i find that i sometimes need my own privacy.
i am a morning person who sleeps at 12:30 and wakes up at 9, whereas my sis is a night person, who sleeps at 4-5 and wakes up at 12-1. we sometimes do argue cos she sometimes wakes me up at night with all the noise and light and we both find it quite inconvenient sometimes.
now that i've found a job and will have to start work at 9, which means waking up at 7 in the morning, i really want to move out. infac i have told my parents about moving in with my b/f. although we've been together for 4,5 years, they said i cant live with him until we get married. but then, they also dont let me get married so early.
becos my priority is also to get my own freedom and independence, im ok to live with other friends. so i talked to my parents about it. again, they got very angry.
i really dont know wot i should do now.
2007-03-19 12:00:19 · 9 answers · asked by Taxi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
At 22, you do not need your parent's permission to move out. If you want to move in with your BF, then do it!
You will need good sleep for your job, and you aren't going to get it in the room with your sister. Do what's right for YOU, you are old enough!
2007-03-19 12:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think about maybe moving out and living with reliable roommates. Your parents fear might be that you might get out in the world and go wild. Show them that you can be responsible of yourself. Make a budget of how you will achieve living on your own. How will you pay for food, rent or any other bills that might arise. Start a emergency savings account now, and a moving out account now, till your parents approve. Living with your parents gives you the freedom to save I hope. I don't think living with your boyfriend is the answer, but if it comes down to that make sure your relationship is strong enough to make that change. In the end, you have to do what makes you happy. Your parents just want you to be safe I hope and don't won't you to make a mistake they or yourself can't recover from. Good Luck!
2007-03-19 12:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by dratini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your parents control you. You are 22 years old and should be able to move out. Your parents can't stop you from moving in with your boyfriend. You need your own space and freedom. Sounds like your parents are not ready to let you go, but you have to tell them that you have made up your mind and you are moving out. Good luck.
2007-03-19 13:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you are 22 and you need to make your own choices. your parents may get upset, but you are in a position where you need to do what is right for you. if you think moving in with your bf or a good friend is the right thing (which, your first move out is usually best to do with a roommate of some kind) then you should go for it.
2007-03-19 12:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out, you are 22 and your parents are no longer responsible for you. i can see them getting upset if you want to live with your boyfriend but they will get over it if they love you. Unless it is a religious thing, but moving in with Friends would solve that problem, your parents have no legal right to stop you from doing anything now.
2007-03-19 12:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Marla D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relies upon particularly on the placement handy. Is there yet another room in the domicile? Does he have the components to circulate out? Is he nevertheless attending college or coaching? If there is yet another room in the domicile then he ought to in all probability be in it and not together with his 24 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous sister. i won't be able to think of of any redeemable exception to this. If he has the components to circulate out, and by utilising this I recommend a comfortable earnings and a place to truly circulate into (and probable different factors), then he in all probability should not be their regardless. If he's attempting to circulate out yet would not have the components to realize this, then that's no longer his fault. If he remains in college or coaching then this might impression the view of the previous question. many times guy or woman that are nevertheless in college/coaching won't artwork so they might concentration on their instructions. This demands them to stay with their mom and father until eventually they're achieved. As I suggested, there are dissimilar factors that are in contact in this that, because of the fact the solutions, we are no longer attentive to. I particularly doubt (or a minimum of desire) that he's doing something in perfect together with his sister and that they in all probability the two choose the placement to be diverse. For one, it would be awkward for the two one in all them if the two of them further their companion over. i might basically communicate with him approximately it in a comfortable, non-accusatory, and non-demeaning way. there could be a redeemable clarification at the back of it which you're no longer attentive to. They to maintain an open concepts and not enable your mind's eye create any assumptions in the previous you realize in the event that they're genuine or no longer. optimistically this helped. Have a severe high quality day and robust success.
2016-10-02 10:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
last time I check 22 years of age means you are a grown up adult maybe it time to chew off the umbilical cord
2007-03-19 12:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are old enough to make your own decisions. Why do you have to listen to your parents? or ask for them to renovate a room for you somewhere in your house.
2007-03-19 12:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. I hope your kidding,,,your 22 YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT,,,,MOVE OUT WHEN YOU WANT
TELL THEM NOT ASK THAT YOUR MOVING OUT!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 12:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋