Family - February 2007

2007-02-14 20:02:45 · 26 answers · asked by sha_nai 1

I've always gotten along well with my mother in law, and when I had to go back to work one month ago she looked after our son for 2 days a week .
Just 3 days ago, she rang my hubby and said that she can't handle looking after him anymore because our house is too dangerous for a baby. It's not ,it's baby proof. She also said our house is disgusting and listed every thing possible wrong, towels on the floor in the bathroom, there are crumbs on the floor, I don't iron my husbands shirts, blah blah, really went off about how she can't stand being here.
Now my house is clean, but because I work 4 full days a week it's not perfectly clean, but it's clean enough..just not to her standards. She won't let our son do anything incase he hurts himself and she monitors every single poo and sometimes even saves the nappies to show us when we get home if she thinks it's not good.
I am soooo offended and angry! Now she is not even coming to his one year birthday party.
What do I do about this?

2007-02-14 19:44:59 · 8 answers · asked by lara f 1

slept with their own mom....or a sister?????

2007-02-14 19:07:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do to revive from my sadness ?

2007-02-14 18:56:36 · 11 answers · asked by Lia 2

The only time I have spent time with my grandparents is when I was younger and it has been a long time since I have seen them. This is due to the fact that I live very far from them and also there is a language barrier. I do my best to try to speak to them but nothing is accomplished other than the impersonal small talk. I regret not being able to be fluent in my native language, but now that I am older there are so many things going on in my life.

I know the time is soon when I will have to say goodbye, but how can I do this without even knowing them that well. I don't want to be regretting this for the rest of my life, knowing that I wasn't able to get to know my grandparents personally. I feel that I missed out on a lot in my life because of this, as I could have learned a lot from them. I am so confused, please help!

Thanks

2007-02-14 18:54:28 · 3 answers · asked by Vegas♠Bound 2

well im the youngest one in my family(i will be 18 in 2 months)..all my bros and siss are older than me ...my family especially mother call me (Cute)names like im 4yr child even infront of others sometimes and my gf...and shes allways worried when im out and keep calling checking if im ok...i feel like i cant be responsible for everything because the so sweet way they treat me i get everything i want and she even didnt want me get a job(i have a job)..what shall i do i just want them treat me my age im not a kid...

2007-02-14 18:50:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

after having our first baby we both started hating each other but we both love our baby a lot.

2007-02-14 18:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by Laksh 1

they think everyone is there to get them, to steal from them and to kill them, have you ever have to deal with one?

2007-02-14 18:26:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my daughter's dad when I was 3 months pregnant. Never heard from him since, which is fine with me. I broke up with him for a reason. I live at home with my family, because financially I can't move out. I am on a debt consolidation, paying a super high amount still. I work part-time, and am looking for full-time work. I took a buyout offer from my high paying job at the same time I broke up with my daughter's father. I do not want her father in the picture, and do not want to get welfare, etc, because they try to find the father to get child support. I can't stand living at home...my mom babysits, and also tries to take control. I can't afford daycare, or my own place, and I'm in such a rut. Any ideas on how to cope with this, or what I can do, or how to find a good job? This is awful.

2007-02-14 18:11:18 · 9 answers · asked by SC 1

Hi I have a friend who is depressed because her father has emotionally abused her for the last 21 years; she has been called names of all sorts, and put down in the worse way possible while also been compared to people that have no meaning to her, ( EX. The father: Why can’t you lose the weight, study and work, Nicky Dose, and she’s a full time worker, and student. My friend: (she said nothing in fear that her father would say the following (Are you giving me an attitude) so while the father continues to insult her, she sits there and takes it! I need you help, what can be done about this, she has no job nor nowhere to go, she feels trap! any help is always welcome! thanks

2007-02-14 18:06:44 · 8 answers · asked by Max C 1

a family friend . The night that it happened my husband was ill and had to go to the hospital. His wife and him were taking care of our daughter and well he molested her that night and our world has changed. My daughter is going to counsiling and the SOB is in jail
til atleast the trial, hopefully they find him guilty. I lost my bestfriend(his wife). It is so hard to deal with all the emotions and yes counsiling has helped some but not alot for me.
I just keep asking what could I have done to protect my daughter and save my friendship?(with his wife)

2007-02-14 17:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

im looking for an email for a Mr. stephen joseph konieczny he's my father.

haven't heard from him in a while, dont know his number, address, email. please help

2007-02-14 17:36:23 · 1 answers · asked by jedijoemama3 1

Well I cant help but have hated feelings towards her. She left me with my father when I was an infant and now she rarely keeps in touch. And when she does keep in touch its only to inform me shes either getting remarried,having another child, or lost her job. When I try to call her back or write her back shes already packed up and left. I hate it when she leaves for a long while then all of a sudden she`ll contact me and I end up having a breakdown because the thought of her forgetting me always stays in my mind.
Sometimes I just want her out of my life.

2007-02-14 17:19:53 · 24 answers · asked by For What Its Worth 1

hate my inlaws i cant stand them,my husband claims hes caught in the middle and hates his life and says hes going to die soon from all this, but from my side i dont tell him any complaints his mom on the other hand has a list made of lie complaints with fake stories attached with dramas attacted etc,,,he stays quiet after her lie complaints then he snaps on me out of nowhere when his brain is full and angry. at first he told me that his mom only does this due to something I DID sometime someday meaning from his side its my fault his mom curses insult and harrasses me, still that gives no one any rights to try to get her son depressed and tired of his life he fights with me n sleeps in the other room and shes relaxed then, when he comes home from work its like hes her husband she gives him company feeds him gives him tea then turns the lights off and he sleeps,,what is this?who is this woman?

2007-02-14 16:58:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's likely that we both have this issue:Boys trying so hard not to be like their fathers,as are girls their mothers.If that's a given and this urge of being away from him(since I am a boy) is getting stronger,how could you smooth it away/let it grow,either is okay.
I am having this great dislike towards him and honestly he is not a pleasant man,mom would call him selfish(half-jokingly and half serious) and I find him that too and a little psychotic with painfully limited life skills and experiences even he's already middle-aged,some would call that 'lovely' but with the other side of him being threatening or even a tyranny,you just can live with it.
Teacher suggested 'love him',yet she had no idea what I was dealing with here--definitely different than what she had in mind.

2007-02-14 16:50:38 · 7 answers · asked by Ray 2

My husband and I are in charge of putting together the gifts for the mother's in our church.

In previous years it was a rolling pin with a poem, homemade soaps, etc...

But what do we get about 50 or so women for under $5-7.00 each?

Also if you have any ideas on what to do as far as for a program too.

In past times we have done poems, a slide show, and had the kids get up and tell funnies....

Hoping other brains out there can help us out.

2007-02-14 16:47:31 · 6 answers · asked by Angela W 3

For those of you who answered my previous question. I told my grandma that I do not want my children staying the night at her house because my uncle is strung out on drugs in the basement. She completely brushed me off and told me that all he was doing was smoking. I told her that the evidence to me shows he's doing more than that and I don't want my children around it. I told her she is more than welcome to come to my house and I will still come visit, but I can't let my kids stay the night. She told me that was fine and she completely wrote us off for the sake of her son. She is willing to break all ties with her family for him and she doesn't care that we all have tried to help. She thinks we are out to get her and my uncle and that it's our fault that things are the way they are. She is willing to never see me or my children again all to "be there" for my uncle. It is such a hard situation. I am sick to my stomach now. Why do I feel so terrible?

2007-02-14 16:37:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

every year my mom gets worse because of my step dad, anyways today/valentines day i didnt get anything from her or my family and last week was my bday, i turrned 14 and no one got me anything only a card from my aunt my 2 gmas and my step sister well my mom told me happy birthday once and that was in the middle of the night she said o devin i almost forgot happy bday, my dad called me and said happy bday but i havent been up there for awhile anyway my mom didnt even get me a card yet when my 2 step sisters bdays and my lil half sisters bday somes around shes all about buying them gifts, and im the one that goes to work with her when i dont have school and i work just as hard as her and IM her kid she treats me with disrespect like one time i was asleep and my baby sister found a sippy cup with water from a day ago in it i had no idea because i was asleep and she was sitting right next to the kid and pays no attention then starts screaming at my and threw the cup at the wall behind me saying get the f*** up u lazy fat a** b**** and ripped the cover off of me...THIS WAS 6 A.M. ON A WEEKEND well I got up and got my sister a new cup with milk while she sat there then I came back and went to lay down (I was in the livingroom) and I got the blanket and she said, don’t even think about going to sleep u lazy b**** I mean come on thats no way to treat me is it? I do everything for her I stay home and babysit my sister so she can go out and party and shell go shopping and buy a bunch of junk food well shell eat all of it and not realize it then blame it on me when I didnt even touch it...what can I do about her?

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my dad and i get along when i get to see him he is an alcholic and smokes heavily and we think hes starting to come down with cancer i love him and if anything happended to him i dont know what i would do he works all the time and is very protective of me but im not as close to him as i should be im not close to either of my parents actually im not close to anyone except my best friend of 6 years CJ but right now he has problems of his own and cant really help me only support what i do hes older then me by 2 years when im 17 im moving out of my house and in with him

2007-02-14 16:21:59 · 15 answers · asked by female football player 1

MY OLDEST BROTHER STOLE MONEY OUT OF MY BABY'S PIGGY BANK. HE TOOK ALL OF HER SILVER CHANGE AND SOME OF HER HALF PEICES.AND I DIDN'T NOTICE UNTIL HE JACKED MY MOTHER(HIS STEP-MOTHER) FOR $100 OUT OF HER PURSE. HOW SHOULD I FEEL ABOUT HIM STEALING FROM MY ONE YEAR OLD?

2007-02-14 16:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by babyGIRL 1

Hi there. I adore pugs and would like to get one. Could you please suggest me a place or someone who has .
Thank you

2007-02-14 15:58:28 · 10 answers · asked by Alan Z 1

I have no idea what to do, I love the girl cousin to death, she's almost 13 and very fun to be with...I enjoy letting go and just becoming a kid with her. I'd like to take her out more and let her spend the night to goof off, things she will remember about her favorite older cousin. The problem is, her brother who's 10 is a spoiled brat, his mom babies him and tells him how cute he is (even when he's in trouble.) Because of this, he demands everybody's attention and throws a fit when he doesn't get it. Plus he constantly bites and pesters the girl...and she gets in trouble for it. I can't take being around him for longer than an hour..how do I take her out shopping and be with her more without hurting mommy's boy and his mommy?

2007-02-14 15:44:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am expecting my first child, and my husband will not tell his family. A friend I ask tell me reasoning is because 'Spanish culture is old-fashioned' to me this is not a good answer. I love his family, I talk to my mother-in-law very often. Why will he not tell is family about our baby? (his mom knows about her ex-husband's child, and not her future grandchild!)

He always wants to hold my documents, read my mail, and know what I talk about to my family.

He says he will take my child if I leave him. (the child e does not want family to know about)

When he isn't at work he demands I go EVERYWHERE with him or he disappear for hours on end to punish me.

He always points out he is the ONLY person I have in this country, and that I'm all alone.

2007-02-14 15:41:40 · 20 answers · asked by Sonja J 1

i means is it possible for kids to accidently see a sexy scene on usa tv.

2007-02-14 15:31:34 · 4 answers · asked by fff f 1

im 16. i've had my boyfriend for almost a year and 6 months. my mom wont let me ride with him.. ANYWHERE. he's had his license for almost 6 months. She told me that once i turned 16 i would be allowed to date, but this..has not been the case. She makes up excuses constinatly that.."it's your dad" "im not ready for that yet" "your brother didnt ride with people when he was your age""You might go park" (wth). IM SICK OF IT. my boyfriend is too he said he doesnt know if he wants to spend his highschool life not being able to date. Although he said this he took it back but it makes me wonder how long he'll put up with it. How Can i get my mom to trust him/us enough and to finally let go of her "little girl"?

2007-02-14 14:59:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-14 14:52:40 · 7 answers · asked by ayoe_maniz 1

2007-02-14 14:52:00 · 9 answers · asked by rpshi_11001 2

I've been with her son for almost nine years and this is our third child. She is really mean to me and my two kids. She won't even call them on their birthdays. My oldest son won't call her grandma because he said grandmas are supposed to be nice to him and she is not. She is always trying to say bad things about me and my husband never seems to stick up for me. I had a ruff labor with my other two and feel if she is there it will add more stress on me. Is that selfish...I am a horrible person for wanting some space?

2007-02-14 14:50:11 · 12 answers · asked by latina_23 1

I do not know what to do!!!! my son is 26 and is not doing his job.. tired of supporting him ... his mother and i divorced when he was 10 and i payed all of the child support... now i am still supporting him and tired of it..( you would not know how hard this is) anyway i am looking for a support group of people in same situation..

2007-02-14 14:45:47 · 11 answers · asked by mr39buick 1

Ok so I'll try to make this short. My hubby and I are happily married, successful and have talked about starting our family.
Well, we are trying but we don't want to tell anyone, our families are constantly asking and when we're going to have a baby, so we don't want to get anyone's hopes up...
So my in-laws are planning a cruise early next year. I told my husband that if we get pregnant there is no way I'm going on a cruise pregnant, or right after having a baby. I even agreed to pay the deposit to book the trip to avoid telling anyone we're trying! Knowing we're most likely going to cancel...
The issue is my hubby is actually planning on going on this cruise, I'm hoping we won't be able to.
Is seems like he cares more about the trip than the baby.
I just don't think he gets it

My issue is, my husband doesn't seem to be concerned that twelve months from now we may not have a baby or be pregnant. He's actually planning on going on this cruise...I;m planning on not going.

2007-02-14 14:27:18 · 7 answers · asked by Nichole D 2

like...sure they dont want you to worry alot...but by the time you found out tht she wasnt going to make it...it was to late for you to say your last goodbyes to her becuase she cant speak and shes blind and i'm pretty sure she was deaf by the time i found out...yea...well...i gotta tell you if you have...its a b*tch...

just wonderin if its happnd to anyone else

2007-02-14 14:25:54 · 3 answers · asked by ME 2