Friends - May 2007

Ok, i didnt know to phrase it in a short way so im going to try to explain here. Its not that i dont fit- i do. we spend hours on the phone and at school and everything. They are my BEST friends ( theres 6 of us) In primary school i totally felt weird, in secondary i feel more like myself but i REALLY cant wait till college, i like being around mature people, i guess i matured quickly. so when my friends go out, they want to sit in a park and stare at boys playing football or go and hang around on the street (with boys again) and chase after boys. If i like a boy we go out together on a date, i dont like sitting in parks gawping at random boys. I want to go to fancy clubs and hang out with different people, who i've never met before, do fun stuff that ISNT illegal but i'm not one of those girls who sits around in parks smoking and drinking. Thats not my idea of fun. Should i try to be more like them? Or just be myself and do what i like

2007-05-31 23:12:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a very old friend i have known since i was 10 years old. He has always had feelings for me, but i have never felt the same way, but it has never been a problem.

Over the last few years, he's lost both his parents and is very lonely. He came to my wedding and wrote in the guest book, how lucky my husband was to have me and i have had texts from him since i got married last year saying that he wished he had asked me out years ago and that i would be with him.

I want to be able to go and see him, after losing his dad recently, but my husband knows about the texts and is not that happy.... what do i do, he is one of my oldest friends and i want to be there for him at the difficult time, but i dont want to upset my husband.

2007-05-31 22:17:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well, theres this girl, funny how lots of my questions start out like that, ne ways theres this girl...ive known her since i was like 3 months old. her and i were best friends, then i moved. i didnt move to a different town just the compleat opposite side of town. well her and i lost contact after awhile and i thought that was it...i never forgot about her though...then 8 yrs later this wounderful thing known as myspace got her and i reconnected...well now her and i r friends again but its not the same...i know it wouldnt be like it used ot cuz we were only 8 or 9 last time we were friends...but still its not like i figured it would be. we have been talking for over a yr now and she says im still her best guy friend..but her and i have only hung out like 3 or 4 times in a course of an entire year....i dont know if its that im not the same or if its shes not the same...i wish we could be more of friends...she means the world to me but i fell like i dont really mean much to her...

2007-05-31 21:29:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. i have a problem. i want to get my life back together again, i've been slacking off, but it's hard. the thing is, i'm really really easily influenced by other people and when i'm friends with someone, i seem to get very emotionally, i don't know, warped or sth. no, i don't get needy, instead i feel like i'm responsible for the other person's happiness or sth, it sounds ridiculous i know but that's it, i just can't detach myself emotionally from the people i care about and i know others don't feel this way. i'm sick of feeling used. i'm sick of feeling responsible for other people's happiness. i'm sick of feeling responsible for everything. and i'm sick of getting all caught up and then finding out that other people don't feel as strongly as i do. i don't need them to feel this way either. i just want myself to stop! how do i do this?

2007-05-31 20:24:24 · 6 answers · asked by donna_pnctt 1

ive always ben the tallest girl in the class, the artsy one, the anti-girly-dumb blone one, the funny chick w/ a great personality, and da crazy 1. i like b-ing diffrent, n now im not so diffrent any more.

2007-05-31 20:23:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple of months ago My daughter and I invited her "best friend" to go camping with us on the 4th of july. Lately her friend hasn't been talking or playing with my daughter at school. I told her to ask her why. The girl says she's not mad just that the kids call my daughter a "geek" and that she doesn't want to be a "geek" too so she hasn't been playing with her. It doesn't really bother my daughter at all but it bothers me. Basically this girl is telling my daughter that she's ok to play with outside of school away from the peer pressure but at school is a different story. Should I just let my daughter handle this or should I step in and tell her she can't go camping with us? I told my daughter that if she's going to be friends with this girl that she shouldn't have to hide it. Should I call and talk with her mother or just let it go and see what happens? Thank you:-}

2007-05-31 20:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents taught me that I have to be strong, I have to have faith in myself and most of all that I have to love myself, because that is the most important thing. No one can do it for you. Self trust goes a long way!! Be strong and take things in stride, some people are way too serious!! Love yourself first, then others will naturally love you too!!

2007-05-31 19:31:30 · 15 answers · asked by Lori F 6

I feel that a friend I have is slowly slipping away. I mean, we still talk and share the same class, so that helps. We even occasionally (though not weekly or sometimes monthly) hangout.

I just see that other friends are pulling him away. I mean that as in, they spend more friend time and I'm not sure if hat means my friend relationship with him is fading.

What do you do to keep someone in friend status. I mean, of course, what do you normally do with your friends? I do have other friends, just the history with this friend and all would suck to lose (like all friendships).

2007-05-31 18:40:15 · 3 answers · asked by Moozor 1

my best friend changed her clothes in the dining area where we work.i think because we had no customers.the other employees took little notice.I looked away while she changed,but i glanced over just as she had started putting on her pants.now i feel guilty about seeing my best friend with her pants down.shes never done this before.was i wrong?i feel so guilty.

2007-05-31 18:03:46 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

We just moved into this neighborhood a month ago. Just this past week our daughters made friends with these kids down the street. Thats all fine and dandy, but the one little girl, she just won't go away. She is only 4 years old and her brother is 6 and they just run up and down the street all day long. Both of my daughters weren't feeling well yesterday so I made them stay in. This little girl, I promise was down here at least 20 times asking if they could play. Each time telling her, no, they are sick, you can come back tomorrow. Eventually the mom comes down to see if they can play and I tell the mom the same thing. Well the girl comes down 3 more times. Today they were down here almost all day long, I tell her she needs to go home for about an hour so they can eat, and she is back every 15 minutes to see if they can play. It is really getting on my nerves bad, summer is just starting and I don't want these kids down here everyday. How do I tell the mom they cant be here everyday?

2007-05-31 17:41:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-31 16:19:07 · 13 answers · asked by SATISH KUMAR N 3

I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

2007-05-31 15:25:30 · 6 answers · asked by SkaterChika 1

why would a online friend of 7 years lie about the country he is from ? we have been close chat friends for the past seven years . he knows everything about me and my life and i thought i knew him. but i recently learned and not by his own admission that he is not from the country he told me he was from . and when i ask him to explain he just refuses to do so. and i half't to wonder what else he has lied about. has anyone ever have this happen to them . please only serious reply's and no nasty comments please.

2007-05-31 15:23:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's 2 years older than her and know for a fact he has hit her on the cheek because she had a huge bruise on her face and instead tod everyone it was a sports injury. There's rumors that if she leaves him, he will hurt her! I've never met him and I don;t knwo why but even though I'm one of her close friends she doesn't tell me anything! I've been hearing all abotu thsi from someone she hardly knows on her sports team, and shes also has told her cousins and theyve told me also! I knwo I shoudl tell someone but should I wait until I have solid proof?

2007-05-31 14:13:59 · 17 answers · asked by Juls 2

ok this girl last year in seventh grade started spreading rumers about me(very bad rumers).I was told that I could never be friends with her again.The rumers ruined my life.Should I forgive her?

2007-05-31 14:08:39 · 25 answers · asked by rain<3 3

My friend got really PO'd at me because I quit the job that she helped me get. She works there and she thinks that I gave her a bad rep. She called me two days ago and pretty much let me have it... I felt really bad so yesterday I made an apology card, walked to her house and put it in her mailbox. Was this a good step to take? So far I haven't gotten a response from her.... Please help.

2007-05-31 13:56:27 · 21 answers · asked by Chris H 3

so i waved but it was to some other girl behind me, I'm so embarassed what should i do??!!

2007-05-31 13:17:33 · 17 answers · asked by girly_girl7576 1

I knew a girl from 1st grade, & I just reunited with her & we sort of became friends, & I just had to cut her loose because she's trying to take advantage of me. She wants me to pay with my student loan refund check for her & her boyfriend to get married & have a wedding shower, but she just got with this dude, & she wants to marry him so she can get out of her mom's house. She's bisexual & has HPV & wants to turn me out. I don't feel comfortable about that. Also, she's trying to compete with my best friend & trying to brainwash me, saying that my best friend is no good for me. But I know the truth. I had to make a choice to cut her loose & keep my best friend because my best friend is a true friend unconditionally. Now I feel bad about cutting this girl loose, but I just HAD to.

2007-05-31 13:09:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

k Well tomorrow im hanging out with my friend's including this guy who likes me..i like him too a little. We've liked each other on and off and he wants to hookup with me. I'm not sure if i want to hookup with him. He's cute but not typically the guy i would go for which is why im not sure but hes nice to me & so funny! But the thing is i would hookup with him but ive only hooked up once before so i guess im nervous too. Should i just do it?! [btw. hooking up means to make out where i live]

2007-05-31 12:59:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got no friends

2007-05-31 12:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by nelly the elephant 1

hi im heading off on a trip to australia next year stopping off in Singapore along the way for 2 weeks, I am travelling with 2 of my friends they are a couple(boy and girl), once we get to Australia we have a few friends over there so thats ok, my question is do
you think its a good idea to travel with a couple or should I go alone and meet them over in Oz, they are pretty cool and I dont really dig doin the stopover thing alone. im a male from NY

2007-05-31 12:36:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

one of my friends keeps telling every1 who i like & every time im talking to him she comes over and makes a dumb comment. ive told her to shut up about it but she always says that im over reacting. what should i do?

2007-05-31 12:34:44 · 16 answers · asked by nikki 1

Here's the story. She has boyfriend but her parents found out and BEAT her really badly. When I tried to say it was OK and things will get better she would say "no it wont, I don't want to live in my house no more. I just want to die." I'm really worried because the day after her parents found out she came to school with a big bruise under her eye; then she told me that her parents beat her and her dad kicked her in the eye. I don't know what to do! If i tell our counselor they will tell social services then take her and her 4 year old brother away. Or, if i don't tell she will be continually beat by her parents. I'm really scared because the weekend is coming up and I don't know what will happen to her. (please give me advice)

2007-05-31 12:30:27 · 36 answers · asked by Dj Danger 2

How can I find a pen pal, and know that they aren't some creepy wierdo? I love to write, and it would be nice to have someone to write to that I don't know (guy or girl, doesn't matter, I just don't want any creeps).

Also, does anyone on here know a Maxine Holden (I think). Around 15-16. Lives (or lived) in Cheney, WA around 6 years back. Brown hair. Same with an Amber Norman or Newman. Something like that. Any help is much appreciated.

2007-05-31 11:59:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont kno if i like him still ...his name is travon..he is really cute ..i dont want to tell her not to like him cause she likes him too choops!!then again he is really cute.but now i heard he likes nadish, dont ask who she is cause i dont kno..he didnt blush wen they said that but he acted the same way wen he used to like me and denied it ..i think he might like her now i dont know wat to to do. if to tell him my friend or nadish.. .do i still like him??????????help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-31 11:41:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hiya ppl i need help i need 2 tell sum about me starting but i cart and its more to tha please could u add my msn and talk betta on there x_xflexiex_x'hotmail.com please help !!!

2007-05-31 11:27:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a super girly girl but I don't like any of the other girly girls in my class. all of my friends are like tomboys. But they never like what I really like!

What should I do?

2007-05-31 10:58:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone treats me as if im a cute little girl just cuz i like to smile a lot.
i want to be treated differently like im a mature teenager that way everyone takes me seriously.

i admit it, im not indpendent most of the time cuz i dont know a lot of people so i follow my friends but i want people to take me seriously and like me, i dont know how?

2007-05-31 10:50:16 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2

i wan to know if my freind got put in Juvie where can i find that out for free besides him, his fam. or freinds?????? and if he is in Juvie is there anyway to get ahold of him there?????

2007-05-31 10:27:53 · 4 answers · asked by got.to.get.over.him. =] 2

It used to be 3 of us, always together everywhere we went. Then I started dating a guy neither one of them thought was good for me. (BTW, this was 5 years ago and I am still with him) They both alienated me and I ended up cutting them both out my life. One of the girls I have known since I was 12 and the other I just met in college. I could care less about the college friend because the things she has done but my best friend, I miss. I introduced them and they didn’t even like each other at the beginning, I had to practically beg them to hang together. I think maybe the college friend did some brain washing and turned my best friend against me. I have heard tons of rumors on things they’ve said about what actually went down and I’m over it. I really want to know if there is a way I could mend my friendship with my best friend. The only problem is that she is now best friends with the college friend. How do I mend one friendship and not the other?

2007-05-31 10:22:54 · 7 answers · asked by SexyMommy2B 4