hii, my friend is wanting 1000 dollars au to pay for his PR. the thing is we havent been friends for awhile because we had a big big fight.. and im not sure that he will pay me back, but i know he realy needs the money..its alot for me and ill have to put it on credit and not tell my parents or jaanuji, which i know is wrong to do...but should i give to him to help? his parents cant give, and no one else will help him??main kya karron? plz advise? we where realy close pals for a while and i know hes not lying that he needs the money, but i will surely put myself in a big trouble for this....but i feel like i should help as he has no one else?? what would u do? ( we had a fight because he said he loved me and i told him i love my jaanuji and he wouldnt leave it alone and i had to stop talking to him untill he understood that i only love my jaanuji and not him..)
2007-09-03 12:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by Tu_Jahan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
" Jaanu" is a name in hindi which can mean same as english "darling" or "beloved" "ji" is tacked onto the end to mean respect.. wifes often call there husbands by "ji" in India instead of useing the name...
2007-09-03 12:33:00 · update #1
I don't know what a jaanuji is! But, it has always be a bad practice to lend money and if it's that much.And your betraying your parents trust to do it.I wouldn't.
Don't do this! Please!
2007-09-03 12:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by need2know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The buddy is utilising you yet you realize what she is like so it is your fault for permitting it to ensue. do no longer invite her to dinner or breakfast lower back. in case you like a taxi tell her in the previous you order the taxi which you haven't any longer have been given the money to pay so she will ought to share the fee or you will the two ought to pass by way of public transport. If she says she has no funds then the two bus it or stay at living house. she will quickly word which you at the instant are not a mushy touch anymore and the two start to pay her way or she will locate yet another buddy stupid sufficient to pay for her each and all the time. i've got self belief she will do the latter.
2016-10-19 21:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if u want to remain friends, but it soounds like you are being used, DON'T GIVE HIM THE MONEY, you will never see it again, and he won't call u again until he wants something else from you........think about it.....situations like these never work out, and don't give it to him just because u feel sorry for him, he is just using you, and he will continue to do this as long as u give it to him, he doesn't sound like much of a friend, and he probably thinks u r an easy target....think about it, when was the last time you heard from him? Sorry if this sounds mean, but u need to learn this before he takes u for everything u have, and think about the last time u heard from him. Don't give him any money, he sounds like a real jerk!!
2007-09-03 12:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by >♥Cat♥< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no. If he has no way to pay you back, then just don't do it. If you do decide to do it make sure that he signs a contract with the repayment steps on it and if he does not then sue him. But I just say no because he is not really your friend he just trying to get the money because he is there.
2007-09-03 12:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by rashida_16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! The two worst people to loan money to is.......Friends and Family. If you loan to friends and never get it back you stop being friends. If you loan money to Family and don't get it back, Well lets just say Family never goes away so you will always have this hanging over their heads. So don't do it!
2007-09-03 12:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should,i know he needs it and all.But if you really want him as an enemy loan him this money.Trust me only bad can come from this.And there really is no gurantee that this guy will pay you back,and you said it yourself that your not really close with him anymore,so please think about this.You don't want to make a shady situation way worse.goodluck
2007-09-03 12:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. No way you should lend him the money.
2007-09-03 12:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Judy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you give this money, don't EVER expect it back. EVER. Expect him to never talk to you again once he gets it.
2007-09-03 12:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Bill 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way...give him a charm braclet or a necklace..a cool one but money...u must b out of ur mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-03 12:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya. iF THE FRIEND'S HEART IS CLEAR. YOU CAN GIVE HIM IF HE BADLY NEEDS MONEY.
IF UR FRIEND NEEDS HELP YOU SHOULD HELP HIM.
2007-09-03 17:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by sportive saurabh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋