What would you do if your mother done this ?

Question

She went around telling people she needed money to bond me out of jail . She said I went to jail for a DWI and i needed help getting out . I am 6 months pregnant and defenitly wasnt in jail . she is making me look like a bad person while she is getting all this money . I found out because some one asked me how court went , I was like what are you talking about . Anyway what would you do about it ?

This is for movy p , Why would i return the money ? I didnt borrow it nor do i have any obligation to these people .

by the way , i am 22 and supported her up untill about 6 months ago

i never even seen a dime of the money . donr want it to tell the truth i work full time and go to college full time i dont need stolen money or hand outs

For the comments made that no one will love me like my mother will . She was in prison till i was 15 went back againe till i was 18 is a crack addicit and drunk . I supported her for over 2 years . I give her respect though none is deserved i just cant handle it anymore . She tells people i treat her badly when all i do is help her i just cant keep on when i am trying to start my own family. I am a damn good daughter even though I should have let her go years ago

Answer 1

Tell your mom that you are going to sue her for bad mouthing your character if she doesn't give the money back to the people that gave her money to bond you out.

Answer 2

I would have a nice sit down with my Mother. Probably make her dinner or something nice - show her that I do care. Then explain to her that what she did really hurt my feelings.

I would do it without yelling or being angry. Then I would explain, calmly, that she needs to return the money and explain herself or I will have no choice but to inform the police, since it is a crime.

The most important things would be:
1. Reaffirm my love, so she doesn't feel abandoned.
2. Explain how it made me feel.
3. Explain the choices: keep the money and get arrested, or give back the money with the true explanation.
4. (most important) Do it all with gentleness and respect.

Answer 3

First of all your mother, and there will be no else like her must have a perfectly good explanation for the stunts.

I think your mom is mad that you are pregnant. It's only a matter of time before everyone realizes that fact. Maybe she is saving up some money for you and your bambino. Or maybe it is time for you to move on.

What to do? I am not a female, but if the town is telling me that my moms is doing this, then you must confront her and ask her why she is doing the do.

I think it is time for you to move on, come to the conclusion that it is time to make that move, and start planning to do it.
sorry

Answer 4

She is an addict. They don't care about anyone or anything but their next fix. She's your mother but sounds like she's never been your mom.
You sound like you tried to be the loving daughter that any mom would be proud to have. Try to keep your head up and maybe you should get away especially if there is a new baby coming. You want love and happiness around your child.
Good Luck to you and your new family.

Answer 5

Tell everyone the truth so they will be aware of her being a con artist. You could tell her to return the money but I'm sure it is already gone.

Your mother has a drug or money problem. You need to stay away from her until after the baby is born. If she is this desperate, she will do anything. I am so sorry. We should always be able to turn to our mothers for instruction or guidance.

Answer 6

It sounds as if your mother needs some kind of help. These may be lies designed to get her money for drugs/alcohol/gambling? You need to let the people that she borrowed the money know about the correct situation and suggest they get their money back from her. And let them know that if you need money you will let them know personally. Does your father know your mother is doing this kind of thing? Talk to a professional counsellor to see if you can get your mother any help. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 7

I'd let the people she's stolen this money from know about what she's done and then let them deal with her.

As for you keeping the money, how do you really feel about keeping and using stolen money? It sounds, from your comments, that it wouldn't really bother you. If that's true, do you really want your child growing up believing that it's all right to keep stolen money?

Answer 8

REMEMBER SHE'S YOUR MOTHER WHO LOVED YOU AND SUPPORTED YOU TILL YOU CAN BE A MOTHER YOURSELF.

SURE IT'S A BAD THING SHE DID, BUT IT'S ONLY BAD UNTIL YOU KNOW WHY SHE DID SO.

TALK WITH HER AND KNOW WHY SHE DID SO AND DO NOT MAKE IT LOOK LIKE YOU ARE JUDGING HER AND ACCUSING HER MIND ABILITIES AND WITS

I HOPE YOU GET EVERYTHING SETTLED WITH HER COS THERE'S NOW ONE LOVE YOU LIKE YOUR MOTHER DOES.

SEE HOW YOU LOVE YOUR BABY THAT YOU ONLY KNOW FOR 6 MONTHS AND THAT YOU DID NOT EVEN SEE YET.

UPDATE 1:
I DID NOT KNOW ABOUT YOUR HISTORY WITH YOUR MOTHER. YOU SO GOOD PERSON TO HELP HER THROUGH ALL THESE YEARS. DON'T RUIN WHAT YOU DID.

SHE NEEDS LOTS OF HELP, TRY TO GET HER INTO A PLACE WHERE THEY TAKE CARE OF PEOPLE LIKE HER.

Answer 9

Confront your mother about it. Then take all the money she's been making off of you and buy some nice things for your baby!

Answer 10

All you can really do is expose her for the liar that she is. If someone approaches you and asks about court etc you must tell the trueth. The rest of it is on your Mother's shoulders.