friend of mine i thought is true but she ditched me many times but i excused her?

Question

but this time i m very upset she has many boyfriends and every time she go out she lies her family she is going with me i m not into all this once her family people became my foes and they hated me i feel very bad and then i told her sweetly but she is not understanding my position sometimes i feel telling her daughterin law about this that i m not with her what shall i do ?and same time i dont want to loose her too but i m very upset about it also how should i give this massage to her family that when she goes out i m not accompaning her

Answer 1

First of all you will have to decide it first whether you have to keep her as your friend or not. You cant change her nature, if she speaks lie in your name she would be keeping it continue, no matter what you think of her. It means you take her your true friend but she doesn;t. If she would take you true friend, she never would do the things which dont please you. She should not use your name or do anything which you dont like. Anyway I would suggest go to her house when she is with her family and speak in clear voice to her family that you are not her friend any longer, if she uses her name for going out it would be totally lie.

And you should leave her friendship, it happens some time what we like to keep somebody as our friend but he or she is not worth of our friendship, then we better, stop our relation to it.

Best of luck...........Take care.....

Answer 2

Yes i;d e upset to for her using you like this for so long.she treats you like a doormat and ou sound like a very nice guy,I;d simply call her home when you knew she was out and ask the parent is she home and do you know when she will be,when they say i thought she was with you just tell them no but I've been trying to get in touch with her..then when she confronts you,tell her you miss understood that you didn't know she wanted to cover for you tonight or whenever.and then say I'd rather not do this anymore because if i make another mistake I wouldn't want to loose our friendship over it,she'll try to keep you doing it but tell her it's better to get someone else.then if she doesn't talk to you much anymore you know she was just using you..I'm sorry Mia........I hope you find a nice girl instead of a sneaky one all the best to a nice guy...mia

Answer 3

Try t@lk!ng 2 her or the other w@y out !$ that try & put her !n the $@me $!tu@t!on. M@y be then $he w!ll re@l!ze th@t how b@dly c@n one get !nto @ll th!s
& !f u dnt w@nn@ do th!s then, t@lk 2 her one f@m!ly member....whom u r clo$e 2 @$ well @$ th@t per$on $hould be under$t@nd!ng

Answer 4

well done