ok well she is really mean to me and i never did anything to her EVER. she gives me attitude for no reason. and she talks about me behind my back. im a really shy person and she is sooo mean to me and i dont do anything to her.Even when im looking at her or she ''thinks'' im looking at her,she will be like ''eww stop looking at me!!'' or she will tell her friends or the guy i like ''omg is she looking at me'' or something like that. it really hurts me.i dont know what to do. And shes going out with the guy i like (i think he likes her) but i don't care about that because if he can go out with sumone liker her,he is a waste of my time. well im really sad and i don't wan't to go to school ...any advise?
2007-09-03 06:40:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her if she had a life she wouldn't be so concerned about yours. people are just like that. some will never change. just don't fight back, she will look stupid if you don't respond to it. if the guy is going out with her then he might not be the one. goodluck, you can do it. ur not the only one going through these kind of stuff. just do what you have to do. i know you can do it. :)
2007-09-03 09:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a sad thing, but it is not a touchy-feely, warm-fuzzy world. Some people are mean and cruel just because they can. Try talking to her, one-on-one, in private, where she can be completely open and honest with you. Try to work out what her problem with you is. If that doesn't work, I would look at her in school and smile or laugh, and make her think she is dressed funny, or smelling bad. Sometimes confronting a bully is the only way to make them leave you alone. As a male, I finally had to fight a bully in 8th grade to get him to leave me alone. I imagine girls have their own way of handling the situation, but I do suspect if you don't confront and deal with the problem it will only get worse. Good Luck!
2007-09-03 06:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cecil n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't quit school because of some dumb girl. I've been in your shoes more times than I can count. I put prayer on all my enemies and ask God to have mercy on them and to give me the strength to stand up for myself. She is very immature and will get back everything that she dishes out. I used to tell people that hurt me, "Remember you will reap what you sow and then you will know how it feels to be mistreated." Everyone that has ever done me wrong I either witnessed them go through the same things they put me through or heard it through the grape vine. Pray on it and watch.
2007-09-03 06:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Survivor 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop hating and being jealous because her life sucks. She is soo lame & needs to grow up. Ignoring her is not helping from what I understand so you may want to tell a teacher or counseiler. Never get into a fight though. It will just mess up your record and chances of getting into a good colledge or job. Good Luck!!
2007-09-03 06:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her get to you! Most bullys are meen because they were bullied once. She might be jelous, and as for theguy you like, if your absoloutly sure he might not like her, confront him! But you have to be 1000% sure or this plan might backfire!!!
PS: If things get worse tell your parents or a teacher! Good luck, and I hope she stops soon.
2007-09-03 08:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if she's so mean to you then why don't you react? somehow make her understand you're not a puppet for her to plau with. Stand your ground and tell loud what you think!!!! (hope that helps)
2007-09-03 07:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you come out of your shell, just tell her off she will stop. because your doing nothing about it she knoes your scared to stand up for yourself. if she says "ew stop looking at me" make a rude comment about her . just do it and she'll know your not a wimp and she'll stop picking on you. good luck<3
2007-09-03 06:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should pluck up the courage. and approach this girl and ask her as she got a problem. she most probably finds you a threat.what i mean by that is your better looking than she his.
2007-09-03 06:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her
2007-09-03 06:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋