I met a butch & we become friend for few months
Since i just move and not really have so much friend
The problem is she cant stop talking about herself .
She also will left me when her other good friends call to met.
I think she very rude but she the only friend i for now where i lived now.
What should i do?
2007-09-06 06:35:09 · 12 answers · asked by branded boobs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, why would you be friends with someone that is rude, considering the fact that she is the only friend that you have? This is something that you really need to think about. Talk to her about the situation and tell it like it is. Don't be afraid to stand your ground. Once you say what you have to say to her, leave that girl alone. Go out there and meet new people. You will find friends who will value and appreciate your friendship. You're better off being by yourself than to be friends with someone that has a bad attitude. Good luck.
2007-09-06 07:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also happen to have a friend who used to be like that.
Well if you're the straight-forward type, you can simply tell her that you find her extremely annoying, since she keeps talking about herself & she should give others a chance.
If you're the shy type or you don't want to offend her & lose her as a friend you can ignore her when she talks about herself. She should get a clue by then. Don't act interested too. If you don't wanna offend her just keep nodding in a very uninterested way.
You can make new friends too, maybe go cycling or jogging around your neighbourhood? join a community centre, don't worry you'll find tons of friends.
Btw I don't see the link between this self-obsessive friend of yours & her being a butch?(:
hope this helped(:
2007-09-06 06:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♥MusiqueEtAmour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't seem like a friend. Go out to meet more people and make new ones. Join a club or group, take up a sport. There are many people out there who, like you, are looking for friends.
2007-09-06 08:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your english (doing well though for it not being your primary language) and get some more friends. Get out and meet people. Don't feel obligated to hang around with one person because they are your only friend...better to have no friends, than a 'bad' one.
2007-09-06 06:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So you would rather be friends with someone who doesnt "truly" see you as a friend because you dont know anyone else? You need some self-esteem.
2007-09-06 07:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat butch the way she treats you...tit for tat...even if it means spending time alone...even if ti means pretending you have somewhere else to be...people should not be allowed to mistreat you just because you are lonely...read a good book ...go for a long walk....just don't let her mistreat you...you deserve better
2007-09-06 06:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by jazzy l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't your labeling her a butch just as rude of a comment from you....?
2007-09-06 06:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Katja P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are branded boobs?
Be friends with her but expand your number of friends. Don't be so dependent on her.
2007-09-06 07:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've seen Butch than you must have seen Jerry and Tom as well and when you do jus let tham know that Spike says Hi!
I dunno I jus seemd to be the Right Answer From my side.
2007-09-06 07:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by Linkin Soldier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go look for more friends?
2007-09-06 06:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋