2007-09-03 14:57:33 · 21 answers · asked by BELL F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is married to you and your his first obligation and the Bible says to love your wife as you love yourself. If it is for kids, then is he bringing them home some, he should be.
If there is no kids, put a stop or your on your way to a failure of marriage. How many exes does he have and how many kids. He maybe having LOADS OF FUN----check it out.
You can snope around, and talk to him also.
2007-09-03 15:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by lana s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't feel comfortable with my husband spending time with his exes unless they have kids ( then they will need to spend some sort of time together for the kids) or if one of his exes were his best friend before they even got together and they separated to stay friends.
Other then that, I would wonder why he is spending time with them. It didn't work out for a reason, so why spend time with them?
2007-09-03 22:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by prprincess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, you shouldn't accept it. Why is your husband spending more time with his exes? Did you ask him about it? I don't care whether your husband and his exes were best friends and then they kept the friendships after they broke up. Tell him that you don't like him spending more time with his exes. I am not saying that he is or he is going to cheat on you, but, I heard so many stories where somebody cheats with his or her exes. Talk to him about it and I really think that he should respect your feelings.
2007-09-03 22:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlyn 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep the conversation going with your husband. Does he have a good reason for spending time with his exes? Give us more detail.
2007-09-03 22:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by SurferGirl 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NOPE!
They are exes for a reason right? There is a reason why he is spending time with them, so talk to him and find out what the deal is and look at him in his eyes, surely you can tell when he is lying. Good luck!!!
2007-09-03 22:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lloyd S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard to say....elaborate a bit more. But for now look at it this way do you spend time with your exes? and if you do does he get annoyed by it or not? If he doesn't, the you shouldnt either.....but if he does then you should talk to him about the situation and let him know how you feel
2007-09-03 22:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by ney 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ABSOLUTELY not. You should be number one in his life. The only time he should have contact is for the kids. If there are kids. Spending time should be with his WIFE.
2007-09-03 22:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by smile4u 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are their children involved? If not than no he really has no reason to be spending time with them.
2007-09-03 22:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
reverse the situation. what if it was you? would he accept his wife spending more time with her x's? if you continue to close your eyes on this situation you too, will soon be one of those ex's.
2007-09-03 22:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you all just get a place together? are there children involved ? whats the situation? if youre married to him what business does he have with his exes?
2007-09-03 22:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by lilmama24 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋