my friend said that she going to start college with me, but then she said she doesn't know what to do. She keeps saying that the college hasn't rang her and that she doesn't know what to do [well obviously you should ring up] but she's not doing that for some reason. she's stuck between 2 colleges and she keeps saying im her best friends and stuff but also says that shes really going to miss me. She keeps playing with my heart and feelings and its really annoying. i know i will make new friends [which is going to be scary] ,(i also kinda find it hard but thats life i guess....) Do you think (well its kinda obvious) its fair whats she's doing? Telling me one thing then doing the other. Because she practicaly is my best friend, and i dont want to lose her.
2007-08-30 04:48:26 · 1 answers · asked by (Persepolis) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well actually, technically, in the truth of the reality of the heart, YOUR BOTH UNFAIR!!!!!!!! RRRR!!! PEOPLE WHY!!! Ether way buddy TELL HER HOW UNFAIR IT MAKES YOU FEEL!! Confront here, I know, I know you can't even confront the idea of making new friends, so this is going to seem like heck. But until you do, by the reality of the truth of this world, your both hurting each other, sorry. Nothing more painful, nothing more unfair, then not being COMPLETELY honest about the way we feel. So tell her how you feel, and make a choice buddy, do you want her with you or not. If you do, then help her make up her mind to be with her BEST FRIEND!!!! You meanie, if not then yea push her away, do what you can to keep her from it, and just go on with your life.... would be waste, but its also your choice..... and of course no action, is just like taking action, its a choice to, and you've already made that, maybe change your mind with your new honesty skills?
2007-08-30 05:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋