i like this guy, we've been friendly lately, well he's pretty much friendly to everyone in our group, it's just that i was the first one to notice him and got to know him. Anyways, now that we're on talking-ish terms, my friends are like throwing themselves at him for some reason. at first i didnt mind but now they're getting ridiculously intense, like they do all sorts of stuff just to get his attention. i like this guy, and they know it. i know what they're doing isnt wrong but i just wanna get to know him more and let him notice me, only me, even if it's just for the meantime. what should i do?!?
2007-08-29 23:44:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i havent told the guy that i like him. i want to but i can't...yet.
2007-08-29 23:50:41 · update #1
they started lately, but they've known about my feelings since the very start, which was like 6 months ago.
2007-08-29 23:52:10 · update #2
we havent exactly gotten to the point yet that i'd just talk to him freely so telling him that i like him is kinda weird. im afraid ill scare him off. we're at the stage where we say 'hi' to each other, with a tinge of awkwardness.
2007-08-30 00:01:31 · update #3
One thing, confront your friends. Another thing, If you want the guy you like to notice you, talk to him alone. You don't need to tell him that you like him from the start, but get to know him better alone, like his background and his own personality. After all, it is between you and him.
2007-08-30 00:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Green Phantom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just said here to his face, thats one thing that none of the other girls have the balls to do...trust me he will like it and it will get his attention, just give it a break for like 2 weeks and regain your sensibility and composure to ask him in your own way.....If he's taken already by then fine just wait for someone else.
2007-08-29 23:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't sound very friendly to me, did this start only after you told them that you liked this person ? if yes then you have an idea what they're up to.
2007-08-29 23:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one had a "hold" on another person and can claim him/her exculsively, so I would not talk to your friends. If this guy is truly interested in you, he will still want to know you better.
2007-08-29 23:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with him, and find out if he is interested in being with you exclusively. If not then keep him as a friend and find a boyfriend somewhere else.
2007-08-29 23:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by thomastl614 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some pple are very friendly with everyone.so much that they have too many friends.for us they r the only ones. all fingers aint the same size. adapt urself.
2007-08-29 23:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you like him and you are interested in getting to know him more. if he doesnt know and they dont know you like him then they feel that he is fair game. TELL HIM NOW.
2007-08-29 23:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like this guy, and they know it ... fine, but does he know it? If not, make sure he does ... by whatever means necessary.
2007-08-29 23:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to hang out somewhere with you that you can be alone.
2007-08-29 23:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋