Family - February 2007

my father retired in the year 1990 and expired in the year 1991, my mother does not get any pension she got all other benefits, she has three children one daughter and two sons, looked after by her daughter and son in law, thrown out of her elder sons house by her daughter in law, youger son business loss looking for a job not in a financial position to help, daughter in law like elder one, youger son has the willness to look after his mother, no problem with daughter but financialy very poor, so mother would like to have an income of her own 65 years old medical bill more than 800/- monthly. can someone advice as to what can be done to help her, she does not want to file case against her sons, mothers heart speaks there. can somebody help to solve her problem.

2007-02-15 21:54:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a relationship with this guy, won't mention his name, and in the time we were together i got pregnant to him by mistake. He is a lawyer and a massive a hole. He turned into a huge ahole the moment i told him i was going to keep the baby. Im 38 yrs so it was now or never. He said i will be going thru it on my own without his support, So i did. My daughter is now 16months and the most gorgeous little girl, she is a blessing. I believe her father should pay child support, but he won't. He said it was my choice to have her, so its my resposiblity to suppport her. I asked him if he would agree to a paternity test and he said no. I told him he should help support her financially but he said thats extortion and if i went ahead with child support he would take her off me. He's a lawyer and he said he would do all he could to take her off me if i force him to pay. I'm worried this ahole will take her off me or get access to her, he would mistreat her and i dont want that. jo

2007-02-15 21:48:03 · 9 answers · asked by Jojo 1

2007-02-15 21:48:01 · 9 answers · asked by no2 2

i think most important be your own life than parents not getting on well and be happy your life with partner etc

2007-02-15 21:31:55 · 14 answers · asked by rose 1

i'm pregnant about 14 weeks, i have suffered from depression in the past and i'm finding it really hard to cope. i know that there is anti depressants out there that are safe to use during pregnancy but i have been on them many times throughout my life and i don't want to feel like i'm being controlled by them. i know that excercise is a good way to deal with depression but i don't want to push myself too hard and put the baby at risk. please can you give me some advice or some alternatives to combat this depression.
i have suffered with depression throughout my life but i don't know whether it's because of my hormones as well as depression but i have never in my life felt this low and worthless
p.s. i know that this is in the wrong category but you get more answers this way

2007-02-15 21:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by confused 3

I didn't sleep good at all last night, and my mom wont let me stay home - how can I convince her that I want to?

2007-02-15 21:10:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you opt for ???????
If u r tld tht u ll b given 1 crore bt yu hav 2 thrw ur parents out of ur house ......... BE HONEST
Wht would yu opt for ????????
I ld opt 4 parents ....

2007-02-15 20:51:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

if one is good the other is a whamp and if the other is good the other one is a villi,

2007-02-15 20:46:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, my brother and sister-in-law hosted a 70th birthday party for our mother. My husband and children and I traveled from Ghana, Africa to NJ to be a part of it. Truth be told, if it hadn't been for the party, we'd not have gone as the expense to us was fairly significant. Nonetheless, it was wonderful to see my Mom and brothers and sister who all live in the States.

I'd like to personally thank my sister-in-law and brother for what they did by sending a gift. Any ideas? She just recently lost over 100 lbs, so the idea of a food gift basket is out.

Thanks.

Barb

2007-02-15 20:12:42 · 3 answers · asked by Barbzzz37 4

I found out on valentines day my wife is expecting our first child .....I am so damn happy that even though we are not telling anyone yet as its only 3 weeks in I am walking around with a perma-smile on my face, and the missus reckons someone is going to suss me out !

Can anyone think of a cure? Does anyone think I even need one?

Wohhhhhhoooooo....Im gonna be a Dad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-15 20:09:10 · 13 answers · asked by theuntutoredyouth 1

2007-02-15 19:19:59 · 4 answers · asked by m7room 6 2

I have deaf parents. Living in a world of hearing and the deaf. Each world does not except me. The hearing, since I am a women, men think I will bear a deaf child. The deaf world hates me because I can hear. Just wanted to know if anyone out there has the same experience

2007-02-15 18:57:06 · 7 answers · asked by caroline s 1

I am dealing with things ok right now. But it is doesn't seem to get any easier. He has been gone since the 8th of October. He has 415 more days to go. We have 3 kids. They have good and bad days. They just want their daddy to come home. I do too. It seems like every time I talk to him on the phone, I end up crying. I don't want him to worry about us. I try not to watch the news to much. I am a stay at home mom. I try to get out of the house at least once a day. I have pets to help keep me busy. What are some other things I can do to help me keep my mind off this?

2007-02-15 18:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by Dr. Sweets 1

My husband has been trying to find a sister that he has never met but knows that she exists. My husband is 37 years old and just met his father. The father ain't got a clue where the sister is. We know her name and where she might be living. We were wondering if anybody knew of a website that deals with finding family members. Any help is welcome. Thanks.

2007-02-15 18:34:07 · 4 answers · asked by queensassey 4

ok..ive been frustrated for years over this, is it just me? im 17 and a half years old. my parents still give me a bedtime of 10 sun-thurs(school nights) they dont let me go out unless im back by 10:30-11 on weekends, and if im more than 10 minutes late home from school there trippin where im at. i have to call them every second. i have friends NEXT DOOR and if i go there more than 2 hours during the day there calling me to come home. i have to sneak out of my house every weekend to do anything with my friends. and to top it off im a pretty good kid get decent grade's never got caught up or else i might be locked in the living room or in a bubble. there weird.

2007-02-15 18:06:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

as a parent what u want your children to be?what u want to teach them..i mean when you got temperd when ur kids dont listen to you and do u feel bad abt it?

what are the best things you can give to your kids??? for their future ..

2007-02-15 17:46:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend was spoiled by his mother, sometimes he is selfish

2007-02-15 16:49:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my mom have a strong relationship. We love each other alot. But, we have fights because I always prove her wrong. She doesnt like it when she proved wrong. I raise my voice, but don't shout. Today, she said I got sick again and that i don't wear thick jackets. She said.. last time when you go sick, you wore such thin clothes. I got mad because it wasn't true, and I said I DID WEAR THICK CLOTHING. then she got extremley mad, and seirously went crazy. She started crying.. talking really loud when I was in my room. I came out to the kitchen, and told her why I was mad. The reason was because the thing she said wasn't true. Then she went crazy again.. and like kneeled on the floor and said GOD PUNISH ME THEN! SHE SAID I LIED! PUNISH ME! and started bowing but hitting her head on the ground. I was like.. WHAT ARE U DOING MOM!? Then my dad came in and yelled at told me everything was my fault and that I am hard to raise. All i did was state the truth. What do I do? btw, I'm almost 17.

2007-02-15 16:27:01 · 18 answers · asked by rebecca 2

I just recieved a refferal for cheating at school. my parents don`t know this yet. i`m afraid that my teacher will call or ask for a conference to talk about it. i don`t what to do. i really need help. i have this guilty feeling in the bottom of my stomach that feels like i need to throw up. i hate feeling like this. WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO?

2007-02-15 16:25:53 · 5 answers · asked by Nidhiwashere [: 1

2007-02-15 16:17:20 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 1

2007-02-15 15:59:45 · 1 answers · asked by who cares 1

she iz 10months bout 2 turn 11months she iz a good babi i kno how 2change and feed her, i kno what 2 do wen she chokes

2007-02-15 15:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by lil' gurl 1

I will soon be 15 years old and I am an only child. My parents have always wanted more children and have tried many times but my mother has had 4 miscarages. Its been several years since she tried last but chances of her succeeding in another birth arent very high. Both my parents have seriously considered adopting but for some reason my mother keeps backing out and my father says no. I hate being an only child and i have been encouraging this since i was 6 years old. My mother was seriously thinking about looking further into it tonite, but wouldnt even begin to know where to start. We are financially able and our house is too big for the 3 of us anyway.... help!!!!

2007-02-15 15:45:57 · 3 answers · asked by CountryGirlygirl 2

My step-son is 13 years old and he continues to lie to me about everything. Some of the thing's that he lies about is quite obvious and when I call him on it he swears that he is not lying. He get very angry with me which in turn pisses me the **** off. What can I do???

2007-02-15 15:43:32 · 2 answers · asked by Alice S 1

ok i'm 13 years old and my parents got a divorce when i was 3.my mom remarried and i have a WONDERFUL stepdad i'm his daughter and he's my dad!we're close and we love each other as if i really were his biolodgical(sorry probably spelled wrong)child.his real children(3) have not lived w/ him all their life,one moved in 3 years ago,but moved out last year(got married),another years ago,and one moved in when he was 7(now 21)but was sent to juvie,and moved out when he was 16 or 17. and he(my stepdad) tells me all the time i'm more like his children than any of them but.....like i said i am now 13 and biolodgical dad wants to have somethin to do w/ me now.I don't really want to mess w/ him b/c he's on drugs and he's not really stable he lives in a apartment w/ his brother.he has said this b/4 but he's only ended up hurting me and my sister b/c he'll call us for a week and then stop,then he'll write crybaby letters,telling how everybody does him wrong and nuthin is his fault it's so-and-so's

2007-02-15 15:38:12 · 8 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4

my 43 year old half sister is obease and mean! i wrote a tacky email and accidently sent it... what now?

2007-02-15 15:29:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My eldest daugther and her family have moved to Aussie, they love it over there, and things seem to be better, monies wise and they just love it, they would like me to go..........i also have another son over there to, and he also would like me to go over, i have 2 daughters here, 17 and 18, and a grandchild, i don't really wont to leave them, but i feel like i could do with a flesh start in life. i wish they could come to, but both have parteners and a life here.......its so hard to decide what to do. please help. i am 53. and live alone.

2007-02-15 15:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by donua1022 4

I really do not like harboring any contempt towards my mother. She was a very good and selfless woman who endured great pains during my fetal and infantile development (as do they all).

Thing is, she has wasted a tremendous amount of resources on me (a worthless, filthy animal and a defect of nature) when she could have given that same time, effort, and resources to some other child who had the potential to be great and wonderful.

I have no hope of being like that.

2007-02-15 15:16:22 · 8 answers · asked by Zeek 3

i was on vaction in ca and he took her with out asking me first then my 15 yr went and did one on his self cuse he wanted on . i'm not aginst tattoos but i feel they are to young . and she is my child from my first marrage. i think that i should have the last word on what is to be done with her. just like with his son i have always asked him first. then to top it off the family is going to come down so hard on me. i feel that no one gave me a choice on wether i wanted this kind of trouble . i dont know what to do i feel i cant trust him well any of them.please help

2007-02-15 15:06:30 · 11 answers · asked by b 2

Parents(or at least mine) are really strict. It seems like everybody around me has more fun than i do. At school I'm really popular, but at home i am cut off from the outside world.It seems like all my friends got to parties and dates and movies, but i can't go to movies without my mom(it's mostly her) knowing every single detail. I am not even allowed to date, I feel like if I don't get experience now I won't every learn how to have fun. If my parents knew I was writing this online they probably wouldn't let me or I would have a big conversation/ argument about it. My parents don't let me go to new friends houses unless they have talked to the parents and I have to schedule over a week ahead! They think they understand what I'm going thru but the were born in Africa and lived their till they were like 17. (I'm 13). On the weekends all ican do is sit around and watch TV and visit family members. I want to have more of a life outside of school.Do your parents do the same; What can i do

2007-02-15 14:45:00 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2