I'm 21,my sister's 30.My sister has 3 kids by 3 guys.She has no job(by choice) & lives off a combo of my 7-year-old deaf niece's social security check,food stamps,& WIC.I'm living with my fiance,who is also 21.We both work full time & support ourselves.We're getting married in Sept. & paying for the wedding ourselves.My parents promised to help out,but backed out because they had to help my sis,something they always do.Recently,my sister asked me if she could borrow all my wedding things for her own wedding.This includes the decorations,my dress,veil,garter,everything but the wedding rings.She says she's marrying the dad of her youngest child & they're waiting until after I get married so they can use my stuff.She gets in violent fights with this guy every other week.She burns his things,kicks him out,cops are called.I'm offended she even asked b/c my fiance & I worked very hard to pay for our wedding.I feel she's just trying to get attention.Am I being selfish?Should I loan it to her?
2007-02-19
17:35:22
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Keruma
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