I just started high school a few days ago..in middle school i didnt have many friends, but now in high school during lunches i hang out with people i know and their friends. I dont mean to tag along so much but i dont have any other people to hang out with. I dont like how so many people are still in their cliques from middle school. I don't belong in any kinda sterotypical group. i guess you could say im sort of a floater with no good friends.
what should i do? i dont know how to befriend someone that will not turn their back on me like my old 'friends' did.
2007-08-30 19:17:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I went to three different high school cuz we moved so much.So, I was shy and sometimes friendless.
What I learned. Durning high school. it is ok to just have one or two friends. Groups dwindle as we age.
Join a group that has kids like you. Or if you see someone alone and shy. Go up to them and say. are you new? Can I sit by you. And the best way to get someone to like you is to show a lot of interest in them. Ask questions. Don't be too anxious.
I had times when I just went to the library. Very depressing during lunch. I did find a friend there and we started to hang out at lunch time. Then she met a guy and she became punk to be like him. Then we did't have a thing in common.
I joined the choir. The art group. Volenteered for things.
Eventually a girl who I was shy around - we literally bumped in to each other and had some small talk. We had everything in common. We became fast friends. And are still connected over the years.
Don't give up and don't compermise your self to be in a group.
I was taken in to the popular group and I had the chance to be one of them. I didn't like it. And that is when I went to the library.
Remember this time of your life is very brief in the big picture of your life.
Can you analyze why you felt old friends turned their backs on you? Usually they are insecure. And belittle people to make themselves feel better.
2007-08-30 19:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join a club at school. Find someone to talk to that has something in common with you. That way you can share your interests, and eventually you will get close enough to share your feelings too.
2007-08-30 19:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well d 1st way to bfrd som1 is to understand d way dey r .then try getng to b interesting 4 dem.being jovial always works.avoid kiddish talks.b jovial but dont turn out to b a clown.n yeah being frdly ,sharing n helping ppl wil win u frds
2007-08-30 19:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋