i have a friend that i'm mad at,,, before i want to be him to be my bestfriend and i don't know why,,, i guess that person thinks i have a crush on him,, but seriously i don't have,,, i ask him before if we could have a private conversation so that anything would be cleared and understood,,, but he rejected it,,, and now we had a fight,, and i don't know if he knows that i'm mad at him,,, and now i'm thinking that if he knew that i'm angry with him and apologize to me but i didn't accept his apology because he keeps on doing that,, and what if he ask me to have a private conversation will i accept it or reject it to make him feel what i felt before,,,
note: very serious,,, i don't have a crush on that person,,, promise,,,
2007-08-29 23:22:09 · 15 answers · asked by rye kyrie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that the answer is to let it go. Don't bother with it. It already sounds like you're confused. You are angry, but not angry, you don't have a crush, you won't accept an apology, now he isn't talking to you, now you want to have a private conversation.....
What the heck is really going on? Are you a girl or boy? Are you having problems or questions about your sexuality? Please clear up the confusion and re-ask your question. We are all here to help you, but you're not too clear.
2007-08-29 23:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by ANDREA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get many things in their life in a wrong way and believe that what they think us right! You dont need to apologize to him! I personally believe you that you want to be your best friend but not something further! But boys hardly can make close relationship with girls! I believe you should accept the conversation if he asks you to have! You must be clear with him and tell him that you really like him not as a boy but as a boy with personality and character! If he doesnt ask you sth like that you should try to talk to his best friend(if he had one) and explain him what have happened! He may change his opinion and be the best friends! Good luck!
2007-08-29 23:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by baby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your a boy as well as him then i your homosexual you might have a crush on him but not want to believe it so u deny the fact, but if you arent gay then you should make that clear to him. if he is rejected to have private talks he might be scared because he doesnt want to find out that you dont love him. if i was you i would make it clear to him any way possible if he rejects to have conversations then catch him off guard and tell him straight away, he cant shut off your voice.
2007-08-29 23:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have a crush on the guy then what is the problems....???
If you are truely friends then just give it a rest a couples day, then talk...
Perhaps you both need a break from each other, sounds like you are both crowding each other in........you need space.....goes with friends, families & lovers.....
2007-08-29 23:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by mimii 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see 1st thing u go to to your friend N ask your friend that u R really like me or not if he say yes its gud if he says no then just forget him i am answering U bcoz this same prlem i also had just about for last week really N my self is aliasgar .s. kapadia don't think i am making a friendship with u i am not interested i just wanted to help u out if every think is ok just e-mail me of yes standly_clark@yahoo.com
2007-08-29 23:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a question buried in there somewhere? Sounds like you need new friends.
By the way- friends don't act bad just to make their friends feel bad.
2007-09-06 08:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by EazyBreezy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tries to talk to you, tell him that you do not want to talk to him until you can have a private conversation and work out a problem that you have with him. If he refuses, just avoid and ignore him.
2007-08-29 23:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
y have u confused urself so badly.
answer these questions below:
do u need his friendship?
can't u live without his friendship?
aren't there anyother humans around ?
is he speccial?
do u think about him?
what do u think about him?
do u want to be with him?
does he want to be ur friend?
is he acing too smart?
is he acting superior?
does he have any ego problems?
does he expect u to come to him or is he adaptive?
2007-08-29 23:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be the mature one and have the conversation, make things clearer than water to him! knock of the high horse he rides and tell hin you see him as a friend only .
2007-08-29 23:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree, with the first answer.
2007-08-29 23:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by keri_ricker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋