Family - March 2007

This may seem like a dumb question but its been bothering me for awhile. My mother is a heart surgeon,my dad is an anesthesiologist and my older sister is an agent in hollywood. How am I supposed to liveup to my family. I dont know if I can.I mean I know that it shouldnt bother me but it does. I get pretty good grades. I dont know any advice would help.

2007-03-19 14:55:48 · 11 answers · asked by Gracie P 1

Me and my boyfriend left our apartment due to us being laid off, and so we moved in with my boyfriends parents. His parents are seriously messed up. They call him a stupid idiot on a regular basis. they say cruel and mean things all the time. example, my boyfriend is not fat, but he is a tall big *** mother. he is 6'2, and weighs around 290, almost 300 lbs, but he is more muscle and bone then fat... so my boyfriend wanted to check out this graveyard shift job working in a warehouse, and his father told him "you can't work graveyard, your so fat that you'll have a heart attack and die." plus! whenever we go somewhere with his parents, they find the most fattest nasty looking person ever and say "oh, there you are, wave to yourself." i mean i have never known anyone as cruel as these people. we don't know what to do because were looking for work and no one is calling us back, were gonna sign up for school again, but we spend more time dealing with his parents then our problems. advice?

2007-03-19 14:43:52 · 15 answers · asked by EviE 2

Okay I am married and I cant stand my husbands sister but I get along with his ex wife.

2007-03-19 14:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by High or Something 2

When I go to the grocery store and see a person buying 200+ in grocerys in food stamps and driving 07 vehicles and not working. me and my husband works and still cant afford this all the time. I feel like the welfare is for people with diabilities and for the elderly. For adults only.

2007-03-19 14:37:21 · 3 answers · asked by Kim 1

So i was thinking about relationships last night and honestly relationships are made to reproduce to keep the world populated because thats why God made man & a woman right? So what is a real relationship supposed to be like, a guy and girl that get along and get married and blah blah or is it really all about sex?

2007-03-19 14:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by AiR 2 Breathe™ 1

i have 2 daughters by this guy and everytime i tell him i am pregnant he leaves me for about 3 years and comes back. we have 2 daughters Destiny and Kayla. and we love each other very much but i am so sick of his bull**** and i am pregnant again if i tell him i fear he might disapper again and i have no one to help me because my family turned agaist me for getting pregnant at 15 and i am 21 now. And have no friends .what should i do?

2007-03-19 14:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by Andrea K 1

I was looking through my computer shortly after lending it to my 18-year-old brother (a senior in High School) and found a file he had created which contained alll his AIM and MSN conversations. I felt nosy and clicked one of them opened. Unfortunately, I found myself reading about an his girlfriend's heavy bleeding do to a secret abortion. I don't know what to do. Help!
I am two years younger than him.

2007-03-19 14:16:21 · 12 answers · asked by **Andie** 2

I thought only men were channel surfers...

2007-03-19 14:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a good kid, i do well in school, and i do what i am asked to do. I really want a new cell phone. I got a Fusic in Dec. 2006 and now in march 2007 my phone broke because my brothers friend broke the screen. My mom didn't care. The insurance company wont let me get a new phone unless we pay $200.00 so i had to get the fusic again. And i hate them by the way. I was on sprint looking at the kinds of phones they had becasue in December i get to trade it in for another one. I really like one so i showed my mom. She said that at christmas she would look at them. when christmas cames around she said that i would have to pay for it.... I want it as my christmas present. not as me paying for my own Christmas present and she just told me a few minutes ago that i had to clean up my brothers stuff. including socks shoes bedroom and all of that. He isnt hurt or anything he is perfectly normal. But she treats me LIKE TRASH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-19 14:08:40 · 24 answers · asked by unfair mom trust me!! 2

we are both stressed as hubby is in hosptal and has been for months he is due for major surgery on weds i know its hard on her having her son in hospital and as ill he is . but she came up here to mine and was stressing and carrying on in front of the kids the kids have enough on knowing their dad is ill without her carrying on so i asked her nicely to lower it and calm down to which she stormed out of the house yelling i had no idea what its like to have a son ill i calmly pointed out that it was my husband and the kids dad too and that we should all be there for each other to which she told me to f off and live her life for a day?! i now have the kids upset as to why grans upset on top of what they've to deal with already

2007-03-19 14:08:36 · 7 answers · asked by kj 5

My husband has next week off from his business because it is spring break in my city. He's been working really hard and we don't get to do many fun things during his busy time. I was hoping we could take a couple days and do things we enjoy together.
One of his employees is 15, without a car, and will be spending spring break at home by himself because his siblings are all older and go off to do their own thing. My husband offered to let him spend spring break here and play video games non stop with my husband for a fun week.
I felt totally irritated that this kid will be staying with us and I get to cook and clean up after one more person, plus, our living room will be taken over by loud video games- no TV for me.
I'm trying to accept the fact that we are doing something nice for this kid but it totally gets on my nerves. I wanted to spend the break lounging around in my underwear and doing fun things with my husband. GRRRR!!!

2007-03-19 13:50:41 · 8 answers · asked by Erin H 3

I am in my teens and i have an on and off relationship with my mother.The other night we got in this fight and i'm not sure if i could talk to my mom about personal problems anymore. I'm not even sure if i could tell her that i love her anymore.I really do love her, its just that i'm afraid that she won't believe me and won't forgive me. :(

2007-03-19 13:44:49 · 10 answers · asked by Euphoria 3

What should I tell my friend if they have gotten pregnant 2 times in a row but always had a miscarrige and she won't listen to me that she is hurting herself. She is only 16 and she says its just bad luck I have tried to tell her parents and she always drags me away and my parents don't listen to me about anything and I am really consurned because she is going to get pregnant again I just know it because she is always having sex. So does anybody have any advice on what to say or do????? PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-03-19 13:43:04 · 4 answers · asked by Have_A_BIG_PROBLEM 1

She is already 14 and will be 15 in Oct. She is very beautiful & Innocent and i would love to keep her like that.

2007-03-19 13:33:27 · 10 answers · asked by Kim 1

I'm 20 and live at home with my parents. I was living on my own for the past 2 years while going to school but after I graduated I ended up moving back do to financial issues. Well I'm getting ready to move out again but what I can't stand is being questioned about where I go and what I do. My dad is the one who's always asking and another thing I can't stand is him asking me how much I make on the job. I never tell him but I just don't like being questioned. I always been responsible and never been a problem to my parents so why does my dad feel the need to still treat me like I'm five I ignore him most of the time and haven't even told him I'm planning on leaving the state and moving back east. My mom is cool but my dad is the problem. I haven't told him I'm leaving becuz he will probably overeact.Does anyone else have this problem or a similar problem and how did it turn out?

2007-03-19 13:23:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can I do as a mum to try to build them closer

2007-03-19 13:09:21 · 2 answers · asked by squark 2

If I am sad and I want to become happier again..How would I handle it or How would you handle it? What kind of advice would you give me to become happier? :(

2007-03-19 13:07:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am just wanting to be able to help my stepchildren. I would like to ask if there is anyone who is being raised or has been raised as a small child by a lesbian mother, if they could express their feelings about this. I am not asking for opinions on if its right or wrong or not looking for any mean answers and not looking for people to say im against this lifestyle or im for it. Just some things children have to go through when mothers decide to raise their children in this situation. I have 2 stepchildren and they live 2 weeks with their mom and her lover and the other 2 weeks with their dad and stepmom. I just want to know what I can do as a stepmom to make things easier for them. I am married to their dad. One is a daughter under 7 and the other is a boy over 10. Thanks

2007-03-19 12:59:57 · 5 answers · asked by Justaskingquestions 2

I've been with my bf for 2 years; we lived together with friends at Uni and then lived with his parents for six months before going travelling. 2 weeks into our trip his dad was diagnosed as terminally ill, so I flew home with him and cancelled our trip.

Before the trip and his dad's illness I had trouble getting along with his mum (although no arguments though), as she emotionally blackmailed my bf quite regularly and we have nothing in common. He found this hard to cope with too.

Now though, we are back and I'm trying my very best to cope with his mum. I've baked her cakes, cooked her dinner most nights, and stayed with them at the hospital. However I still get the feeling she's making digs at me, and she's never grateful for the help (although she is to other people). She needs constant companionship from my bf and is unable to cope with anything alone.

I can't leave as I love my bf and will support him. But how do I accept his mum and stop this tearing us apart?

2007-03-19 12:32:14 · 9 answers · asked by lawyer_amy 1

my half brother or my male cousin who's father has the exact same blood type as my mother .there is no difference between ther're blood you could not tell the differnce.is my cuz or my haf bro more related to me or equally?

2007-03-19 12:27:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I go to her home and babysit for her, take her daughters on the weekend for her, clean her house when I am there but she always seems to find fault with things I do. I am at my wits end with her. I am to the point where I don't even want to be near her.

2007-03-19 12:17:33 · 17 answers · asked by Bon Hazel 2

I need some ideas of what to do at my birthday party this weekend. Any good and fun ideas?

2007-03-19 12:15:50 · 2 answers · asked by iJess 4

I am 43 and my husband 55,married 3 years,both never married before,and I dont want kid but he wants,what todo
I am 43 and my husband 55,married 3 years,both never married before,and I dont want kid but he wants,what should I do. because he wants me to do test tube but I dont like at all,he said if not he will divorce me ,he thinks no kid is no hope no future.

2007-03-19 12:13:30 · 10 answers · asked by Carol H 3

They're already getting me one, but i'm so exicted I can't wait a month and a half! What should I do?

2007-03-19 12:13:20 · 2 answers · asked by pantalon_noir 3

2007-03-19 12:04:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i find that i sometimes need my own privacy.
i am a morning person who sleeps at 12:30 and wakes up at 9, whereas my sis is a night person, who sleeps at 4-5 and wakes up at 12-1. we sometimes do argue cos she sometimes wakes me up at night with all the noise and light and we both find it quite inconvenient sometimes.
now that i've found a job and will have to start work at 9, which means waking up at 7 in the morning, i really want to move out. infac i have told my parents about moving in with my b/f. although we've been together for 4,5 years, they said i cant live with him until we get married. but then, they also dont let me get married so early.
becos my priority is also to get my own freedom and independence, im ok to live with other friends. so i talked to my parents about it. again, they got very angry.
i really dont know wot i should do now.

2007-03-19 12:00:19 · 9 answers · asked by Taxi 1

First happend when i was 16, i just saw the girl and i felt in love!
THen weeks i could not sleep becouse i was thinking at her. I did not had the courage to do something!

After like 4 monts i forget about her, but at 17 years happend again! The tortuer was bigger now and lasted like 1 year, that becouse she was in the same class with me. everyday i saw her, but i never actually did something! :(( I was scared, Of what? I dont know.

and 3 days ago i met a girl in a online game, travian. we chat on msn like 2 hours! after that, the second day i could not stop thinking at her! Again the same problem! We just wrote to each other, i never saw her , but i can not stop thinking at her! I am from romania she is From Germany! 1 hour ago i found out she has a boyfriend! I Dont know why but i was devasted, still am!

2007-03-19 11:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Caivs 2

Well..thats not exactly true. You see, my housemate is one of my closest friends and i love living with her. She gives me plenty of space etc and i can trust her. We often hang out in my room together to watch tv or dvds (as im the only one with a dvd player) and thats fine. But lately i've been coming home unexpectely for lunch etc, when usually i let her know im coming home, and ive found her in my room watching tv and dvds and riding my exercise bike. I've closed the door but obviously that doesnt stop her. Its harmless, but i dont feel respected, when im there its no probs at all but on the weekend when i was away i know she was in there and its just a funny feeling, i feel invaded and like i cant escape! she had a dvd player on her lap top so theres really no excuse, and the exercise bike is a loan and if it gets broken, i'll be to blame. what do u suggest?

2007-03-19 11:55:13 · 14 answers · asked by KissesnKuddles 1

My dad says I hit his car when I really didnt. The side of his door is dented and he found some paint where it was chiped from my car. (long time ago accident I had) he used that and said I did it. So now im sitting here crying. and he keeps saying just tell me you did it. im like "FINE I DID IT" does that make you happy? its his company car and they will fix it...so i dont see why hes so mad when i didnt do it!!!...hes like i dont believe you. he did the same thing about my grades when i told him I have all A's and B's...then he found out by my teachers that i was telling the trough...what SHOULD I DOOO!?!?!?!?!... he was also saying that he was going to tell mom if i didnt tell him that i did it.

2007-03-19 11:45:22 · 16 answers · asked by Faith C 2

as my parents taught me, be nice to everyone.then i left my home, and start working.i saw ppl r lying on small things and
cheating each other. even ppl take advantage of my BE NICE
attitude.
i m confused, what the hell my parents taught me.this is diffrent world.
how should i behave? be nice or be bad.

2007-03-19 11:31:49 · 28 answers · asked by Wondrer 4