What should I tell my friend if they have gotten pregnant 2 times in a row but always had a miscarrige and she won't listen to me that she is hurting herself. She is only 16 and she says its just bad luck I have tried to tell her parents and she always drags me away and my parents don't listen to me about anything and I am really consurned because she is going to get pregnant again I just know it because she is always having sex. So does anybody have any advice on what to say or do????? PLEASE HELP!!!!
2007-03-19 13:43:04 · 4 answers · asked by Have_A_BIG_PROBLEM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to tell her parents so that they can get help for your friend. She is a minor and under her parent's control. If nothing else, call them and tell them you need to discuss something with them regarding your friend and ask them to meet you somewhere so you can discuss this without your friend dragging you away. If nothing else, talk to your school nurse or counselor about this issue and let them get involved. Adults need to handle this situation and it is not fair for someone your age to have to be worried over another. You are young and supposed to be having the time of your life. Another option would be to discuss this with your pastor if you are a church member.
2007-03-19 14:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by curious74432 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents/guardian/older siblings what is going on. If they don't listen the only thing I can suggest is this:
Talk to her, look her straight in the eye and say:
Listen____ I disaprove of you having sex and disrespecting your body. You are not ready for a child. You are endangering your life and your health. You are not ready for a kid and you don't deserve to get sick. Life is to precious.
If you continue having sex that is your choic in life. You should at least use a condom or take birthcontrol pills.
I love you and I do not want to see you get hurt. If you want to go to a clinic to get more information on how to protect your self from pregancy/disease I will glady escort you and I will be there for you. I will do anything not to see you get hurt...not to see you ruin your life.
I hope my advice was helpful.
2007-03-19 21:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not responsible for your friend's lack of good judgment but you can take better care of yourself by getting out of this relationship because it is not a healthy situation. You are not this girl's mother! Find some new friends who are more compatible with you and your lifestyle, and "never" look back.
2007-03-19 20:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new friend. Once your friend is a mom, she won't have time for you.
2007-03-19 20:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋