k Well tomorrow im hanging out with my friend's including this guy who likes me..i like him too a little. We've liked each other on and off and he wants to hookup with me. I'm not sure if i want to hookup with him. He's cute but not typically the guy i would go for which is why im not sure but hes nice to me & so funny! But the thing is i would hookup with him but ive only hooked up once before so i guess im nervous too. Should i just do it?! [btw. hooking up means to make out where i live]
2007-05-31 12:59:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hahah gamer! Your comment is funny...i know what you mean though. But i meant that i like him because it's funny
2007-05-31 13:04:49 · update #1
and of course...all im doing is making out!!! i wouldn't go any further than that!!
2007-05-31 13:15:58 · update #2
hook up with him if thats what you want, just dont be a tease, sounds like you really want to do the hook up, go for it
2007-05-31 13:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant see any reason why not. I mean the only strong reason you have given to us sofar is that he is not typically the guy you go for. Stuff it, not even girls know what they want in a guy, they can make lists and stuff and they will end up going with a different guy anyway.
Not sure what your expecting to gain from this, if all you wanna do is hook up then so be it.
2007-05-31 20:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm... yes
The actual answer to your question (in my opinion, of course) is that it doesn't really matter. Doing so won't matter in the long term IF all you're doing is making out.
If you're thinking about doing more, then there are of course other things that you need to consider, such as what you want out of a relationship of any sort, if he'll treat you well, if you're compatible with him, if he wants the same thing that you do, if he's trustworthy, if you are sure you're attracted to him, etc. But all of that is for another question.
My one piece of solid advice is to avoid ending up alone with him. Just like, make out in the corner of a room with other people in it or something. I want you to understand how important it is to realize that even nice boys who you think you know can do stupid things if given the opportunity.
2007-05-31 20:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Joy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my guy friend (not my boyfriend) since 2nd grade asked me out a couple months ago and I was REALLY nervous. (BTW: he WAS my first boyfriend) any way I'd say yes and if you've been together before start from were you left of. Trust me don't start from the begining if want to keep him. Guys, all they want is s*x BUT don't start there that would be wierd.
2007-05-31 20:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Shazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, you just tell him that you are not ready to do it yet, there's nothing wrong about saying that, you can't just do it because he's nice to you or he is funny
believe me when you really like to do it with someone , you won't ask, you will do it so as long as you are not sure then don't do it...have a nice hanging out with your friends
2007-05-31 20:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hook up if you both want to. You'll spend afterwards regretting it, or wondering what might have happened, if you don't hook up. Besides, it will give you more experience as well. Enjoy yourself, you're still young!! Just don't go too far.
2007-05-31 20:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by kimagain90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya go for it. You don't want to miss the opportunity or look back and wish you had. If you two share an attraction then go for it.. it doesn't hurt to try right?
2007-05-31 20:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by yeup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, just go out. Don't rush into the making out stuff just yet. Watch out for traps, like if they just pretended to hook you up just to see you humiliated. But, that's probably pushing it. Go out on a date, make out later, have fun!!
2007-05-31 20:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Chloe Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sure you have the same feelings as him then why not, but if your not sure you shouldn't you don't want to toy with the boy. Best Luck in what ever you decide.
2007-05-31 20:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by snuggleiscute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it matter if hes funny or not? since your only making out if hes hott go for it. its not like you need to be in hystarical laughter to enjoy how he kisses or anything
2007-05-31 20:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by x1yofuzzy1x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋