Family - February 2007

My brother is scared to get caught by the police and I found a plane ticket to france in his room. He told me not to tell anybody, should I? What would you do? I dont want him to go to jail but I dont want him to run away. Im so confused.

2007-02-16 05:27:47 · 10 answers · asked by nichelle b 2

her food stamps/medicaid benefits were taken from her. Her husband and mine are both construction workers, and since there has been snow, they have been out of work. Well we applied for food stamps in early Jan. Her husband was recieving unemployment, and she didn't report it, which she was trying to slide by on a technicality. However, my husband didn't recieve unemployment because we haven't lived in the state long enough. We fine on money because we had a savings, and I filed and recieved my taxes early. However, I just found out that the food stamp money coming into the house hold (we all live in the same home, temporarily) was for me and my family and only ours. She knew this because she made a statement when I questioned the case worker in a letter regarding how I thought the amount we recieved was minimal for a household of 8 people (both of our families-4 in each), and they ruled it as one family for food stamps, that "well the food stamp money is probably just for your

2007-02-16 04:56:35 · 9 answers · asked by Austins Mom 6

My grandma just moved in with us and is 95 years old. However, her mind is still just as sharp as it always was. I have a very bad relationship with her. Her personality drives me crazy because she makes herself out to be more helpless than she really is and she is always so over-the-top polite about everything even though she has been living with us for awhile. I feel as though we have nothing in common and so there is nothing for us to talk about. I want to love her, but it is very hard to.

2007-02-16 04:53:17 · 8 answers · asked by turan21 2

2007-02-16 04:49:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

when your sister-in-law goes to the beach and say's she's gona stay. you want her to, but you'r afraid your brother will take her back when she comes back. you don't want her to because you are afraid she might give him aids from haveing sex with everybody?

2007-02-16 04:47:42 · 1 answers · asked by NIKKI S 2

Ever since my parents got divourced, my mom has spoiled my 17 year old brother rotten.She let him get his driver`s license before me,even thouth I got my permit before him and have in the past asked her to take me out driving,which she refused,has let my brother drink alcohol which I told her she should get rid of,obviously she didn`t,doesn`t get on him to get his grades up,lets him have friends over on school nights even when he has friends over,he mouths off to her,but she doesn`t do anything about it,I swear she ends up scolding me.Am I being abused or is this just something to get over?

2007-02-16 04:40:08 · 5 answers · asked by Angel 2

My daughter has been the only grandkid until last august when I got married. She now has 3 more grandkids. When my daughter was 6,long before my husband and I met, my daughter was promised a trip for her golden birthday, which was last year. We (my daughter and I) are now gonna take the trip but are not taking the other kids. My mother is going with and paying for most of my daughter's stuff seeing she promised her this trip. Well now my hubby is upset because the other girls have not been included. The trip has been planned for 4 months and this is just coming up now a month before we take the trip. He now says to just go on the trip and he will do something special with the other kids. But I feel really bad. Should I just cancel the trip and not go? We are all taking a trip in May for a cousin's wedding so taking the girls now won't work.

2007-02-16 04:35:05 · 7 answers · asked by Dawn D 1

Why is it oftentimes easier to find a gift for mom on mother's day than the find a gift for dad on father's day?

2007-02-16 04:33:58 · 2 answers · asked by Sapphire-by-the-sea 2

I know someone who gave her baby up for adoption. Her baby is now 8 months old. The family who adopted her baby always sends her pics like every 2 weeks and they talk on the phone once a week. Now they want my friend to move there with them what should she do

2007-02-16 04:20:14 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Sassy 2

my husband will be deploying I'm preg. I have no family where we live neither does he...I want to go closer to family so I can have family with me during my delivery and to help since, I'm a 1st time mother, my husband thinks I should stay put, because I've joined a church...am I wrong for wanting to be closer to my family during my pregnancy? now keep in mind he won't be here b/c he's getting deployed

2007-02-16 04:04:24 · 11 answers · asked by puffy2step 3

Thats another thing in my household their is to much favoritism?

2007-02-16 03:52:30 · 13 answers · asked by Tiffany A 1

can anyone tell me why?...10 points for the one who gets it....and its not made up, we really are all the same age today...

2007-02-16 03:35:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is a HS dropout, jobless, doesn't like rules and prefers living with friends rather than family. He only calls his father when he needs something.
When his friends kick him out, he stays with his aunt, but she is no longer allowed to have anymore adults stay with her.
I am afraid that his father will ask if his son could stay with us in our small 1 bedroom apt.
I really don't want him with us.
Am I wrong for feeling this way?

2007-02-16 03:35:44 · 15 answers · asked by ♨ Wisper ► 5

She went around telling people she needed money to bond me out of jail . She said I went to jail for a DWI and i needed help getting out . I am 6 months pregnant and defenitly wasnt in jail . she is making me look like a bad person while she is getting all this money . I found out because some one asked me how court went , I was like what are you talking about . Anyway what would you do about it ?

2007-02-16 03:34:01 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

we sold our house to live in spain my son who is 19 has started an apprenteship and doesn't want to move to spain we have had to rent which is costing a fortune my son could stay with my brother or his girlfriend but doesn't want to so what should we do stay or go?

2007-02-16 03:33:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today morning my roommate wake me up, he told me he got attacked by three guys in his room in middle of night. Since I was deaf, I was unable to hear anything.

This really scare me to death, I feel like I'm unable to do anything. I'm afraid one day in future if I have a family and something happen, I'll be unable to hear anything. I don't know what to do. This is very distrubing to me.

2007-02-16 03:32:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I own a home with my boyfriend and both our names are on the mortgage...things are not so good now. What happens if we break up and he gets nasty? I have a little boy and would rather move out then expose my son to my BF's voilent, nasty outbursts but I worry about his locking us out and saying we abandoned the property. I would just want to sell it and go our seperate ways but I know he will react negatively and make my life Hell. We are in PA if that helps! Thank you in advance!!!

2007-02-16 03:31:07 · 4 answers · asked by khrystah2004 1

i just found out i have a nephew

2007-02-16 03:19:35 · 3 answers · asked by markeljustis 2

Why does no-one understand?? I have been going through a really hard time with school and that lately everyone understands except my sister. She does my head in, she hits me till I cry and teases me she makes me so mad. And then I have a go at her and my moms excuse is ''shes only young'' I'm young to and I have feelings. No-one seems to understand that she really hurts me inside she calls me fat and teases me all the time. The only people that understand is my grandparents, they no what she's like. I want to try and explain to my mom how its making me feel, but what should I say?
btw-my sister is younger than me

2007-02-16 03:12:31 · 15 answers · asked by bex_xoxo 2

2007-02-16 03:01:52 · 10 answers · asked by GAIL L 1

She has a great job and family. She looks after everything wonderfully but i worry about her health. She says its no problem...should i be concerned? Thank you!

2007-02-16 03:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We dated for 2 and a half years before we got married a couple months ago. Everything's well, and I'm going to start working soon.
I was always lead to believe that family is everything, and although I'm only 20, I'm totally confident that I'm ready to start a family.
I worked at a dar care for almost 2 years and I have 5 younger siblings, so I know what I'm doing, and I know a child takes alot of time, love, and money.

What I don't know is, how my husband feels. I told him about how my parent said, jokingly " so when can I expect to see some grand babies?" and he kinda made an 'uummm' kinda look.

I came from a big family. One that said 'i love you' every night. He came from a smaller family that didn't show that kind of emotion regularly. Well, he's my new family now, and I love him to bits.. but I want us to start my own family.

Should I talk to him? OR does his body language say enough?

2007-02-16 02:57:49 · 4 answers · asked by October Sky 2

In your family, do they get concerned about you promptly returning the flimsy tupperware they give you to take home leftovers?

My brother and I get leftovers and he almost never returns them, despite his getting harassed about it ... I return them more frequently and promptly.

In your family would this score extra points with them? I like to be the golden child and gain as many points as possible.

2007-02-16 02:50:09 · 2 answers · asked by Reserved 6

I have 4 Sisters and I'm the only son and live nearly 300 miles from my Mother. She is 77 and befriends troubled people and drug addicts. Some have even taught her how to shoot her pain medications like Heroine into her veins. Now she is selling her (Dilaudid, Xanax and Morphine Patches) meds and I'm worried she may eventually get assaulted, robbed or even murdered.

I've confronted her before about her drug use that is supposed to be for pain, but, she is hard-headed and very difficult. I am a Disabled Veteran with a bad heart and M.S., and a Spinal Cord injury, and it causes me a lot of stress over this, but, I'm not sure what to do.

I know my Mother could be busted by the Law, and she could even be committed under an intervention, but, then she plays the Suicide Card. I feel trapped and damned if I do something and damned if I don't.

I could really use and appreciate some thoughtful feedback on this! Has anyone out there been in this position before? HELP!

2007-02-16 02:45:53 · 7 answers · asked by The Sylvan Wizard 5

2007-02-16 02:42:16 · 13 answers · asked by tot 2

I am 17 years old and my mom let me move out with my cousin that is 25 and then she threatend me if i didnt move back with her or my dad she was gonna put me in jail can she do that or not plus i will be 18 in like 10 months!

2007-02-16 02:33:05 · 9 answers · asked by sammykay 1

I graduated from college this past Dec. & just found out that my stepdad gave my mom 2000.00 to give to me as a gift. My brother picked Mom up from the airport t when my Mom got here in the city they went straight to the casino and my mom blew all the money (my stepdad sent) the same day she arrived (which was a few days before my graduation). She told my brother that she felt bad & was going to give it back to me.She gave me a card with 40.00 in it from her and my step dad. Should I confront her and break the trust of my sibling who told me of should I tell my stepdad thanks for the 40.00?Or should I just leave it alone? What should I do? Please help:(

2007-02-16 02:12:37 · 14 answers · asked by Delicious 2

hi i am with my boyfriend and his youynger brother bursts in all the time and we hardly ever get any time alone together. his mum hass talked to him but he still does it. i havnt got lock on my room. does anyone know how we can jam the door closed of a way of keeping him out? (it is a door with a knob) plz answer! xxxxxxxxxxxxx

2007-02-16 02:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm really really freaked out...im a 16 year old male and the worst thing that could've happened to me did. my mom walked in on me while i was "playing with myself" this morning. she saw everything, i didn't hear her. i was lieing on the bed, pants at my ankles, going at it full force. she walked in, was startled, and said, "oh my god" and quickly walked back out and closed the door. we obviously didnt talk about it at all yet. i dont know if i'll ever be able to look her in the eyes again im sooo embarrassed. any advice on how i can go on living (sarcastic of course but this is really really bad!!)

2007-02-16 01:59:41 · 5 answers · asked by phil j 1

I don't really mind but all my friends think it is ridiculous. The list isn't really all that long. Here's a sample list:
All laundary, All dishes, sweep, clean bathrooms(mop too), clean your room, and somethimes something else like dusting or something.
Is this really that much or are my friends just freaking out about nothing?

2007-02-16 01:57:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous