whats wrong with me.......?

Question

i dont like to cummunicate with ppl .......i believe that no ppl = peace ....im afraid from ppl .....when im sad i hate to talk to ppl about it ........n t ( i know alot of ppl ...and there are many ppl who likes me .....) ( also i dont have good friends ,they are not my type ) at home ( i heard cruel words from mother father and sister ( but also they save me the money they buy things i want but i am always blamed ..whats wrong and be nice thx

Answer 1

You isolate yourself and are with people wo speak to you in a negative way. How can you possibly feel good about yourself. You've become an introvert to the extreme and it is depressing you. See a doctor and then a counsellor to help you out of the pit you are in. You gotta work at it girl.

Answer 2

Yuo just need to give yourself a chance and open up! Make friends with ppl older than you no matter what age, make new relationships with ppl your type but older ppl, because chances are you aren't learning from some ppl that are younger or same age! Tha's a good start thou...!!!

Answer 3

it sounds like your depressed. when I get really depressed I hate to even be around people. same thing with me with my family. It got better when I stopped listening to them and actually told them off. I felt terrible but they got the hint that it hurts to be blamed for everything. I couldn't even walk into a room without being blamed for on thing or another, it could be there bad day at work to they spilt something. it was always my fault. I told them (actually I yelled and had a right old temper tantrum, they told me that I reminded them of when I was 3. I scream till I turned purple). They got the point. thank god. My suggestion with your family is talk to them, make them see that what they are doing is poison for you. Maybe even seeing a counsler (my parents sent me after the tantrum. lots of built up rage)


Hope this helps..... don't forget to take time for yourself. Your #1 you need to take care of you before you can take care of anyone else. I learnt that the hard way.

Answer 4

im sorry to hear that you dont like to communicate with other people about anything ,but in a way you are communicating right now.You are asking for help and i hope i help you at least a little. Firstly i want to say im not an expert in any of the things im going to say to you ,but you can take this on board as just advice. you maybe suffering from a form of depression or maybe whats known as shyness syndrome ,these can be treated if you go visit your doctor.Maybe you confidence is low and you feel that talking to people or freinds is hard and stressfull and that maybe you feel you cant find the words. Do you find it hard getting the words out of your mouth and maybe somtimes stutter or come out with the wrong words ,so you avoid talking to anyone because of that?.ALso idont think your parents were bieng intentially cruel ,though i dont know full story.i also dont think they mean to blame you for anything but they maybe worried for you but they dont know what to say to you ,.you could try talking to them about all the things you are saying on here because im sure they love you and they really want to help you but dont know how until you speak with them.Or if its easier why not let them read your question and then read mine and maybe others answers to you ,this way it will be much easier bcause they will hear everything you have to say ,then they maybe able to help you and understand you.Everyone needs freinds and you will too when things are sorted .you are probably thinking that your alright as you are, but you dont sound very happy to me , and that makes me sad because you could be having a fully happy ,confident,content life right now and im sure you will if you take alittle advice and please see a doctor because i promise he will help you to be the you ,that you want to be.Sort this now tommorow if you can and i bet by summer you will be feeling really good about yourself,and out with your freinds or meeting new ones without any fear at all.I truely hope iv helped you.SO PLEASE GO AND HELP YOURSELF BE HAPPY.

Answer 5

I need to stop feeling sorry for yourself. That's where low self esteem starts. Try looking at things in a positive way. If you don't like people then your friends with the wrong people. Yeah everyone is going to get on your nerves sometimes.
As for your family. Stick up for yourself. If your family is saying mean things to you then tell them. If your an adult maybe you need to move into your our place. If your still in school....then you may have to deal with certain things. Living in your parents house means obaying their rules no matter what they are. It's there house...not yours. You have to respect that.
If your family is critical....maybe they aren't trying to be mean, but your taking it that way. Try taking a step back. Don't react to what they say or do. Think about what they say and really understand if they are just being mean.
There is nothing wrong with you. You just need to start accepting who you are, who you like and don't like. Be who you are...not what others want. Respect yourself and have confidence in you above all.

Answer 6

I pretty much feel most comfortable without them, especially if they're strangers. I've always been shy, I'm way better now that I've accepted myself but I'm pretty much a quiet person, except with my husband and my family. I think it all comes from low self-esteem, maybe you've had bad experiences with people so it's easier to avoid them. Like I felt alot of people made fun of me, took advantage of me, mistreated me and I was so sensitive. And I have come to the conclusion that most of it, if not all, stemmed from how my dad treated me. He was scary to me. They say that how you feel at home (like if you don't feel safe or loved) will determine how good you will feel about yourself. How has your family life been? Even what type of role models your parents have been. My parents fought all the time and I didn't feel they loved ea. other.
I agree with RedNB

Answer 7

I don't think there is anything wrong with you. I can see myself in you. I used to be that way, but now I have learned to communicate with ppl because it is a necessity; that is to have a social life. You have to find one special person that you can build up love and confortness with, then it will come to you. Trust me. You will end up refering to them as "My other half" or "my best pal". You will find them. All you have to do is let go and release yourself to someone. I found mine, (it ended up being my younger brother and my nephew.)
Good Luck and don't be scared to let go.
(if you are blamed, don't listen and keep going)
I hope this helped at least a little.
Claudia

Answer 8

Nothing is wrong with you unfortunately you are surrounded by a bunch of loser.. You need to find a good friend who you can talk to and trust them you will feel better.. Even if it is someone you know on the net who you have never met.. Sometimes hearing someone answer back and say you not wrong helps big time and you do not have to worry about privacy because they do not know you!. Email me if you need to talk!!

Answer 9

You really need to look into seeing a professional about your feelings.. And if you do not want anyone to know or cannot afford to see someone there are a lot of free clinics and they will keep in confidential........( there are phone hot lines also, look in your phone book)

Answer 10

clean the house do something nice wke up in same schedule or if your done with school.go get a job life is never relaxing all people had to do something and as a mother a womans work is never done till you die its done..ha ha..we all will get use to it and learn.^_^


remember if they abuse you thats the time you stand on your own.