Family - February 2007

okay my cousin is coming from New York tomorrow and my aparment is a pig pen!!! i always clean up the house but my mother (who is a slob) comes and messes it up then it goes back to looking junky!!! how can i get her to stop doing this?? MY COUSIN LIVES IN A HUGE CLEAN AND TIDY HOUSE!
i tryed talking to her but she just walks away or contiues doing so
my dad does not care
how can i get my mom to help me clean the house up and still keep it clean????


my cousin is staying here from Friday at 7:00 to Monday at 2:00

2007-02-15 08:50:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi my name is Amy. My parents beat me. I dont knwo what to do. My report card is comign again and it is not good. I think i might not get promoted. If idont get promoted i am going to get beat. I dont want to get beat what do i do?

2007-02-15 08:46:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom aslo passed away of cancer on march 13 2005. We are currently 16.

2007-02-15 08:26:53 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda R 1

My Mom just got back from Iraq in Oct. and now my Dad's leaving for Iraq. I'm totally depressed. I'm an only child so, it's not like I have some help in dealing with it. Please. Help

2007-02-15 08:17:58 · 8 answers · asked by Steven's Girl♥ 5

Almost two years ago my grandmother died of a serious Heart Attack,a few days later her widower had a massive stroke that left him imobalized for a year until his death last summer.They were my dads parents,my parents are divorced,and my dog of 5 years died 3 weeks ago.

My moms parents who are about the same age are not real healthy,they live happily together about 10 miles away.They are both diabetics.My grandpa (moms dad)has had serious heat problems for a long time,hes had bypasses and countless precedures and surgerys,he also has a pacemaker.My grandma is healthier but still has trouble getting around.They both have appoitments with various doctors on a daily basis.

I saw them before the deaths of my dads parents once every two weeks now its about 4 times every two weeks(at least im honest)what do I do now?How do I deal with the loss of two grandparents and when my remaining two are no longer here?
What can I do now to prevent me from becoming more heart broken.

2007-02-15 08:17:38 · 4 answers · asked by Aces747 2

i have a mom and dad who hit me allot even if itss for a little thing like just today i opend like a fruite can and my mom threw a mettel spatula at me
and allot they beat me and stuff for vary little reasen like they dont do it for no reasen at all but wen i do something wrong they beat me and like 2 days ago i got highlits in my hair and every body loved them at school including teachers and stuff but my mom hated them and when my dad came home he ruined my whole day today by calling me mean names and phycalagical stuff like swearing at me 2 and then he grabbed me took me into the bathroom and shaved my haid improperlry its all uneven know but i think im gona go to the barber shop to get it even i cant even think about going to school tumaro
and having every bod laff at me wen every body complimented me before omg.
oh and if this is abuse plz tell me wat i shuld do about it please help me please please pleas

2007-02-15 08:04:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-15 07:57:22 · 9 answers · asked by Cloudy 5

How did she treat you when you lived at home and now that your on your own, that makes your relationship close. I seem to upset my daughter sometimes and Ineed to know when to stay out of her business or not to say certain things.

2007-02-15 07:56:38 · 12 answers · asked by La Cicada 4

Hi, i am currently a working student who supports her mom. My mother has 3 years of not working, and my dad left us 2 years ago (me, my mom, and my little brother) so i had to support more than half cause my dad only gives 350 a month. I agreed to take care of my mom but feel my little brother is not my responsibility so asked my dad to give a little more or to at least take my little brother to live with him for some weekends. But he does not want to do either. I told my mom to request child support cause its not fair to me. My mom does not work because I choose to take care of her and her health but I was wondering if the court will say anything to this? My dad does not want my little brother to live with him and gives very little money for what he gets monthly. Should we request or do we not have a case? Also do I have to include my income even though I am not a parent?

2007-02-15 07:52:06 · 17 answers · asked by Bella 1

My mom dosnt work, she married my step dad for money and she sits home all day and watches tv. The house is a dump and is dirty than some trailer homes.. I cant even have my girlfriend over its too embaracing, I'm pretty sure anyone who saw, would consider my parents and house unacceptable for me to live in and with.

2007-02-15 07:47:43 · 8 answers · asked by maxerr04 2

I have had AOL all my life and just recently my dad People PC and I hate it!?!?!I cant watch Youtube or help out people on here cause its so slow.My dad makes plenty of money a year,hes a mechanic for the goverment(ok maybe not that much money like 45 grand a year)But still!!!We have Directv and without cable it costs like almost 46 dollars a month compared to the 22 dollars of Aol and 10 to PeoplePC.

How can I convince my dad to lighten up and get Road Runner High Speed Online from time warner cable???anything please.Thanks

2007-02-15 07:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by Aces747 2

or to anyone come to that, but how on earth could you guess that within your own family unit lurks a paedophile waiting to pounce.

Would you have an inkling that this sort person lived in your midst?

2007-02-15 07:37:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, my boyfriend and I live together, and his little brother is coming to visit us tonight. He has ADHD and is on depression medication, and I think some other medications. I feel bad because I dont know how to act around him sometimes. He is usually really down about everything, and telling us about how he gets in trouble all the time, and does drugs ect. He's 16 by the way. I dont have anything against him, I was that age too once. I really want him to be able to trust me, and to feel normal around me, but I dont know how to come across to him like that. Hes a rebel in his family, and my boyfriend is trying to help him out, by hanging out with him. He looks up to my boyfriend SO much. And I feel like he doesnt really care for me. I've never done anything to make him feel like that though to my knowledge. I guess I'm just asking if anyone has advice for me, Id really appreciate it :) thanks so much!

2007-02-15 07:29:47 · 5 answers · asked by shelb 2

and my sons. We see them reguarly at practice daily. My question is if you know that they are not plant or flower people what should i give as a condolence gift? Money, card, book any suggestion would be great. Will be going there in a couple of hours i should have asked sooner.

2007-02-15 07:29:38 · 12 answers · asked by therealskeptic@sbcglobal.net 2

why do you figure my brother, i haven't seen for 19yrs won't respond to me? he won't even say "don't want any" "no thanks don't want to know you" "see ya don't want to be ya"nothing! why? i would rather read that than guess and wait for a response. i found him in august 2006,what do you or anyone suppose i should do?

2007-02-15 07:21:42 · 15 answers · asked by D T 2

WOMEN ONLY!!! What would you do? Was I to harsh? My Husband, mother in law, & I were all in the livingroom. My MIL (mother in law) told my husband our daughter is not his...that supposedly I told her sisters/nieces 2 1/2 years ago when I was pregnant that he wasn't the father. Lie #1. Then she told him while she sits on the couch i call my sons dad everyday & tell him I love him in front of her. LIE #2. Then she tells me she hates my son. Then she tells me & my husband she has been trying for the past 2 years to get divorced. Then she says she sits there while I talk to her sisters/nieces asking them ?s about her & I talk about her. LIE #3. Then she says my son is a brat, is no good, & says he kicks her bed each morning just to wake her up.LIE #4. What would you do? How would you react? I told her she had to leave. Yes I kicked her A** out. My husbands reaction was "she was mad and said it all out of anger". But why would a grown women bring her grand daughter in all this?

2007-02-15 07:10:00 · 18 answers · asked by { Me } 2

I currently have temporary custody of a niece and would like to adopt her. Her mom said she would sign, but we dont know where to start. Can anyone help? This is in California.

2007-02-15 06:51:14 · 2 answers · asked by dasandiego 2

the other day i was in my bedroom changing and she walked in on me while i was only wearing my underwear. and the other night i walked into my room and she had a pair of my briefs and was sniffing them what should i do???

2007-02-15 06:50:59 · 29 answers · asked by dodgecharger6901 1

i am 17 with twin girls that are 16 months and a baby boy that is 7 months old my and my twins fatherand i are not together he is with my bestfriend, they have been together for 4 years my bestfriend is their godmother the only problem is she dont know that he is their father she thinks it was a one night stand and i dont know where the father is!!! my son's father is married to my sister i want so bad to tell her but i cant i really am in love with him but and still see each other but my sister has no idea what should i do????

2007-02-15 06:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by babbymomma17 1

Is it just me that has absolutely nothing in common with their mum,different views on everything.

2007-02-15 06:47:21 · 29 answers · asked by heebygeeby 4

shouldn't they move out once they hit 18? and also, doesn't parenting legally end at age 18?

2007-02-15 06:39:15 · 20 answers · asked by . 5

How does everyone do it?! Cleaning, cooking, working part-time from home, and a ten month old comprise my life. How do you other moms balance everything? I want to spend as much time with my daughter as possible, but what about housework and cooking? I also work part-time, and let my daughter watch videos or play in the room while I work. I feel so guilty... I don't know what to do to better care for her.

2007-02-15 06:28:54 · 14 answers · asked by dde 1

i put a qusetion down on something that i need to write a paper on but i didn't know that if you pick an answer you can't get more answers. I NEED MORE ANSWERS !

2007-02-15 06:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by Robert Stineback 1

i dont like to cummunicate with ppl .......i believe that no ppl = peace ....im afraid from ppl .....when im sad i hate to talk to ppl about it ........n t ( i know alot of ppl ...and there are many ppl who likes me .....) ( also i dont have good friends ,they are not my type ) at home ( i heard cruel words from mother father and sister ( but also they save me the money they buy things i want but i am always blamed ..whats wrong and be nice thx

2007-02-15 06:01:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

unstable people do a lot of harsh things to a child or someone that they suposiably love and others try to help but if the person doesn't want the help or does want it but can't get away from it what can we do. also what are the different ways that they can do to get over the things that happened in the pasted.

2007-02-15 05:49:10 · 8 answers · asked by Robert Stineback 1

I am in love with my cousin. I know it's wrong and gross but i can't help it. we are so perfect for each other. I haven't acted on my feelings but i need help. I don't know what to do.

2007-02-15 05:46:06 · 35 answers · asked by amy d 1

my bf William (EX NOW) died about 3 y.ears ago christmas eve. he was the love of my life. im still having flash backs to willam and i still miss him so much. i need 2 let go but how do i do that? its so hard

2007-02-15 05:38:43 · 11 answers · asked by Bewbies 2

2007-02-15 05:35:25 · 11 answers · asked by a b 1

I just moved in with my father and his wife, me and her do not get along at all and we constantly argue.she constantly does thingz and she's bi-polar! Then this weekend me and her got into physical fight. (I'm only 18) So I had already been planning to move but was waiting for this semester to end to go. so I had to leave and was threatened to drop my classes. But i came bac, and now my father and his wife treat me like crap. so I was talkin' to my fiance and he told me he's goin' thru the exact same situation but he has to b out by the end of this month. so we have sumwhere we can go, but if I go I will b leaving school and having to wait till the fall to go bac,(if I can)? should i or not?

2007-02-15 05:27:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

like you dont care at all wether they r sleeping or not. im talking teenagers that r 13 , 14, 15, 16, 17, 18 and 19. that age bracket

2007-02-15 05:23:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous