my best friend changed her clothes in the dining area where we work.i think because we had no customers.the other employees took little notice.I looked away while she changed,but i glanced over just as she had started putting on her pants.now i feel guilty about seeing my best friend with her pants down.shes never done this before.was i wrong?i feel so guilty.
2007-05-31 18:03:46 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why do you feel guilty?she did that on purpose maybe she wont to be more than just best friends. She wanted you to see her in a different way think about it isn't there restrooms there.
2007-05-31 18:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are a guy... and frankly, if my "guy" best friend decided to drop his pants in a work dining area, I would probably watch. You shouldn't feel guilty...although I understand why you might...Were you standing guard or something for her? Was she aware that you were there? I don't think it is a HUGE deal, but if perhaps you should tell her that you peeked.
2007-06-01 01:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Just a writer at the sea... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-- its not wrong, its not like you purposely looked! A girl at my work who im not close to at all changed in the office and i didnt know she was changing so when i walked by the office I saw her putting on a shirt. I felt like people might of thought it was on purpose but, No one said anything! I just felt weird. But theres nothing to feel guilty about =]
2007-06-01 01:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She changed in the freakin dining room! If she didn't want you to look she would have gone in the bathroom. Do NOT feel guilty- it was a natural reaction to peek!
2007-06-01 01:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T FEEL GUILTY. THAT'S WHAT SHE WANTED FOR YOU TO DO. SEE HER WITH HER CLOTHS OFF SHE PROBABLY WANT YOU! I BET YOU THE OTHER EMPLOYEES WERE GIRLS THAT'S WHY THEY TOOK LITTLE NOTICE........WHAT DON'T TELL ME THAT THERE IS NO GIRLS ROOM IN THAT PLACE OTHER WISE SHE WAS PROBABLY DRUNK ... STILL DON'T FEEL GUILTY. IT OVER AND YOU ENJOYED THE VIEW LIFE GOES ON.....
2007-06-01 01:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by yiselmaribel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think you did nothing wrong ...
she shouldnt of been changing in the middle of the dining area
men in general are atracted to womens "features"
if she didnt want you to look she should of changed somewhere else!!
2007-06-01 01:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by bay_bear2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it...the mere fact that she changed in public means she doesnt really care
2007-06-01 01:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by Beachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No who cares. Your a guy and it'sto be expected that your going to look. Every guy would look. It's not normal if they don't. So you have no worries unless she's mad.
2007-06-01 01:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by firsttimemommy_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was changing out in the open so i don't think she should care and no its not wrong to look, sometimes it just happens.
2007-06-01 01:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened. It's over. No big deal...
2007-06-01 01:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋