I have three friends lets call them KT, AM, and CK. KT and CK are bf/gf. I like to hang out with all of them. However lately its gotten to the point where I'm just stressing out. Tonight for example I had to choose to between driving KT and her friend to CKs house or Making a birthday cd for AM's friend. I really like AM and she knows it, but along time ago she told me in an argument that she didn't have any feelings for me. However lately she has been calling/texting me a lot to hang out and to see what I'm doing, I hope she isn't leading me on but Idk if she is or not! its driving me crazy! I didn't make AM's cd even though I will, and now AM is most likely mad at me. I can't win with these so called friends. I don't want to lose them as friends because they are cool people but I also hate feeling like I'm being used without knowing it. Should I just play it cool and pretend it dosen't bother me or should I mention something to them?
thanks
2007-08-29 15:54:05 · 2 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
BTW of course I have a nice car, money, etc. While i get stuck with these friends who don't have a car, don't have a lot of money, etc. I have fun when I hang out with them but I hate feeling like they only hang out with me because of the things I do for them. I have done so much for AM, I give her rides all the time, I take her out to dinner, I make her cds, I have helped her find a job, ETC.
btw they are 17, and 18 and I'm 19 years old.
thanks
2007-08-29 15:56:38 · update #1