Family - April 2007

i won but that doesnt matter, she was telling me that her grandma used to wear the same purfume as me and i took that as an insult because her grandma is dead, or i took dat ***** to the ground!!!!! now my great grandson wont talk to me!!!! how do i get him to talk to me again?

2007-04-19 06:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has a 4 year old son with a women he never had a relationship with. (she also as a another child different father) My boyfriend is fully involved in his sons life from the moment he found out about him. He pays all the child support on time, has his son over nights wednesdays and over nights every other weekend. She continually complains about everything, no matter what my boyfriend does she finds something to call him and yell at him about. It is affecting our relationship and I told my boyfriend to tell her to stop calling, but he said he can't do that. Although my boyfriend sees his son every other weekend she still complains that it is enough. He picks his son up, drops him off and she doesn't put forth any effort. She doesn't understand alot of things b\c she came from a family where it was the norm to have multiple kids with mulitple fathers. Does anyone have any advice??

2007-04-19 06:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by K K 1

all my life i have not got on with my sister, but i wouldnt have called it hate. but recently everything she does makes me want to hit her! even the sight of her! she is v annoying at times but even when she isnt being a pain i still get annoyed! eg if im watching tv and she comes i nand watches it 2! or even breathes/eats 2 loud! i just cant figure out why ive started to hate her so much??!!!!!!!! why??!? anyone else in the same boat?

2007-04-19 05:58:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

He quit his job 3 weeks ago...hasn't even tried looking for work yet...and then he has the nerve to ask me to ask my dad for money so he could buy a game...so he could continue staying up all night playing xbox, and sleeping all day, instead of finding a job.
He said he is going to borrow money from his brother to pay back my dad...how is that supposed to make it ok.
I said, "You know we don't have the money right now." And he freaked and refuses to speak to me.
He's worse than a child...I told him that too...He won't speak to me at all...I really want him to discuss this with in an adult manner. Really pissing me off right now.
Any advice is much appreciated.

2007-04-19 05:57:54 · 6 answers · asked by alicej84 3

well we ve been married for 2 months now and my hubby is a nice guy, but good god he is so messy. :( he has been living alone for 8 years and i guess he cleans up the place only on weekend. he does the same now. do i let the stuff lie around until the weekend ? if he does help its simply not good. how do i make him understand that its important to me ?

2007-04-19 05:35:22 · 7 answers · asked by Sweety 2

we were playing and joking around and i said hold on let me get some tweasers. I didnt really mean it. He completely stoped and said bye.

2007-04-19 05:05:06 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am what people call religious so nothing illegal please. I was going to ask for a NICE camera but then my gparent siad they would give me theirs so now I don't know what to ask for .THank you so much

2007-04-19 04:51:52 · 8 answers · asked by vballqueen22 1

my mom does this all the time like if she sees a hickey on my neck her reaction is like "OH MY GOD what did you do to my daughter did you touch her where you shouldn't until marraige you did didn't you WELL YALL CAN'T SEE EACH OTHER BUT TWICE A WEEK NOW MATT GO HOME DON'T COME BACK TILL FRIDAY! or when she hears me talkin about marraige and not wanting a big wedding she freaks out

2007-04-19 04:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by Big girl 2

I filed a police report but the school refuses to punish this child beyond the standard, "You shouldn't have done that."

My 13 year old son was drumming his fingers in class when another 13 year old boy sitting next to him got "annoyed" and stabbed my son in the hand with a mechanical pencil to make him stop.

The boy is still in school, with little consequence, and my son is now afraid to go to school. How do I make the school do the right thing? The Superintendent is out of town until next week so I can't even talk to him about it.

Please help.

2007-04-19 03:19:38 · 27 answers · asked by Nancy D 1

Surely its not so uncommon to get on with one parent better than the other? It doesn't mean you love the other parent any less. Anyone agree?

2007-04-19 03:02:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 3 year old has the worst dry skin ever. I put baby oil, lotion, dry skin cream... I have tried so many different kinds of lotion. Doctor said that it was eczema (skin hardening, scaling and cracking) when she was younger and wanted me to put hydrocortisone 1% cream on it twice per day but I have heard that it can thin her skin and give her more chances of getting skin cancer at a later age. She cries and makes herself bleed from scratching so much. Help! Does anyone know what could help my little girl?

2007-04-19 02:18:11 · 5 answers · asked by Autum 1

i am 29 years old, i know this elderly man who is 80 for 1 year, he is a kind and loving person, he has no children, a widower, his other family members never visit. I was the only friend he has, 4 weeks ago he fell in his house, i started doing shopping for him, taking him to hospital, but now he expect me to do this all the time, like today i went out with my friends after dinner, he was very upset that i didn't shop for him, he called me and said he is very sad that 'old people get forgotten by others', i feel guilty but i also know its not my responsiblity to look after him, i asked him if he have any plan for his future, he has none, but he will never go to nursing home, or asisstant living, or meals on wheals as he doesn't trust any strangers! so what should i do? i have my life to live but i can't discard him

2007-04-19 00:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-19 00:23:12 · 3 answers · asked by gatesyiscool 1

2007-04-18 23:38:51 · 8 answers · asked by dan 1

How many people would consider their mother their best friend? Obviously people don't tell the mothers EVERYTHING but a lot of my friends have the most unimaginable arguments with them and they call them all sorts which I do not understand if they have nice kind mums...

2007-04-18 23:31:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

his mother as asked him 4 lunch so hes chosen to go there instead.He goes on hol with his parents,spends xmas with them and now birthdays,iv been with him 9yrs and its been like this all the time,im an outsider.Hes 45 and acts like 10

2007-04-18 22:30:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-18 21:25:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-18 21:08:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are very rich. They are always buying me expensive things that I really do not want - horses, cars, jewellry etc. They seem to think that this is all they have to do to show their love. I would much rather we spent time together - just going out for a picnic or going for a walk. Do you think they love me? If not what should I do to win their love again?

2007-04-18 20:17:45 · 14 answers · asked by Ugly Girl 1

i found out 2 weeks ago that my dad is going to be a dad for the 3rd time, after my sis and i, to our horrible step mum and i dont know if i can except the child as my bro or sis and i really dont want to end a good relationship with my dad but that thing he married is just not human it sounds harsh but if you knew her like i do you would most likely say the same things

2007-04-18 20:02:09 · 20 answers · asked by celeste j 3

what should i do to set my routine, once my husband leaves for office i get hooked up with net i do surfing chatting watching movies etc. please be kind and help me i need an advice.

2007-04-18 19:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by shelly 1

2007-04-18 19:46:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’ve been married now for almost 2 years to an incredible man who means the world to me. The first time we meet was at a restaurant and it was love at first sight. We dated for 2 years before he proposed. His family was convinced I was a gold digger after his money but never said a thing as he threatened to cut them out of his life completely if they didn’t show me respect. About 6 months into our marriage I started sleeping with my ex-boyfriend who my husband trusted me to spend time with as I insisted we were just friends. This continued for about a year ending about 3 months ago. I was so selfish and self-centred back then not caring how much it would hurt him if he were to find out as long as I got what I wanted never realizing just how lucky I was to be married to someone like that. My husband adores children and has told me time and time again how he couldn’t wait for us to have a baby of our own without ever putting any pressure on me. I found out 2 months ago I was pregnant and my husband was just ecstatic. I’d never seen him so happy before. Problem is the baby isn’t his. The dates don’t match at all so it’s definitely my ex’s baby and considering that my husband trusts me completely he never once doubted the paternity of the baby. Should I tell him and break him heart?

2007-04-18 19:13:48 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were never close growing up. She is 5 years older and married and stuff. We didnt fight that much, just never acknowledged each other. Now, she is unbearable. She parades around saying how great she is and how she's more successful and thinner and prettier, ugh. I'm not jealous, I just find it really immature and aggravating. Every family get together ends up with me leaving in tears. My other sister undertsands a little but anytime I try to talk about it with my mother, she refuses to see my side, so it affects my relationship with my mother as well. How can I remedy this? By avoiding everyone in my immediate family except the sister I get along with? I am 25. This should not still be happening. Help. Please.

2007-04-18 18:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

his sister just got seperated from her husband and is living with us now with her three kids, my mother-in-low's attitude has changed towards me, there is no room in our house, i feel frustrated, my life has changed entirely, i dont want to hurt anyone.. but i want my peace of mind too, i want my own place.

2007-04-18 18:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you pay someone else to do you x mas shopping and if yes how much?

2007-04-18 18:13:30 · 5 answers · asked by katie r 2

Mean Mums
Someday when my children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates a parent, I will tell them, as my Mean Mum told me:
I loved you enough... to ask where you were going, with whom, and what time you would be home.
I loved you enough to be silent and let you dicover that your new best friend was a creep.
I loved you wnough to stand over you for two hours whilst you cleaned your room, a job that should have taken 15 minutes.
I loved you enough to let you see my anger, disappointment, and tears in eyes, Children must learn that their parents aren't perfect.
I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your actions even when the penalties were so harsh that they almost broke my heart.
But most of all, I loved you enough to say NO when I knew you would hate me for it. Those were the most difficult battles of all. I'm glad I won them, because in the end you won, too.
And someday when your children are old enough to understand the logice that motivates parents you will tell them.

2007-04-18 17:06:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents are looking to buy a second home (for vacation)
it was all good at first until i realized i dont like my room, this new house would shrink our monthly budget to about 1500 for monthly expenses. i found this really cute bed in a catalog, but it costs around 1600$ we havnt bought the house yet. this is our 7th attempt at putting an offer in on a house, but ultimately, my parents are procrastonators, so we lost the 6+ before this so, it isnt very likely that we will actually place an offer in this place. so, i want to re do my room and buy a house, i already tried for my craftsman grandpa to build me a bed like the one i want but my parents say it wont be the right quality, but they still wont let me have the one i want from the catalog!


http://www.pbteen.com/products/p1573/index.cfm?clg=89&cm%5Fsrc=CQS&pkey=k89%2C8062739
here it is,

2007-04-18 16:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anon omus 5

2007-04-18 16:39:52 · 22 answers · asked by silly 1

I just found out that I am pregnant. I am 19 yrs old and my bf is 21. Right now I live on campus at college but when school ends me and my boyfriend wants to move in together. I dont want to go back to live with my mom when school is over b/c she already has SOOO much stress. She is a single parent who takes care of my 6 yr. old sister, 16 yr. old sister, 25 yr. old brother, and 13 yr. old cousin. She works alot to keep up with bills. When I tell her im pregnant she is naturally gonna get more stressed, so I want to reassure her that if I move in with my boyfriend she wont have any extra load. I know alot of ppl. will say to stay at home so I can get help financially but my mom doesnt even have money to help me. I dont want her to have any added stress. My boyfriend really wants us to move in together b/c he wants to be a part of my pregnancy and the baby's life. We feel that we need to fully take responsibilities for our actions.

2007-04-18 15:59:24 · 10 answers · asked by uhdiamond 1