i got no friends
2007-05-31 12:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by nelly the elephant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No one is a looser so get that out of your head, sometimes people say that because your different or sometimes because they are jeleous of you.
There is nothing wrong with being different, maybe you have just not found your niche is life yet.
You probably have more friends then you realize, you just are so worried about what the nasty people are saying that your missing the good people.
Look around you, your not a looser. If someone thinks you are then they are the looser because they are depriving themselves of a chance to get to know you!
2007-05-31 13:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey cheer up, your not a loser there are just some things about you that other people aren't in to and so what you will meet friends that are interested in the things you are, that is if you get out and do the things you like to do and not let people opinions or judgement stop you from being who you are.
I use to have a lot of friends back in the day but I don't really hang any more because I'm not into the party scene or fighting so I just really keep to myself. I have a few friends but I try not to have any and just be friendly with everyone.
Just be yourself and cheer up and don't let other people get you down on yourself.
Cheers.
2007-05-31 20:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you shy or haven't found anyone that you can talk on the
same level with ? That's not being a loser. Some just don't
like everyone acting artifical. Some can put on an act, and some can't.Try observing and find some guiet one as you and try to carry on a make believe conversation. Try out like on stage but slower, you might surprise yourself you can do the same as some of the others. Practice at home in front
of a mirrow if that helps. Like what do you like for sports, or favorite subject, do you like this school who's you worst teacher have fun with it
same
2007-05-31 20:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by kittycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok your not a loser no matter what they say. And chances are there are friends all around you that you don't notice. How do I know? I'm 15 years old and weigh close to 300 hundred pounds. Look really closely and you'll see that there are friends all around you. Once I opened my eyes and realized that I became one of the most popular people in my class because shortly after I "found" my friends I was offered to become one of the preps. Not because I was pretty or smart or rich but because the biggest prep of them all found out that more people loved me than liked her. All in all you just need to look around you and find your friends. No matter what ANYONE says you are not a loser and you need to quit feeling sorry for yourself. NOW!!!!!
2007-05-31 20:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by ebeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So....look at yourself and figure out what makes you a loser with no friends. Obviously you must be lacking in some social skill or quality that makes people like you because aquaintences are not that hard to come by. Ask yourself....am I a liar , am I a braggart, do I hog the whole conversation, Do I not offer any conversation, Is it all about me, ...in other words take a true hard look at yourself and figure out why people don't like you and then change it and you'll make friends just fine.
2007-05-31 20:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if someone called you a loser they are just have no self confidence try to read the clique books because they make fun of other people and the truth is,there not that pretty either just try to make some friends like in the neighbor hood and such
2007-05-31 20:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through a stage of depression, just try look on the bright side of things....they do get beta in a end...best to join clubs or get into social things u like and meet ppl that share the same interest...and make new friends:) gd luck
2007-05-31 20:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok have you ever tried to be like someone else? try it for a day and change your whole act. Or have you ever tried to talk to someone? try it you might make friend! The person you talk to doesn't have to be the koolest person in the skool but talk to someone! Oh and btw don't be a loser be a LONER its much kooler!
2007-05-31 20:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tigger p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get so angry when i hear this. What gives those pre-pubesent punks the right to say that sh@t. I wouldnt take that laying down. Dont belive it, you are a product of your thinking, if you think you are a loser you will become one.
Confront them (either verbally or bash the shi t out of them) and prove them wrong. You cant allow this to happen, you just cant.
2007-05-31 19:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
having no friends doesn't make you a loser.what makes you a loser is living with your parents arter the age of 20,being a bum and doing drugs,and living on the streets if you canhelp it!
2007-05-31 20:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by baginjackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋