2007-02-15 21:48:01 · 9 answers · asked by no2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her that you are not ready yet. tell her that you want to be married first. good luck
2007-02-15 22:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not about what his mother wants its about what you'll want. How can you allow his mother to have that much say so in your relationship? Its none of her business and I think you should get that across before this goes any further. Tell her and your boyfriend when the time is right you'll will have a family no sooner and no later.
2007-02-16 07:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by step b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you and your BOYFRIEND want a baby? Are you in love with each other and ready for a big commitment? Are you planning to get married? This is pretty much a Non Question here.
2007-02-16 05:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by onesmaartlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What his mother wants doesn't mean anything.
Have children when the two of you want to, when the two of you feel ready and have the resources to do so.
My mother came with the same comment to me and my husband after we'd been together a while.(Before we actually got married) After talking to her about her nagging, she admitted she didn't mean to push it. Just her (Rather odd!) way of showing that she "approved" of us and she liked him. It might be something like that too.
2007-02-16 06:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r married then there is no problem but if u r not then dont go for it.Its not good to have children before marriage.If u have then everyone will think different about u and many problems arise . . . . . .
2007-02-16 06:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by SE7EN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't married. Isn't it strange that your mom is asking when you are going to have a child before you are married?
2007-02-16 07:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt he have any brothers?? ask his mom to shift her attention..
Ur too young..moreover u have more important things to do in life now.. so keep loving him..well wat does he say? am sure he must be willing thats y u have asked this question here..
try to make him understand that it will make u much more older at such a tender age..
2007-02-16 06:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by pradeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a child for you when you are ready not for anyone else. what kind of parent would want their child to have a child before they are really ready?
2007-02-16 06:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Miranda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a kid when you are young, it'll take away your youth.
2007-02-16 05:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋