see him in that way..and now im kinda seeing his brother..&since then he's constantly saying rly nasty comments..or swearing@me4nothing! he's being rly cold&****..but then some days he acts just like an angle!!..shld i just 4get abt him??note wenever something happens he's always there, he is the only1who sticks up4me,der isnt any1 like him, he calls me his sister too..but im too =S help!

2007-08-30 21:52:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help please my friend is cutting herself what should i do?

2007-08-30 19:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by Eazy-E is da sh*t 3

okay at first my friend told me she was crying because her deep talks with her ex and send that convo to me and it was so sad and 2nd my friend boyfriend was sad and he was crying and he came to me for advice and stuff 3rd my friend and her boyfriend was joking around that they broke up and stuff i know it was a joke but then i cried because this happened all at once so i cried a lot because of this am i just too senstive or what? it all happened at once

2007-08-30 19:40:47 · 11 answers · asked by bianca 2

And you strongly feel the attraction too?

2007-08-30 19:18:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started high school a few days ago..in middle school i didnt have many friends, but now in high school during lunches i hang out with people i know and their friends. I dont mean to tag along so much but i dont have any other people to hang out with. I dont like how so many people are still in their cliques from middle school. I don't belong in any kinda sterotypical group. i guess you could say im sort of a floater with no good friends.

what should i do? i dont know how to befriend someone that will not turn their back on me like my old 'friends' did.

2007-08-30 19:17:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

we cryed and prayed for lord to let time not fly but walk

2007-08-30 19:10:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didn't see my friend for about 6 months. Now she comes to stay at my house for 2 days.
I would like to greet her in a good way but now a little bit out of money - I can spend not so much. Any ideas where I can take her and what to do at the weekend? What to cook?

P.S.: We are 22 and 24, girls. I live in a city with population of 1000000 people, there is a small forest near my house and the Volga river. I live alone.

2007-08-30 18:35:23 · 7 answers · asked by Natalya Ch 2

Well my question is that Don't you hate it when you help and comfort your friend all the time but when you have a problem they don't give a dam about you and they just pretend they just care?

Well I have this friend in school, and its the exact situation as I mention above and it seems like she could care less about you or anybody before herself! She always says what ever. Don't you hate that? Have you ever experienced this before?

2007-08-30 18:09:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 4

2007-08-30 18:06:28 · 9 answers · asked by Mick F 2

So because of my last name i got this nickname "crotch". When people call me that I usually don't have a good comeback. Any ideas? Greatly appreciated!

2007-08-30 17:33:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My first week at high school as a 9th grader and i realized that i have no friends. The mob that i used to hang with in middle school left me. At brunch and lunch nobody looks for me to hang out with, even my old friends. When i see them, i stand by them, but everyone is talking about something i cant relate to, and i can never find something i can say to them.

I cant start a conversation, i cant join one either. Sometimes i want to say something, but it wont come out right and it sounds lame, boring, or irrelevant. I feel intimidated by popular people who don't care about what i have to say. How can i relate to my group of friends, and how can i get them interested in me and what i have to say.

I cant stand being alone, so when i cant find my friends i go to the long cafeteria lines to blend with the crowd. Or ill go to the bathroom for 5 minutes. I cant go up to random people, even in my classes, and ask them if to be my friend, cause they'll no i have no friends.

2007-08-30 17:31:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ONe day my friend glances oddly at my legs which i don't shave because i don't think i'm ready. I have light blonde hair though.
And the conversation went like this with her(h) starting (i am M)
H god you have so much hair
M i like the way i am
h snicker
m Stop bugging me i look just like you did before u shaved
h glare,i wasnt THAT (glance at my legs menacingly) bad
m it's not like im godzilla or something
h Glare and fake cough more snickers I wasn't a godzilla either in a mocky tone

m yea well you're acting like one now.
I thought her response now realising i was hurt would be i didn't mean to offend you case closed.

But the whole trip she was deathly mean. Starting it up again really loudly in a packed movie theatre making me the an idiot, storming out and snickering with our other friends, and then still not understanding my intentions and then picking on 1 of our more chubby friends.
Should i let it go or stay nuetral w/ her for a while? was i wrong in my actions did she overr

2007-08-30 17:10:59 · 23 answers · asked by Shhhh 4

ok, i really like this guy, but hes 19, and im 14. so obviously we cant go out. he comes to my house all the time though cuz we have a skateboard ramp and halfpipe in our backyard and hes a skater. hes really sweet and respectful but the other day we were sitting on the bench outside of my house and we were talking. then there was that awkward silence and at the same time, we just turned to each other and kissed. after that we kinda held hands for a while. then he said "i gotta go" and he went home. i feel really weird about it and i havnt told anyone. has this ever happened to anyone else and is there any way i can get over this weird feeling i have about it?

2007-08-30 16:32:29 · 41 answers · asked by ? 4

Yea my friend juz went to the hospital due to drinkin way to much alcohol n had an ulcer attack, i dont kno wut to get him could u please help me out! thx <3

2007-08-30 16:21:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am schizophrenic but My symptoms are all gone. I will also talk about being conscious (made up word) and something about my social skill.

2007-08-30 16:10:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been friends with this individual for three years. we work together and talk about our problems. I changed from the shift she was working at to another. even though we are not working together anymore, I still kept calling her and talking to her. I used to talking to her about my problems and she the same. but lately every time I call her. she talks about her problems I listen to her but when I start talking my problems she cuts me off by saying I will call you right back. what do you do to person like this? I need advice on this.

2007-08-30 16:02:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anna 1

I have this friend,
she is VERY VERY VERY clingy, I am TIRED OF IT!
She's always following me, and standing too close, and always hugging me, if I tell her I need my space for a while she gets upset and it gets me upset to see her upset!
SHE WON'T LEAVE ME ALONE.
I'm afraid I might scream at her the next time she goes near me.

How do I tell her to go away, without hurting her feelings?...


.....SHE IS NOT GAY. OR BI. so dont answer saying that, okay? ew.

2007-08-30 14:15:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

A good friend of mine has just had her best friend admit that she is in love with her. She already has a boyfriend and isn't interested in being with girls. And even though she still wants to be good friends with her, it is now really odd for my friend to hang out with her. She doesn't know how to react or what and if she can do anything about. She wouldn't ask the question so I'm asking it for her. Does anyone have an idea of what she should do?

2007-08-30 13:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by Kait 2

2007-08-30 13:15:46 · 7 answers · asked by rippedec11 1

Pretty much the only privacy I get is in the bathroom!!!!

2007-08-30 13:14:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't have an address for them. Now their phone has been disconnected, and I am not getting any e-mail responses from them. Is this how people who are supposed to care about eahc other treat each other? Where's the trust, the faith, the honesty? Is it no wonder today that when people need help, we are afraid to help them? Does this change my mind about helping people? No. It just makes me more aware of how untruthful, dishonest, and unkind people can be. How easy it is to use people for whatever it is they need. I guess I'm gullible, but I always believed in people and to this day I still do. I just feel bad that somebody I considered a friend would knowingly do something like this to me. Welll, I say... I CAN FACE GOD KNOWING THAT I HELPED SOMEBODY OUT WHO SAID THEY NEEDED HELP... YOU HAVE TO FACE GOD AND EXPLAIN WHY YOU LIED AND DID WHAT YOU DID. MY CONSCIENCE IS CLEAR.

2007-08-30 11:34:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbands best friend, is always at our house, he comes by after he gets off work, eats dinner and leaves around 9 pm when we retire for the evening, on Friday nights he generally stays all night and the remainder of the weekend leaving on Sunday. I don't mind him there occassionally but it is getting old and he does not get the hint that we need some quality family time.

2007-08-30 11:09:06 · 7 answers · asked by rp 2

well my best friend of two years sent me an e-mail the other day and said he didn't wanna be best friends anymore because i was too annoying and pessamistic or somehtin..............i might remind you that i'm only pesamistic because i care about the lives of those around me................................when he said what he said my heart shattered and i was crying till no more tears came out.....now i've gone into depression mode..................the next day he was being all nice to me as if nothing happend.............so i was trying to go along with it............anyhoo he said we can still be friends just not as close..........now he doesn't even talk to me..........everyone is saying i need to let him go but i still love him...yes like that and as a friend................its killing me inside ..i haven't eaten for days.......................................i don't know what to do...............i keep asking God but, he is giving me a wait

2007-08-30 11:06:14 · 6 answers · asked by Azarel 2

A little over a month ago, my best friend of 10 years moved in with my boyfriend and I. She decided that the north was not for her, she got approved for a transfer down south. I offered to let her stay here until she found a place to stay. I told her I didnt expect her to pay anything that would remain the same whether she was here or not. However water and electricity would not. Well she seems to have made her mark. She has talked about staying here until December until she goes to Mexico. She has made no contributions to any bills and has contributed about 80 dollars to food cost. She has decorated my guest room to her liking, and small things like that. She complains about what I have in my fridge...washes clothes whenever she feels like it....and leaves everything a mess...a dirty mess. I dont know if she's just "confortable" and feels that our life long friendship permits her to act this way...or is she just plain rude...I dont want to hurt our friendship in the least bit.

2007-08-30 11:04:38 · 2 answers · asked by andy 1

I've found out that my boyfriend doesn't love me, I know he just wants just to be with me but not a real love. I realy love him. I know I will miss him and I got depressed after that. what could I do? I realy love him, but I like to have bothside relationship.

2007-08-30 10:56:27 · 5 answers · asked by lili 1

A friend and I had a disagreement that ended up being big mess.Hell it caused our friendship.My husband & I, decided to take a trip to canada.During our ride I notice I had several miss calls & a voice message from her.I rarely had signal, so as soon as I had one I called her & left a mesg. clearly stating that I was away & will be back within a few days.Upon returning,I contacted her to see what seem to be so urgent. She began to wien and nag about he fiance's bachelor party & how much she hated his friends.I decided to hear her out then tried to calm her down & talked about my trip. She then began to attack me and ask why do I always act so perfect.I ignored her bridezilla episode until she began to throw in my face our friendship & everything I confided in her. I told her she was acting childing & to appoligize but she refused. I gave her a few days to calm down to talk thing over.But b4 I had the chance to talk to her my cell phone was flooded with childish insulting text mesgs.

2007-08-30 10:23:57 · 37 answers · asked by Authentick Wifey 1

I moved schools last year and i havent made any friends. I am always on my own and depressed. When it was my first week i had someone that was looking after me and then 3 weeks later her and her friends just ditched me. That really upset me and i cant stop thinking about it. It is a really small school like theres 20 people in my year and they all have their friendship groups. Someone else who started before me has got friends and she was one of the ones who left me on my own. I think she is so selfish and horrible. What is wrong with me? Why should she have friends if she is horrible. Im not horrible. I treat people like humans- not like dirt. I cant sleep now because im dreading next week. What am i going to do with myself? I have 2 years left at school and i cant wait to leave. I cant take it anymore. Im just feeling so depressed now. Im probarly going to fail my GCSE's now because im so unhappy at school. Please anyone help.
Thanks

2007-08-30 08:05:12 · 47 answers · asked by _x_ hannah_x_ 1

testerday i saw from the window of my house my g/f in the next house in 'standup on a chair' position. i first thought she was doing something then when i looked carefully i realised that she was being in punished posture.. i also saw her private tutor sitting beside her with a rular in hand. its so embarassing for both of us as we noticed each other. we yet to meet after that.how can i make it easy for both of us.

2007-08-30 07:15:11 · 2 answers · asked by hjhafhag 1

ok i took one of my roomates 3 eggs and uesd some milk from one of her milk jugg because i was starving and had no food i feel bad for it so im going to by her a carton of eggs and some milk and bread

2007-08-30 06:54:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous