Family - March 2007

I am 16 and my sister is 13. She is always sad and say her life sucks. She says it is my responsibility to make her happy and make her have a better life because I am the older sister. I disagree with her. She is mad at me. She said "As the older sister, it is your responsibility to make your little sister happy. If you don't carry on your responsibility as the big sister, what is the point of me having a big sister. You are a bad big sister. All my friend's have older sister that make them have a happier life and I am the only one out of them that don't have that kind of an older sister. It is so unfair. If I have a little sister, I would do anything to make her have a happier life, even if it means that I have to sacrifice my happiness and life."

My sister hasn't spoken to me for 1 month because of that. She told my parents and they agree with her that her happiness is my responsibility. The problem is I disagree. What are they that way? What can I do?

2007-03-20 03:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by youngwoman 5

2007-03-20 03:04:29 · 9 answers · asked by bratfaceb14 1

My twin sister & I NEVER got along, & it's like we're worst enemies. She uses me, takes advantage of me & cons & threatens me out of my $$, laughs @ me, beats the crap out of me, starts dangerous false rumors about me, & makes a fool out of me. & she also puts her husband before me. That causes to fuss & argue, sometimes FIGHT in extreme cases. We're 23 yrs. old & STILL get along like this. I try to make things work out, but her retarded husband instigates to hike things up & make things worse by lying & saying I said & did stuff I didn't do & say. & when he sees us fist fighting, he FALLS out laughing!

But they don't get along either. He beat her upside the head with a wrench during her 2nd pregnancy, & also he set her up to get raped, & he brags & boast about how he just married her for her military disabled veteran benefits. She STILL loves him & won't leave him. He's a free-loader. Love Sho'le is blind!

2007-03-20 02:59:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year when i had my birthday he sent texts saying he remembered the day i was born like yesterday.... and i feel miserable coz sometimes i really miss him... but i dont' wanna upset me mam.... any of you know how that feels?

2007-03-20 02:56:05 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor 2

I STILL can't accept my biological family as my family because we were taken away into foster care as infants. & even though my foster family abused me as well as my birth family, the foster family is the only people I can comfortably look at as family. The foster mom is what I'm used to as being my mother. & my birth mom is schizophrenic & strange with many personalities & voices, & it's scary. I feel like WHY DO I HAVE TO BE CURSED WITH A MOTHER & A LIFE LIKE THIS? What would my life be like if my birth mother had a normal brain? I know her illnesses aren't her fault, just like my OCD, Tourette's Syndrome, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, & Major Depressive Disorder isn't MY fault. But my disorder is my birth mom's fault because she used drugs & crack being pregnant with me & my twin sister.

2007-03-20 02:52:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many pepole out there still make tea in a teapot?
your mom, your gran any others??

2007-03-20 02:50:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

She wants me to copy her some CDs, but she calls me all the time, talks a hole in my head, & never lets me say a word, & when I tell her I have to go because I gotta do something, she gets offended & hangs up in my face without saying BYE. & she always tries to pick arguments with me to try to test to see if I will stoop to her level.

She really PISSED me off, & she's a 2-faced back-stabbing wench. Should I record CD's for her or no? & she abandoned me & my twin sister @ birth & abused & neglected us & caused us a lot of brain damage. She was also on drugs when she was pregnant with us. She runs around town, saying that she's smarter than ALL of her kids. She has MANY of us & couldn't take care of any one of us. She started having babies as a teen & became a grandmother @ age 29. What example has she set?

I'm 23 with a college degree & no kids.

2007-03-20 02:44:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

oky there is this girl i have been with her for 2 years and i love her more then i love anything and she loves me 2 but i went on a vacation and found some one els she is something from a book when i saw her i stoped breathing and at the end of the night we wore dancing started to talk and we become good friends and i have never cheated on my gf to this day but i have fallin for the new one and i feel like i should do somthing wat should i do?

2007-03-20 02:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by lee77dt 1

Hey everyone! I am 20 yrs old and am still living at home with my parents but am seriously considering moving out. I have a couple of questions that I'm hoping someone can help me with. First of all, my parents dont like the guy that i plan to move in with. If i tell them that i am moving out against their will, especially with him they will try to take my car away and also prevent my from taking my stuff out of the house. My question is if they are allowed to take my car if it is in my name? The car is fully paid off but they do pay the insurance. I am willing to start paying it on my own if i move out but i want to make sure that they cant take me to court for stealing the car anything. And secondly, can they prevent my from moving out? Should I even tell them that im moving out or should i just leave one day? Any comments and suggestions are welcome. Thank You!

2007-03-20 02:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by tired20 1

My husband wants to terminate his right to the child & pay no child support. Is that possible in Virginia? PLEASE HELP! His baby mother gives him all kinds of promblems & even tries to turn the child against him. He feels like he has no other choice.

2007-03-20 02:32:19 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1

How would you react if your daugher got preganant at 14 yrs old , and your wife new all about the pregnacy from the start and didnt tell you , just kept it a secret between her and your daughter and carried on as normal hiding the pregnacy all of the 9 months , only for her recton to be when your daugher went into labour is OH MY GOD ID DIDNT EVEN NOW SHE WAS PREGANANT .

this happened to my sisters husbands niece , the child is now 6 months old but the wife ,when she is talking about the baby she is slipping up on things about her daughter being preganant ,when she said she didnt know she was , anyway she has told her husband that she did no now but he says he will never be able to trust her again .
how would you react ?

2007-03-20 02:31:51 · 9 answers · asked by fafandloo 5

well I end up snapping at her, I don't want to but it comes out! I don't yell at her but I say things to here like no Sh!t and stuff like that. I hate myself for that. I try not to but I do the same thing to the first person That I see when life frustrates me!
how do I work on that?

2007-03-20 02:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

At the rehearshal dinner??
I know we give all the bridemaids and groommens gifts but how about the parents??
PS- we are hosting everything so we are on a tight budget so gift suggestions would be wonderful.

2007-03-20 02:20:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I only get to see my dad about a week twice a year. My parents are divorced and my father lives in some town somewhere in the Andes in Peru. My parents have a good relationship with each other and I talk to him regularly on the phone every week.

Its been this way for four years. I miss him a great deal and even though I love him I feel really frustrated that he did not want to come with the rest of our family to the United States. I sometimes wish he wouldnt even come visit, since every time he comes and leaves it brakes my heart.

I am 15 right now and the only male in the house and with lots of social/emotional problems. I do not blame him for any of this, but I do wish he was around to guide me or teach me the things that you really cant talk about with your mother or sisters. I look up to him but it is not the same, I have realized I find myself looking up to other people instead like my older sister's or my mom's boyfriend.

2007-03-20 02:18:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19 and my mom is 40, we live together. my dad has been away in another country for work. recently, my mom has been approaching me in a very weird way. the other day i was sitting and watching television. she came and sat beside me, then threw her arms around me , grabbed me by the chin and smooched me 5 or 6 wetly and hardly several times on the lips and asked me how i was. i was so shocked, that i took an excuse and escaped the scene. the other day, i was studying, when she suddenly came in, grabbed me by the chin again and kissed me with wide lips. I could trace the odor of her saliva on my lips. i was so embarrassed that I couldn't even do anything... why is she acting like this?

2007-03-20 02:12:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

question - ok have jsut won two tickets top go and see the tweenies on saturday. instead of me going with my daughter, do you think i should let my partner take her? although we have been living together about a year she is still sometimes a bit wary, do you think this might bring her closer to him?

2007-03-20 02:10:31 · 13 answers · asked by lisaviduka 3

my mom is crazy. She is making stuff up about my friends so that i wont have any. she talk to my now ex boy friend on the phone. i need to get out of my house im 17 and one of my friends moved out of her house and the DA told her mom she couldnt stop her im afraid if i stay here i am going to hurt myself again i cant handle her nonsense anymore what do i do?

2007-03-20 02:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by Cutiepieblueeyes 2

this is a story that happended to me and i dont know what to do, one day i was keepin my little brother i had just got off the phone with his grandma so i could lay him down for a nap when my cousin who lives nrxt door because i stay in the projects: called me and told me to come get my batteries she had brought for me.My brother was sleep so i layed in the chair by the door so that i could hear him,and went next door to get the the batteries, when i came back someone called the police on me because he came out of the apartment looking for me i gone only 10 min what should i do because i have to go to court

2007-03-20 02:06:12 · 10 answers · asked by shareka 1

i love my brother i toke a bullet for him once and i will do it again but he is something els he cares about him self and him self only, he has screwed me over many times but i still keep him close to me is it time to go or should i watch over him no matter what.

2007-03-20 02:05:22 · 17 answers · asked by lee77dt 1

They take my kindness for weakness & use me for my money & beat on me, & they start dangerous false rumors about me. They even tell me to my face that they can care less about me. Is it that I'm the only college graduate in the family?

2007-03-20 01:48:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 01:44:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 01:41:36 · 8 answers · asked by lee77dt 1

i have an a mazing girl friend, i have money will my dad dose and i have all of his money its under my name and my grand father is a very powerful man but im just not happy what is it that is making me unhappy and feeling dead?

2007-03-20 01:18:50 · 32 answers · asked by lee77dt 1

tell ma m8s im bi

2007-03-20 01:02:45 · 4 answers · asked by Nikki.babessssxoxo 1

Just last month, 2weeks after my annual checkup,the doctor called me to go to his clinic immediately.I hv been told i hv cancer.Being a non smoker nor drinker myself i was very puzzled but was told to accept the fact.Now i hv not told my wife nor family yet as i was still not able to accept it.Doc told me i'm already in stage 3 and there's nothing much really they can do for me.I 'm 35yo and happily married to my lovely wife.I honestly do not know what to do and sucide is constantly on my mind. Currenty i m too depressed to do anything.I m very worried how my wife will react.I' m writing and asking this question not to gain any sympathy but advices that will hopfully end my burden.Yes i admit i will die but i do feel that i hv let my wife down.What should I do?

2007-03-20 00:13:41 · 31 answers · asked by chasen54 5

I was at a concert and i got caught with some weed. So security called the police and they took me and my 4 other friends in a back room of the concert stadium. A female police officer showed up and pulled my pants and underwear down right in front of the 2 security officers and my friends, while i was still standing. She said if i resisted that she would handcuff me, so she was feeling my privates and bum area, while i stood there humiliated! was this even legal????

2007-03-20 00:00:46 · 14 answers · asked by Dana M 1

thier is this girl A.K.A (mega *****), she always picks on my head cause is is adnormal. I mean this is a everyday thing, i try not to let her get to me but she does kinda. Every time she picks on me on dont look at her and i keep strong but her freinds are starting to pick on me and i dont even know them!!!! I really dont want to tell anyone casue its not that serious. I mean i never did anything to her!!! She talks about me even while i am behind her!!!!! The only time i ever talked about her is when she talked about me. I bring gum to school like 3 times a week and one time she asked for some i said HELL NO, then she laughed. the next morning she talked about my head , this time it really brought down my self esteem. O yea dont even say she likes me cause she doesnt trust me! What should i do so she wont mess with me?

2007-03-19 23:34:36 · 10 answers · asked by rip sniper 2

i had divorce with my first wife and have 1 child(boy). i remarried and have another 2 child(girls). i have the boy's custody. my ex wife is leaving singapore soon to remarried but she is not bringing him. just on friday, she bring him back to her home to stay for the weekend. when my son came back, he felt so sad and cry. this 2 days, he play truant and came back home late. til now, he still not back from school. i already check with the school and there is no activity. please help, i felt like going crazy and sad

2007-03-19 23:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by goh s 1

my mum has been with my stepdad for 17 years now and my birth father has been in and out of my life since he split with my mum my step dad has been the best father i could ask for and was a great support when i had my son i have had no contact with my birth father for a long time and he has only seen my son in passing but he has never seen my sisters two children he doesnt even know where we both live it would be a dream come true if my step dad could adopt us if you know the answer please let me know and if its possible would i have to aask my birth fathers permission thank you

2007-03-19 23:02:34 · 14 answers · asked by Claire 1

what is the best way to handle a child with mild autism in a way that i don't let my other children feel left out by giving much attention to my other child?

2007-03-19 22:37:48 · 5 answers · asked by lolita p 1