Friends - August 2007

i have a friend who is J.W and she is always asking for things from me and when she visits my home she is always taking stuff as well and at first i really did not have n e problem but it has just hit me that it is going on for 14 years now. she basically receives more than she gives and it should be vice versa. esp. if you call youself a J.W. when i travel she is asking for me to make sure that i carry back something for her, but actions speaks louder than words so i did not carry back n e thing for her. it is irritaitng me now.
tell me what do you think?
thanks

2007-08-30 06:32:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend said that she going to start college with me, but then she said she doesn't know what to do. She keeps saying that the college hasn't rang her and that she doesn't know what to do [well obviously you should ring up] but she's not doing that for some reason. she's stuck between 2 colleges and she keeps saying im her best friends and stuff but also says that shes really going to miss me. She keeps playing with my heart and feelings and its really annoying. i know i will make new friends [which is going to be scary] ,(i also kinda find it hard but thats life i guess....) Do you think (well its kinda obvious) its fair whats she's doing? Telling me one thing then doing the other. Because she practicaly is my best friend, and i dont want to lose her.

2007-08-30 04:48:26 · 1 answers · asked by (Persepolis) 4

2007-08-30 04:26:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were playing catch in a group. She is a good friend. I told her I was sorry, what else should I do? She seems to be angry/avoiding me. She wasn't injured but she had a lump on her forehead and it was kind of purple for awhile. She cried a bit.

2007-08-30 04:22:18 · 9 answers · asked by Chuck W 1

A few years back, I was kind of ditched and ostracised by some very close friends and that put me in depression for a while. Now that I have come out of it, I find that I don't know how to trust anyone. I want to, but I just don't know who is the right one to trust. I am afraid once I trust someone, he will turn out to be like those friends of mine that I had. Once I think a new friend doesn't reply fast enough to my text, or says no to my invitation for something, I will distant away fromthem even though looking back, they are very nice to me and I don't think they are trying to turn me away. When peiple are nice to me, I don't believe it. How do you know who are the people to trust and how do you know when people are giving you polite excuses to turn you away or that they are genuinely occupied with other things at the moment?

2007-08-30 04:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by tu 1

just asking it of curiousity. to know the avg. age XX

2007-08-30 00:28:53 · 32 answers · asked by Kriti 2

2007-08-30 00:23:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

suppose that your job is :

very stressfull,
less paid (like pocket money),
multidisiplinary ,
time consuming,
the places are dirty,
unfair,
it is your supplementary work (like spare time work -not your profession).

what should i consider before quitting this kind of job ? i cant decide what to do because i got accustomed to be there for a long time.

shall i give a break or quit it forever ?

i have a right to give a break in theory, but my managers wont be happy with it and probably they will make psychological pressure on me by saying "you shoudlnt have given a break. couldnt you continue 1 day in a week ? it is very negative point for you. your abilities wont improve during the break." etc. they will interpose the same thigns when i came back too.
they expect you to devote yourself to that thing. i ve other needs and my nerves arent made of iron. those caprices will hurt me. so i thought it is better to quit it forever.

what do you think ?

2007-08-30 00:15:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl that hangs out in the same classroom I do in the mornings before school starts. I'll ask someone else a question, for example, if they can do something for me, and she'll butt in and say "no" then kinda smile about it. Also, she seemed nervous when I called her name to help me find something. Sometimes, she smiles at me or laughs when I say something stupid. I barely know this girl. She's not lez I don't think since she's got a b/f.

2007-08-29 23:56:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy, we've been friendly lately, well he's pretty much friendly to everyone in our group, it's just that i was the first one to notice him and got to know him. Anyways, now that we're on talking-ish terms, my friends are like throwing themselves at him for some reason. at first i didnt mind but now they're getting ridiculously intense, like they do all sorts of stuff just to get his attention. i like this guy, and they know it. i know what they're doing isnt wrong but i just wanna get to know him more and let him notice me, only me, even if it's just for the meantime. what should i do?!?

2007-08-29 23:44:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a friend that i'm mad at,,, before i want to be him to be my bestfriend and i don't know why,,, i guess that person thinks i have a crush on him,, but seriously i don't have,,, i ask him before if we could have a private conversation so that anything would be cleared and understood,,, but he rejected it,,, and now we had a fight,, and i don't know if he knows that i'm mad at him,,, and now i'm thinking that if he knew that i'm angry with him and apologize to me but i didn't accept his apology because he keeps on doing that,, and what if he ask me to have a private conversation will i accept it or reject it to make him feel what i felt before,,,

note: very serious,,, i don't have a crush on that person,,, promise,,,

2007-08-29 23:22:09 · 15 answers · asked by rye kyrie 2

I dont know. A few years back i used to socialize a lot around. But now i've become such a loner! I've had many past friendship hurts, and partly due to it i've got into clinical depression. I'm 15 years old. I really dont know what to do with it. ): I havent got much friends, maybe some acquiantances in school.. But i've started to avoid making friends, and now i go to movies alone.. Help me someone please.. I really dont know what to do...

2007-08-29 23:12:27 · 11 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3

I might live to regret this but I've promist my two dauters 50p for each star I receive today.
And for the best answer or reply you will get 10 points of course, Thank you....

2007-08-29 23:00:13 · 23 answers · asked by Magic 5

A certain lady who is a friend to both of us ,said l pregnanted her and this news l gone out to every body but the fact is that am not responsble for the pregnancy not for intimate relationship.but just a friend to both of us and we propose her to be the best lady during our coming wedding.

2007-08-29 22:18:03 · 4 answers · asked by james k 1

2007-08-29 21:23:33 · 29 answers · asked by putul 1

2007-08-29 18:09:01 · 5 answers · asked by Kelsey 1

I wish I would make (and keep) more friends.

I think my problem is that I get tired and overwhelmed easily...so that if I'm invited out after work I might consider going but often I'll just feel too tired to make myself go. While I like hanging out with others, it's not relaxing or stimulating but instead "takes a lot out of me." It is VERY hard for me to motivate myself to try new things or to go to new places even though I usually enjoy myself once I go.

How can I get out of this rut and make myself do things/socialize even when I don't feel like it?

2007-08-29 17:57:40 · 5 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

2007-08-29 17:53:54 · 2 answers · asked by Liza P 6

That Ima ***** if ya think I am one tell me everybody seems to be acting different and strange toword me so don't wait until the last minute to fight becuase I ain't having that bullshit up in heere!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-29 16:59:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm pretty sensitive and always seem to imagine that people are mad at me if, for example, I don't hear from them. Sometimes this causes me to write people off.

For example, an old friend has become distant with me over the past 2 years...pretty much since she started dating this guy. They are now engaged and she invited me to the wedding. I made up an excuse because I feel too hurt to go since we hardly ever talk (maybe every 5 months or so) and I just don't feel close to her any more.

However, I also don't want to be so "picky" about what I expect from people that I end up with no friends.

Should I go to the wedding? How do you maintain a relationship when you don't hear from someone for long stretches of time?

2007-08-29 16:54:58 · 2 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

You're at your friend's house. You get a call from another friend who asks if she can use your computer. You tell your friend that you're not going to be home for a few hours. And then, you tell her to just walk on into your house and use her computer? Without consulting with your mother? Would you really just send your friend to your house when you're not there? Without asking?

2007-08-29 16:20:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

since the word does'nt really have a definition some one enlighten me on this

2007-08-29 16:07:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a friend who ive know for about 6 years went to school with him through high school. although we where never best friends we always where at least secondary friends and for a few months we even hung out together for a while.

two nights ago i went over his house with one of my best friends and him, we where bored so he took out a bottle of wine and we drank it and had a few glasses of some other stuff his parents had around the house.

well today i come home and find out his mother called and told my father i STOLE it, and steeling is something i would never do i was offended and start to feel as if just worth nothing to this kid.

i need to call him and hear his side of the story still but he dident even call me to say he watch out i had to tell my mom you did that or somthing he just left me high and dry.. wi really want to just beat the **** out of him, and believe me i could, but what else could i do to psychologically get back at him

2007-08-29 16:01:21 · 1 answers · asked by bob b 1

Me and this chick have worked in camp from june to end of august. In the beginning we got into a real fight but after that more people arrived and we basically didnt speak to each other for a couple of months and in the end even talked a little bit. Now we are back home miles apart and she added me as a friend of facebook. So should I apologize now since I never did at camp or is that just for cowards since its online and not face to face?

2007-08-29 15:56:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have three friends lets call them KT, AM, and CK. KT and CK are bf/gf. I like to hang out with all of them. However lately its gotten to the point where I'm just stressing out. Tonight for example I had to choose to between driving KT and her friend to CKs house or Making a birthday cd for AM's friend. I really like AM and she knows it, but along time ago she told me in an argument that she didn't have any feelings for me. However lately she has been calling/texting me a lot to hang out and to see what I'm doing, I hope she isn't leading me on but Idk if she is or not! its driving me crazy! I didn't make AM's cd even though I will, and now AM is most likely mad at me. I can't win with these so called friends. I don't want to lose them as friends because they are cool people but I also hate feeling like I'm being used without knowing it. Should I just play it cool and pretend it dosen't bother me or should I mention something to them?

thanks

2007-08-29 15:54:05 · 2 answers · asked by BAS 2

My family got a trailer in May this year. I was allowed to invite friends to come up once in awhile. I had been emailing a certain friend from the trailer one weekend on a Sunday, saying that my friend might be able to come up on Thursday (we were going home the next day then returning on Thurs as my parents needed to work). I asked her to check with her mom and give me a headsup if she thought she could go. On Tuesday I told her she could definitely come & asked her to call saying if she could. That night, she phoned & said she was sorry but she couldn't come. I said okay and phoned another friend who was able to go. An hour later, the first friend phoned back & said now she could go. I explained to her that I was sorry but had already arranged plans with another friend as she had said she couldn't go. She asked me if I could cancel with that friend and I apologized but said that I had already arranged it with that friend. Her mom got very mad & said I was a bad friend for doing...

2007-08-29 15:47:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

we were really close until she accused me of stealing her brothers' phone. now, she only says "hi" and acts all nice when i'm w. my friends and when she's w. hers she doesn't even look at me or say "hi". today she did this and i'm pretty sure she saw me. idk what is up w. her and idk what to do. these little stuff get to me...

2007-08-29 14:49:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend Amber's boyfriend has a band and they are looking for a new female singer since the other girl quit. They were going to hold audtions but I said I was interested and he decided to just put me in it. Over the last couple of days, he has been teaching me the songs and complimenting me by telling me how great I am. Now, Amber's mad at me! And she says I'm after her boyfriend but I'm not and the truth is I think he's kind of ugly. I'm so hurt by this, I have other friends but she is my only real friend if you know what I mean. What should I do?

2007-08-29 13:45:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this 'freind' that is staulking me. she calls me about 30 times aday, litterally. and the other night i told her that i did not want to be her freind anymore. so she called my other freind and was like, rachel is mad at you. so kristen ( the girl she called ) called me about 15 muinets later and was like, oh lauren said you were mad at me. and after i got all of that streightened out, ( now i have no idea how she did this ) but she logged onto my aim account and im'ed all of my freinds at like, ten o'clock, freaking half of them out because they thought it was me online saying that my name was lauren, and i was 15 years old, and i was asking them where they lived and stuff. is that illegal and is that something i can report her for if she keeps on calling me and im'ing me?

2007-08-29 13:41:35 · 21 answers · asked by godblessbrokenroad10 1

My friend has 4 kids, ages 8-16 and last Christmas, i gave them perfume and they liked it. That's when their mom told me i gave them the wrong gifts the other Christmas because i gave them books.

But i sincerely chose those books for them! And when i bought those, i was thinking of trying to get them to include reading in their activities instead of just playing computer games and watching TV, etc.

Is it right to tell a person who gave you a gift that it was a wrong gift? Isn't the thought that counts?

2007-08-29 13:08:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous