Friends - September 2007

A couple a times and both times she said some really insulting and hurtful things about me, I argued with her but never said hurtful things about her to her (I could never have done this as she is one of my best friends, even if we were arguing) anyway I find it really hard now to not think of the things she said (trust me they were terribly hurtful!!) and think of her a close friend we have made up now and she apologised but I feel resentment and anger towards her still, these fights occured about 2 years ago... how can i get past this??? I dont want to have to bring it up to her again however .. ;0(

2007-09-06 14:46:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am really good friends with this guy, lets call him Bob.
He went to a different high school freshman year, but now transferred to my school. All throughout middle school and junior high, he has been like a dork. Idk, everyone made fun of him and all the popular people talk about him. I want to be his friend, but i don't want to be made fun of. I have low self esteem as it is. I know i hsouldnt care what the popular group of people say, but its hard to just brush it off your shoulder! i have to be in this school for another three years, and i want ot make the right choice. Today in spanish class some of the popular girls were laughing and talking about how weird he looked and stuff like that. I dont know what to do, i really really really need advice.

2007-09-06 14:44:52 · 2 answers · asked by jenni xo 3

for not being at a birthday party from like 7 pm to 11pm?

i dont wanna go.
but she invited me.
i wanna go to this other place called JumpTown.

whats a good excuse?

i thought about saying "my cousin is having a birthday party too but she lives liek 2 hours away. so we have to leave early and my mom doesnt want me staying out late."


is that good? or should i do a diff one?

2007-09-06 13:18:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

or is everyone too cliquey? i am angry. i have been searching for my true best friend my whole life and i just haven't found them. is high school still an option?

2007-09-06 12:50:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

to my bff by being my friend

2007-09-06 12:36:23 · 15 answers · asked by TayTay 1

i was a good kid never got in trouble never did anything bad..nothing really.. i played sports for the school im 15 almost 16 and im in 10th grade.. well NOW: i smoke..drink..party..get in trouble in school got arrested twice over the summer.. jsut got caught stealing ciggs from my mom dont play sports anymore. my parents think its my friends cause they arnt the ideal friends not really liek me i wear american eagle and abercrombie and stuff they all have pericings and tattoo's and wear punk stuff.. i like them tho i like hanging out with them they are cool i think but i also think about my life and realize it might be them that is causing me to change like this.. i know everythings my choice and i dont have to do anything i dont want to but i dont know why im doing this stuff now my best friend is mike and i was with him the 2 times i got arrested for being a lil drunk..is it their fault or mine and what should i do ditch the kids i love hanging out with or is there a way around that.

2007-09-06 12:16:57 · 58 answers · asked by Chris Webb 2

im being bullied on the bus by 2 guys that are african american.
i was just sitting down when it first happened. they said "hey gurl in the green shirt!" i turned around, they looked directly at me, and called me ugly. they made fun of me yesterday, called me bigbird and said i should use Pro Activ. i tried to kick him, but it didnt work out as he left.
then today, i sat a little more in front on the bus. i heard "hey, theres that gurl in the front." i stiffened throughout the whole ride. when it was finally one of the boys' stops, he went up front and touched me with his hand "which was supposed to look like a slap, except he used no strength.
i have no friends on this bus. i have ALOT of friends, and i've never experienced bullying before. what do i do?
my mom said something that affected me majorly. she said those boys were starting to control me. she said she would go to my school tomorrow. PLEASE HELP IF YOU HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY!

2007-09-06 11:42:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

In third grade there was this new girl I use to be her friend, when we went on a field trip I bought her a braclet as like a friendship braclet kind of thing. But now ever since 4th or 5th grade she ignores me and she became "Popular", she talks to me very very rarely. She has popular friends and totaly forgot me. Now I'm in seventh grade and now it seems like she hates me and it makes me feel sad. What can I do to become friends with her again.

Thanks for who ever answered!

2007-09-06 11:22:07 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

so I've started my second year of high school and I have no friends just like last year. Every weekend I stay home and it just really doesn't make me happy. I want to do SOMETHING! I don't know what to do, and trust me "being yourself" doesn't work in this school. so PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-09-06 10:39:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a really outgoing person & im a pretty nice person as well. I've always been pretty popular and I have alottt of friends from where I lived, but I just recenlty moved. I've been living here for about 2 months and I had to move cause my dad got a better job. Its in the same state to just instead of living in north Florida, I live in south Florida now & I'm having a really tough time making freinds

This year I am a freshman, (im 14 yrs old btw) so I entered high school not knowing anyone which was extremley difficult.
Im finding thats its alot easier to be friends with the guys, cause alot of the guys like me.. but none of the girls have been as freindly to me, & I dont know why cause i've been very nice.

I've been alone alot, & it feels so wierd for me cause I'm not used to that at. I try to talk to people but they usualy brush me off...it really hurts

If anyone could give me any advice I'd appreciate it alot :)


this is my myspace-
http://www.myspace.com/gabriellayah

2007-09-06 10:26:08 · 21 answers · asked by Katia Spyhalski 2

Here's what I did: I took my date and shoved her against a table and hit her very hard on the back, made fun of my friends, called them retarded losers, threw some of their stuff away, pushed them down, wrote nasty notes to them, made them flunk a quiz, cussed them out, pulled a girl's bra, spanked girls on the butts, called several friends of mine sexual slurs, started rumors about them, sent horrible messages to friends of mine on myspace, hit a cripple and took their stuff, I got two girls into a cat fight, got a friend of mine in trouble. And because of all that, many won't talk to me no more, no one wants to go to lunch with me, many deleted me off their friends list on myspace, people are afraid of me now. And here's why I think I acted like this: I didn't get invited to a party, high stress from 3 friends dying this year, my uncle and another friend are dying, work is horrible and I get cussed out by customers,a girl tried to get me to go out with her to get her boy jealous.

2007-09-06 09:51:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend which I'm close to for about 10yrs now. We both went to college and have a BA degree; however she refuses to get a job in her field (Broadcasting) and decides to work for a small company paying a little over the minimum wage. I have a o.k job which pays my bills and I am able to save.

Each month she keeps borrowing $200 here or $50 and she does not repay me back. I'm currently pregnant and I need to save all of my money to purchase a home before the baby is due next year March.

How can I get rid of her asking me for money all the time?

2007-09-06 09:08:33 · 38 answers · asked by Jasmine 2

Or have you changed too much?

2007-09-06 08:06:39 · 24 answers · asked by Darth Cheney 7

no matter what i do i seem to always mess up with girls i lie about silly things i just cant stop is there anybody that can help me

2007-09-06 08:00:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the quick version : 11 years ago, while we were freshman in college, I hooked up with my friends ex one night. Nothing substantial happened and he nor I ever mentioned it again, and we didn't tell anyone else either, including my friend.

I don't know how it came up now, but my friend found out and is pissed and sent me a vicious email about how I lied and was never really a friend to her.

I'm not defending my actions, I was young and stupid. It was a mean thing to do, but it was 11 years ago....

Should I be punished for the sins of my youth? I've apologized to her in retrospect, I understand that she's hurt, but am I expecting too much that she just get over it?

Plus she's dragging our mutual friends into this and I'm afraid they're going to be forced to take sides, and since I'm clearly in the wrong, it won't be my side they're taking.

Apparently hooking up with someone when you're 18 can come back to haunt you....who knew? Karma's a *****.

2007-09-06 07:21:01 · 7 answers · asked by ndewald2004 2

2007-09-06 06:42:40 · 24 answers · asked by Women Pleaser 2

I met a butch & we become friend for few months

Since i just move and not really have so much friend

The problem is she cant stop talking about herself .

She also will left me when her other good friends call to met.

I think she very rude but she the only friend i for now where i lived now.

What should i do?

2007-09-06 06:35:09 · 12 answers · asked by branded boobs 1

As you know summers coming to a end, which means I have to go back to uni for my second year and Its worrying me and eating me up inside. i am admitting my first year there was not the best, I was a loner, not good at making friends and didnt really make a effort, I only had one friend there, who I've known for a while and I used to be dependant on him a lot but the way he became once he got to uni, created a rift between us, he would emotionally manipulate me with his so called new friends by using my lack of social skills like a weapon against me by not inviting me to places, using me for cash, boasting to our mates back home that I dont have any friends accept him, never pull girls like he does etc.

now, I know that I should meet new people but still keep it cool with him, becasue if I dont, it will be my downfall like last year, but Im scared to meet new people because Im worried everyone will be the same.

So I want to change, but im afraid, what should I do?

2007-09-06 06:25:53 · 19 answers · asked by confused 1

It's one of those days.

2007-09-06 04:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by cat 3

iam in love with one guy who is 3yrs younger then me he also loves me a looot bt the problem is that after 5-6 yrs we want to marry each other &onother problem is that as he is 3yrs younger then me my parents will not agree 4 our relation&they will get hurt one side i dnt want to hurt my parents on the other hand we both cant live without each other so plz advice me whether i should continue this relationship with him or not

2007-09-06 04:08:27 · 12 answers · asked by bhuvaneswari i 2

I wanted to write this letter to you. Hopefully it is something you will read with a smile, and keep along for a very long time.

I feel honoured to have known you, Jay. Ever since we began our friendship in 1995, I have felt deeply blessed to have someone so kind, caring, funny, generous and loving, to want to spend their time with me. I have never felt worthy of your friendship, but always treasured it close to my heart.

You have taught me a lot. Believe it or not, you are someone I have always aspired to be like. I see your courage, your devout loyalty to your friends and family, and above all, your unconditional ability to love. Perhaps this is why everyone I’ve ever spoken to has said “Jaime’s a lovely girl”, and its true.

I have loved that over the years, you were always the person I could turn to. I felt I was able to talk and share anything with you, we were that close. And that has meant the world to me.

What else can i write? Thankyou!

2007-09-06 03:59:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-06 03:58:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. I'm Gong Chan and i am a student. I Have this seatmate at my school service named Dominic. He is from Italy and had Transferred from our school. When i'm in my School Bus... he always stares at me. I hate being stared at by, like a long minutes. How can i tell him? he is even talking to me, and i have the urge that we can be good friends... but that's okay for me only for one reason, We don't have a lot in common, im a freshman and he's a sophomore and we are like the opposites of each other.... Please help me!

2007-09-06 02:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by gong chan 1

Give your real answer

2007-09-06 02:01:13 · 16 answers · asked by renjitharts 1

My friend whose been married for two years announced at my son's christening that she and her hubby were separating and showed me they weren't wearing their rings. They said they were going to stay friends but he was going to move in with his mates.

I then saw them at a friend's birthday last week, both wearing their wedding rings and I asked how things were, she seemed on edge, he looked like he had had a few to drink. She said they kept arguing over whether to separate or divorce. He had put in an offer for a 3 bedroomed house and he jokingly said that he was going to get a 23 year old student nurse to lodge with him. When we left the party (my hubby and I) he asked me for a kiss goodbye, I gave him a peck on the cheek and he asked me for a proper kiss and I said no as I was married. So what is going on. She is blonde, attractive and a real trophy for him and she has got a very good career. They are having problems having children. Could this be it.

2007-09-06 00:27:16 · 20 answers · asked by Kate P 2

2007-09-05 22:45:30 · 6 answers · asked by smart_sweet43 1

Im currently inrolled in a charter skool, and its a very strict skool. im an 11th grader reading at a college level and im at a senior level in math. im qualified but im finding it hard 2 focus. im pregnant and im finding it hard 2 balance morning sickness with 30 hours of homework a week plus studying. i went through a long process 2 get into thiz skool but i really want 2 go 2 a diff. 1 that i kno is a little bit easier and i know they will work with me. the thing is im liveing wit my bfs mom[the grandma of the baby] and she went thru a lot 2 get me in the skool and im afraid she will b upset i dont wanna go. i just feel so overwhelmed and stressed!! u c if i miss 1 assignment in any subject twice....they will kick me out of that subject and take away drivers ed....plz help, i dont kno wat 2 do!!!

N PLZ PPL....JUS CUZ I WRITE LIKE THIZ DOES NOT MEAN IM NOT WRITING A COLLEGE LEVEL CUZ I AM.
IM ONLY 16 N MOST TEENS WRITE LIKE THIZ.

2007-09-05 22:43:57 · 5 answers · asked by Mrz.Ghost 1

My good friend sent me an e-mail saying i should describe her with only one word an one word only. Now i know you will say i'm the only one knowing this, but i would like some suggestions, some unusuall, meaningful, not everyday-like words. I'm having i hard time thinking about this.

Thank you in advance!

2007-09-05 22:33:46 · 15 answers · asked by nickname 1

lifessz

2007-09-05 21:58:49 · 8 answers · asked by aman g 1

My friends (who don't work with me) think that he might had some feelings for me, which he didn't express by words. I'm still as single, friendly, & available as I used to...Why the sudden change in him? He's making my work life hell. I am perfectionist and he's not deligating tasks to me (totally ignoring me) :(

I love what I do, but I'm starting to hate it!

Changing jobs or departments is out of the question as I have some obligations this year.

I need short-term solutions to survive!

2007-09-05 21:46:39 · 3 answers · asked by HopeH 4