2007-02-15 16:17:20 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
do what your supposed to do and they'll come to you but dont let your only thoughts,24/7 be gotta find a mate,gotta get a date.
relax,take some time to get to know your self.
read some books
go to church
go to the gym
spend time with your family
see a movie
work on your self
2007-02-15 18:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 50 and have been divorced 2 times and am now married and happy for the first time.
First of all stop looking. I know that you are lonely. It is rough. But concentrate on making friends. Men friends are good things to have. Sometimes it turns into a really good friendship (if you know what I mean) but keep it that way. Take your time. You are at a point in your life when you are very vulnerable and believe me men can sense that a mile away.
Try taking dance lessons, art classes, ceramics, book club. Go dancing. Take this opportunity to get to know yourself better.
2007-02-16 01:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you vigorously persue activities and continued education that makes you happy, don't worry about meeting someone for now, get into yourelf and be happy, weird thing is, that in itself will lead you to the type of person you want to be with
2007-02-16 09:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start at church. There are plenty of people who are single, divorced or widowed (young). I know of a sister (spiritual) who just went thru a divorce.
2007-02-16 00:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try online dating..I think its the best because if you don't like them you don't have to ever talk to even if it's before you meet
2007-02-16 00:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by That Diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join a sporting club or a gym.
2007-02-16 00:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
online dating will surely help a lot. check it out ^_^
2007-02-16 03:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Beach.......mermaids
or
What? yeah didn't learn nothing your first time?
2007-02-16 00:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋