Almost two years ago my grandmother died of a serious Heart Attack,a few days later her widower had a massive stroke that left him imobalized for a year until his death last summer.They were my dads parents,my parents are divorced,and my dog of 5 years died 3 weeks ago.
My moms parents who are about the same age are not real healthy,they live happily together about 10 miles away.They are both diabetics.My grandpa (moms dad)has had serious heat problems for a long time,hes had bypasses and countless precedures and surgerys,he also has a pacemaker.My grandma is healthier but still has trouble getting around.They both have appoitments with various doctors on a daily basis.
I saw them before the deaths of my dads parents once every two weeks now its about 4 times every two weeks(at least im honest)what do I do now?How do I deal with the loss of two grandparents and when my remaining two are no longer here?
What can I do now to prevent me from becoming more heart broken.
2007-02-15 08:17:38 · 4 answers · asked by Aces747 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
bro, after 11yrs. in prison all i can say is-God will never leave or forsake you, that's the Bible. God is there for me, i have a young son and a beautiful wife, we will be moving into our own 3 bedroom house next year. To God i give the glory.
2007-02-15 09:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry_S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of my fahter's parnts have died as well. my grandmother when i was 9 of cancer, and my grandpa when i was 14 of pneumonia because a stupid nurse left his window open when he was at the nursing home because he had a stroke. we don't talk to my mother's parents. the only thing i can say, is to brace yourself for what you know is coming. i learned to do this when my grandpa had his first stroke. it takes away some of the blow, knowing that he will finally be at peace from his suffering. i know it doesn't make the tears or the pain stop, but it will make it a little better. it's never easy when someoen dies, but at least you can start telling yourself that they are old, they're sick, and they won't be suffering when they die. i know it sounds morbid and kinda mean, but it will make the pain a little easier knowing to expect it. it worked for me any way. i'm sorry for your loss....
oh, and don't be ahsamed to cry...let your emotions put!! keeping them bottled in will only make it worse!
2007-02-15 09:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Duelen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you poor thing. Well your heart will break no matter what. Just talk to someone about your greif. Good luck.
2007-02-15 08:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋