Why does no-one understand?? I have been going through a really hard time with school and that lately everyone understands except my sister. She does my head in, she hits me till I cry and teases me she makes me so mad. And then I have a go at her and my moms excuse is ''shes only young'' I'm young to and I have feelings. No-one seems to understand that she really hurts me inside she calls me fat and teases me all the time. The only people that understand is my grandparents, they no what she's like. I want to try and explain to my mom how its making me feel, but what should I say?
btw-my sister is younger than me
2007-02-16 03:12:31 · 15 answers · asked by bex_xoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you poor thing i think you should ask your grandparents to have a work with your mum and hopefully they will make her realise there is a problem and it needs to be dealt with asap or things will get worse but when your mum not looking give your sister a few hard slaps to she deserves it bullying in any form is wrong and this is exactly what she is doing to you
2007-02-16 03:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down with your mom and express to her how serious this is and you need to talk about it before it becomes a bigger problem. As far as your sister you should ignore her in all aspects. If she wants you to do something she enjoys just tell her that she treats you badly and if she wants to do the fun things she has to treat you nicely all the time. No more teasing and hitting or anything like that. She loves you or she would not be giving you so much attention. She just has a weird way of showing it. If that doesn't work - just beat the crap out of her one good time and she'll leave you alone. That's what happened with me and my brother. I used to aggravate him and hit him and one day he just clobbered me. I never bothered him again. :)
2007-02-16 11:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if your grandparents understand and you don't know how to talk to your Mom, how about asking your grandparents to explain to her how you feel first? They'll be old enough to talk to her on 'her level' as they are experience parents themselves and should know how to do it with tact and gentleness (advice from 'older parents' kind of thing) and get her to understand what happening as its very likely your Mom doesn't even realise what effect she's having.
If that was possible, your Mom might then think about it and eventually approach you to explain it from your point of view as her chld?
AND BACK AGAIN...
As I can now see, after posting this, that a couple of others have already suggested :)
2007-02-16 11:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, she is younger than you....what a nice sister you are to her, why do you take it? If you stand up to her ONE time tell her that her name calling is hurtful and that her hitting you and getting away with it is OVER........I would tell mother the same thing. If your mother is not correcting your sister she is WRONG. I would also tell your grandparents if your mother is not protecting you. Growing up is sometimes painful, I hope that things will get better for you soon!
2007-02-16 11:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be an older brother to her and try not to be so sensitive. Be strong my friend. If you are really bothered by her calling you fat, do something about it and lose weight. Be determined to do that and let her be the focus of your determination to lose weight. Don't let her bully you!! She's younger.. she shouldn't be able to make you cry.. don't let her continue doing it.. be the older brother.
2007-02-16 11:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. I really do. I know what you're going thru coz I've been thru it myself. You need a break. Stay at a good frienz place or your grandparents home for a while, and a change of atmosphere.
Good luck, and God bless you.
2007-02-16 11:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to your mom and her actually sit and hear everything you have to say, you might try to write her a letter about how you feel. Getting it out on paper will help you feel better, but also your mom will see that it means alot to you to have taken the time to write it down...that she should read it and try to help you. If that doesn't work...try to get your granparents to talk to your mom.
I hope things get better for you!
2007-02-16 11:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by SeekingSerenity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mum how u feel and if she doesn't belive u just prove her wrong by doing something think hard. well; tease your little sister back but if she tells your mum say u did not do anything ok but i'm sure it will be alright:)
2007-02-16 18:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth12323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my younger bro does the same thing, it really ticks me off. tell your mom honestly how your sister is treating you and how it makes you feel and what you would do to conclude the problem if you were in your mom's position. tell her the way you would tell your best friend
2007-02-16 11:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...maybe you could explain to your grandparents that you cant help feeling hurt by her, and ask them to talk to your mom about it. and maybe sometime when you arent mad or upset, try talking to your mom too.
just because someone is younger than you doesn't mean they should be allowed to hurt you.
2007-02-16 11:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by lyrathefairie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋