Should I do a favor for my mother that she requested or no?

Question

She wants me to copy her some CDs, but she calls me all the time, talks a hole in my head, & never lets me say a word, & when I tell her I have to go because I gotta do something, she gets offended & hangs up in my face without saying BYE. & she always tries to pick arguments with me to try to test to see if I will stoop to her level.

She really PISSED me off, & she's a 2-faced back-stabbing wench. Should I record CD's for her or no? & she abandoned me & my twin sister @ birth & abused & neglected us & caused us a lot of brain damage. She was also on drugs when she was pregnant with us. She runs around town, saying that she's smarter than ALL of her kids. She has MANY of us & couldn't take care of any one of us. She started having babies as a teen & became a grandmother @ age 29. What example has she set?

I'm 23 with a college degree & no kids.

Answer 1

That is a shame your mother is so messed up. You need to realize that she obviously suffers from mental problems. But her mental illness should not become your mental illness. I think you need to limit your contact with your mom. You can't take how she reacts to you personally (such as hanging up on you or her anger) because she is not rational. She sounds like she is very manipulative, intimidating and attention seeking and gets angry when she doesn't get her way. She has probably been this way all her life. I really think you should consult a counselor on the best way to deal with her and you need healing from your hurt due to your mother's behavior. I wish you all the best.

Answer 2

ur still enabling her to abuse u seek counselling for urself these are her issues and insecurities but u need to break the cycle

Answer 3

You don't owe her anything. Tell her if she's so smart, then she can record the CD's herself,