i am 17 with twin girls that are 16 months and a baby boy that is 7 months old my and my twins fatherand i are not together he is with my bestfriend, they have been together for 4 years my bestfriend is their godmother the only problem is she dont know that he is their father she thinks it was a one night stand and i dont know where the father is!!! my son's father is married to my sister i want so bad to tell her but i cant i really am in love with him but and still see each other but my sister has no idea what should i do????
2007-02-15 06:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by babbymomma17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wow...this is a dilemma gurlie.Y did u get urself into so much trouble in the first place, what were u thinking?!! Listen to me, u can't tell ur sis that her hussy is ur babyboy's dad.Unless he got with her LONG (like months) after u had sex with him.Did u take DNA tests?How r u so sure he's the dad?BE careful.I don't give ur "bestfriend" high ratings for dealing with ur ex.That's just weird.I hope u rn't making assumptions though. If u r, get the guys and take the tests.If they ARE ur babies' fathers, bring the matter to a lawyer or something, bcuz u need child support.
2007-02-15 07:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well you should not be in love with a guy who fathered your twins and married your sister, he obviously is a cheater and not a guy you want to be with. He would do the same thing to you if you were with him. And, how can you not think about your sister, thats family, thats just wrong. You need to tell her how her husband is no good and you need to lose any feelings for him. You may need him in your life for the babies but thats as far as that should go. It will probably most likely cause a huge fight between you and your sister but its only right to tell her. You may even lose her friendship forever but thats going to be a chance you have to take. Do the right thing, its a messed up situation.
2007-02-15 07:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by xcathy23x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young, where are your parents? You need to tell everyone the truth. You are just a baby yourself at 17. How are you supporting these babies? Let me guess our taxes are doing it for you. You need to quit having sex especially unprotected or go get fixed so you can't pop out anymore kids. The only ones I pity in your web you weaved is those babies. Find some counseling before you damage anything or anyone else.
2007-02-15 07:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flipping heck your only 17 by the time your 20 you will be able to write a book how about keeping your legs shut that's a good start what a nasty sister you are
2007-02-15 07:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You begin by painting a sad picture of yourself being a child mother and then the more you carry on, your just a hoe!
2007-02-15 07:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Cow...move out of the South honey!
2007-02-15 06:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tyerant 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to call one of those TV talk shows - - - like Montel Williams or someone like that. Boy, would they love YOUR story!
2007-02-15 08:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋