we were playing and joking around and i said hold on let me get some tweasers. I didnt really mean it. He completely stoped and said bye.
2007-04-19 05:05:06 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He has been my only guy in my life and have been together for 3 years. It is not true about the smallness he is good, but it was a JOKE. I really love him to death but i need help on how to make up. What could i do. Like for girls the take us flowers and its cute. what could i do for him ...
2007-04-19 05:56:47 · update #1
Make him a love note with an invite for dinner and add in some love coupons. That might help. Make plans for a special evening but I wouldn't bring up your comment again. You have been together long enough that it should just be left alone. Dont speak of it. It should all blow over.
Don't worry about it.
2007-04-19 06:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Autum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most, not all, guys there is nothing funny about a small package. This may have been something he was already unsure/insecure about. It may be difficult for him to recover from the joke. Best bet is to sit down and make it very clear that you are more than happy with what he has, and you only made the joke because it was so so so obvious that it is not true and so on. Honestly, if he is sensitive about it, you have a lot of making up to do. Good luck.
2007-04-19 05:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by adventure30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL im sorry to laugh but thats kind of funny. im curious tho did u say it as a complete and utter joke... or was it that small that it made u want to say that as a half joke/half truth??? thats such an insult to a man. he'll get over it. just try to explain that it was a joke and let him know how much u love his package and are oh so saaatisfied with it LOL
2007-04-19 05:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Chelley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key words here are " we were playing and joking around". Do you even want to even try to make up with a pouty guy like that? Geez. He stops in the middle of all the playing around, gets up and leaves to pout. He sounds really immature. I would just appoligize and then move on to find a more mature, confindent guy. good luck.
2007-04-19 05:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by undone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... here's what you do to make it up to him.
Go find a card board box. Cut out 2 long rectangular pieces. Then cut them into a shape that resembles a tweezer. Tape the one end together, then paint the whole thing silver. Now you've got a GIANT tweezer.
Tell him you were meant to get "those tweezers"!!! LoL... hopefully he'll have some sense of humor, crack up and forgive you. Good luck!
2007-04-19 05:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by late664 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That was cold girl..if it really is that small and not satisfying to you then let it go and move on..If he is good in the bed, say you were just joking..that what you said was really wrong and just a common phrase people throw out when there bashing one another..and that you really didn't mean it..Good Lick~
2007-04-19 05:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no....lol that is too funny.....well I made that mistake and uhhhhh it cost me my realtionship...men really get offended when it comes to stuff like that. it's part of there genetic makeup. My advise to you is to tell him...look I have been with you for such and such a time and when have I ever insulted your package? if I really had a problem with it, do you think I would still be here? (and just stroke his ego) Tell him he is so wonderful in bed and that it was really all just a joke and that you are truly sorry....now if you wanna go for an Oscar try to make yourself cry and let him see your tears of regret and remorse and flip the switch....tell him now that you are hurt that he is hurt because he would actually think that you would hurt him that bad.....Trust me...you'll be smiling inside :) Good Luck
2007-04-19 05:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. Just tell him you were joking and if you are really are sorry then apoligize, but if you really do think he is small and you're turned off then you're a girl that like big ones then find another guy. It's all up to you.
2007-04-19 05:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Thang Mit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! I think you need to accept the fact that he may not come back. Most guys are really sensitive about that because they feel that's what makes them a man. I would apologize for the sake of his feelings and get ready to move on.
2007-04-19 05:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by msshaden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you are sorry and you didn't think a joke like that would hurt him in the moment you were in. Tell him you weren't serious and that you really think it's a monster or something. (i wouldn't use those words, but you get my drift). OOOOOOh that's a tuffy, good luck to ya!!!!
2007-04-19 05:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by moomers81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋