This guy and my class (mind you - I am in my early 20s). Anyway, we had to buddy up for a class that we are in. Which was fine with me...at first. So, we decide to meet up to discuss a project that we have to work on, which would have been fine, except.... he is so stinkin nice. He is not even really a looker, but he is so nice....I mean like really helped me out, and would help a old lady across the street . Most people would enjoy working with such a nice person. But not me. He makes me so nervous and I don't know know why. I hate the fact that I think that I am starting to like have a crush on the guy, just b/c he is nice. What should I do? I don't want to start ignoring him, but I think that I may have to. I just don't know how to act around him. And please don't tell me to just ask him out and or pursue anything with him. He has a lot of friend who are girls, and is generally a very nice person- so no, I do not thinks that he is interested in me so no advances
2007-08-31 13:51:50 · 6 answers · asked by breezy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just hate being so nervous around him! I hate my emotions! it dosen't help that he is semi cute
2007-08-31 14:11:03 · update #1
First, it is normal to be nervous around someone you like or have a crush on.The fact that he is nice should help you in your dealings with him if you let it and yourself. You are an astute girl who can recognize a good thing when she see's it.so it is no wonder you are starting to have a crush on him.I suggest that you get together ---buddy up---and after that ask him to go for a soda.This way you guys can explore you feelings privately and decide if it has potential.Tina, you strike me as the type of gal who as a rule goes after what she wants.I believe you will hit pay dirt if you try to make an advance towards him.I say go for it.P/S-there is nothing in your piece that suggest you make a fool of your self
2007-09-01 15:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like this guy I had to buddy up in high school French class for a project. SO NICE, and lots of friends. Because I was kind of snobby and I didn't consider him popular, I was not very nice to him, and I regret it. And this was a really really long time ago. Just be nice back, and don't do anything as far as advances go. If he is so nice, it's likely that he has male friends that are nice too. Just be nice back, don't expect anything, and see what happens.
2007-08-31 14:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kate J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying, that's all. If you say he is a friend then you don't have to act, to feel nothing more than friendship, so don't ignore him just be his friend. If you feel like you act different when he is around then you have a feeling for him, check that or change that inside you.
2007-08-31 14:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dragonheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, why not just be his friend. If you don't want to go out with him like that, why are you so nervous around him? Think about it, you might have a great guy!!!
2007-08-31 14:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so easy to commit, it's a class project for christs sake, wake up!
2007-08-31 13:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by IRONFIST-X2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go with your instinct... I f u don't like him, don't push it push him off. If u like him, then go for it.
2007-08-31 13:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by jt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋