Surely its not so uncommon to get on with one parent better than the other? It doesn't mean you love the other parent any less. Anyone agree?
2007-04-19 03:02:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I didn't mean anything by it that i don't love my mum or anything its just i seem to get on better with my dad, were more similar. I do love my mum so much and i couldn't be without her i just wish she didn't find it so hard to talk to me is all.
2007-04-19 03:12:46 · update #1
I know i'm incredibly lucky. Thanks for your opinions
2007-04-19 03:21:16 · update #2
This is normal because to daughters, daddy is easier to manipulate than mommy.
2007-04-19 03:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real issue is not who do you love more, it's how can you get along better with your mum. You say it's hard for her to talk to you. Think about whether it's just certain topics or if it's everything. If you recognize that it's hard for her to talk to you what can you do to help her? What are the differences between how you communicate with your dad and how you communicate with your mum? Since your dad has known her longer than you, maybe you could ask his help in finding a better way to communicate with your mum so the two of you could become closer.
To answer your question, though, it's perfectly fine to be closer to one parent than another. That's pretty normal. You're lucky to have loving parents.
2007-04-19 03:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls are daddies girls there is nothing wrong with it, its because they want to protect you and not let you grow up cause they know what young boyz are like after all he usto be one..mums are there to keep a level head and often know when ur up tp mischief coz they'v been there, enjoy both ur parents and make the most of life, u never know what you'v got til its gone..
c u daddies Girl
2007-04-19 05:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it means that you love one parent over the other. We are all still people. Different personalities mix better with others. My dad and I enjoyed the same type of activities and I just enjoyed spending time with him. I still enjoyed talking and spending time with my mom, but there was just a closer bond with my dad because we had more in common.
2007-04-19 03:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I'm a daddy's girl and so is my daughter. I think men have a problem w/ it because they are always competing w/them. Let's face it, if the boyfriend, fiance, or hubby can't do it-daddy will. Gentlemen, step up to the plate and us girls wouldn't have to go to dad when times get tough.
2007-04-19 03:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Misty D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree..... i always got along with my Mom better.... But, if it is causing conflict in the home, then you may want to try to change a few things.... Mom's always like to be special to their little girls..... And a mom is who gives birth to you and who feels like you belong to her solely.... But it is so very important to have a Good relationship with your Dad.... it is what bonds your future relationships with men.... Now if your Mom is jealous of your relationship, then she may feel threatened.... And you do not want that... Just be respectful to both parents and do the best you can. But do not try to show your affection over the other.... Just be yourself....
2007-04-19 03:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by wva_butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wonderful. I was my daddy's girl. He was very close to me. It didn't take away the love I had for mom and others. We just had a great relationship. This is something you will cherish your whole life.
2007-04-19 03:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it. I totally agree. And you're right, just don't start spending too little time with the other parent!
2007-04-19 04:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by chloe p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope u mean get along but i have a daddy's girl she's 9 and she loves me more than her mom i know but its ok to a certain age if u r grown u gotta let it go
2007-04-19 03:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT...
Normally girls tend to be closed to their dad than to their mum.
It is natural, as girls find more security and protection from their dad then their mum. Dad don't usually nag..and mum do... Mum will have to deal it with herself.... that it doesn't mean you love her less...
take care..
2007-04-19 17:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋