Family - February 2007

3 years ago my couisen was killed by a drunk driver he was on drugs too he got out at christmas and he is causeing trouble with our family we have done nothing wrong he took someone away from us he still got his life...he punched my auntie in the mouth 2 days ago i am sure this is not right he took away her son and now punching her what could i do .... i hate him so much he even coming in the night club where i work and causeing trouble i am stuck i don't no who to turn too .... he even got girls to start on me ... what would you do ...please help !!! ??????

2007-02-19 10:58:24 · 15 answers · asked by vicsta 2

my mom wworks and she has four kids one is 15,12,8,4 and we all have a problem to fix with ourself that is bothering our mother and our motehr says it is all in her neck and shoulders and she thinks it wil go up to her brain and get her mental wat do u think? and wat should i tell her?or do? i already told her to not worry and forget all about everything but she says no and i think she just puts stress on her self. wat do u think?

2007-02-19 10:45:59 · 7 answers · asked by Ebto 2

My step daughter who is only 14 and lives with her mother keeps turning up at the weekends at 11pm drunk and usually noisy, crying or in some kind of drama. Her father, my husband, doesn't want any more to do with her and just ignores her when she arrives. I usually deal with her but on Saturday, I told her off yet again for her drinking and I wouldn't give her a ciggie so she stormed out of the house and kicked my car a couple of times causing some scrapes and cracks.. Her dad hasn't made any particular comment about it but I am very upset. There is a history of tantrums from her and as its me that deals with her when she is in a state, then its also me who gets the nonsense when she is angry. I love her to bits but I feel she is out of control. Her mother is clearly not interested as she just lets her out every weekend with lots of money and we get met with abuse if we try and speak to the woman. I am at a loss - how do I help my stepdaughter to see whats she is doing is wrong

2007-02-19 10:43:02 · 20 answers · asked by AUNTY EM 6

Hubby and I always get into stupid little spats about meaningless things that we wouldn't argue about otherwise when we are both really overtired or stressed. This doesn't happen often, I was just wondering if other people have this problem and do you have ways that you found works to solve/avoid it?

2007-02-19 10:28:39 · 7 answers · asked by trishay79 4

I'm 15 and I've never known my father. My mom and dad supossedly got divorced when I was 3 months so I don't even know what he looks like. I have no desire what so ever do have a close relationship with him, I just want to know who he is and for other personal reasons. My mom says I don't need him because i have my step-dad but I hate him. What should I do in order to find him? Thank you.

2007-02-19 10:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know have to approach him about it. You see theres a hockey tournament comung up and my old stick is got the crap beaten out of it.the stick is only 90 dollars which is very inexpensive when it comes to composite hockey sticks. I want to say somthing like if i act well in the tournament can i? but he is very prone to get mad alot and say NO! HELP ME PLEase if you know a way i can ask him

2007-02-19 10:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by robbygolfs73 3

Here's the thing. I just met them yesterday and I have no idea what to call them. Are they my cousin's twice removed or whatever or are they another one of my cousins?

2007-02-19 09:52:04 · 19 answers · asked by K;Chau 1

....would you risk time in prison to kill them, or for paying to have them killed? How much time would you be prepared to do or would feel justified? Please, no "Turn the other cheek" or forgiveness sh1t, thank you.

2007-02-19 09:48:44 · 34 answers · asked by Buckaroo Banzai 3

Surely the deal was that once women shared the breadwinning burden an equal and opposite 'hand' would be given in the low status/montonous/unpaid labour that necessarily has to be expended at home!?

Yet recent stats show that women (on average) when paid/unpaid work is taken into consideration still do an average 19 hours more work compared to her male counterpart.. with part-time women workers more likely to be expending labour excessively on all fronts..

Obviously there will be exceptions on an individual level but I just wondered WHY some women suffer having to do it all whilst their husband/boyfriend goes out or puts his feet up?

2007-02-19 09:48:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i talked to men i didnt know, im not to proud of it either. my parents found out and flipped. ive been grounded from IMing and Myspace for about 8 to 9 months now. how can i ask my parents if i can go back on without getting them mad and not talking to me for a week like when they found out?

2007-02-19 09:39:30 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Miss Nikki♥ 2

2007-02-19 09:38:11 · 3 answers · asked by afrprince77 2

my little sisters never leave me alone they always wake me up in the morning and they never knock when they come in my room

2007-02-19 09:36:01 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Kala♥ 2

My ex boyfriend got me fired from my job, and got me kicked out of my house, and threatened to kill me. I had no where to live and no money and a small child. I asked my mom if I could stay with her for a while and she said no. Then later she saw my boyfriend and she talked to him gave him some presents and gave him my new phone number and told him to call me, which he did and I was very upset. Why would she do that?

2007-02-19 09:33:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i was growing up from the age of i think 15, my dad used to ask me to **** him off... it all started when we were sitting in the front room and as we were very close i used to sit with him and give him a cuddle, i think he said something mean and to be nasty i think i flicked him on the groin area. i cant really remember how it progressed from there but it turned out that he would say to be that he would buy me whatever i wanted if i did. i think i should have known at that age it was wrong but i thought i would have got told off or he would have gone into one of his moods. we were always close but i htink that may have been because i was scared of not being so. as i grew up my dad would be very violent towards me and that was from a very very young age. i used to go into school saying i was mugged from the bruising and cuts. it turned out in the end that he told me to take my knickers off and lay on the bed, he didnt insert himself but put his penis between my legs and told me to

2007-02-19 09:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah 2

My sister was killed in a car accident last year and I want to place something on her grave that is meaningful when her birthday comes around, which is soon. Any ideas about what to put?

2007-02-19 09:31:03 · 16 answers · asked by EmoGeminiDrama 2

my father has always been a drifter but lately he just doesn't know what he is doing, he is moving from place to place and doesn't know where he is going next, he is not in any kind of relationship and he is becoming a burden to his children by interfering into their lives, any ideas on how to deal with him?

2007-02-19 09:25:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My late husband and I have had my gr. nephew living with us practically since birth. His father was in the military and we did receive two years of child support. I also had legal custody of this child. When the father came out of the military he received legal physical custody. However, the child still lived with me and with practically no child support and then the loss of my husband I have provided a home and everything necessary for this child whom I deeply love to have a safe environment both here and at school. The father from time to time gives me some money and now takes the boy on Wed., and Thurs. and brings him back on Friday. I have claimed this child on taxes as he lives here and I almost completely support him. The father did ask if I was going to claim him and I said, "Yes." He also found out he can get money through the child's mother who is on disability, but if the child did not live with him during the time he is claiming, can he?

2007-02-19 09:17:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father passed away a year ago and my oldest sister is named the executrix of the estate. My brother is living in the house as he came back to live with my parents 14 years ago when he was at his lowest point in his life. But the problem now is that we want to get on with things but since he is living there he seems to be taking over the whole house with all of his "stuff" everywhere. We keep talking about cleaning up his things and put whatever he wants in storage but he doesn't seem to want to. He is acting like he is so entitled to everything there. He just started to pay the bills there since Sept and all the time my parents were alive he didn't contribute at all. What are our options if my sister (the executrix) doesn't follow through with things and what can we do about getting my brother to move his things out so we can get on with the sale of the house? We don't want to kick him out but that looks like we might have to. My sister says she will quit as the executrix if

2007-02-19 08:58:57 · 6 answers · asked by brandygirl624 1

No TV, no computer (except to do schoolwork which i'm supposed to be doing now), no candy/soda, no friends over, no going to friends. i have no pets, don't suggest chores or "thinking over what i've done wrong" i can't possibly "think about it" for 4 weeks. Come on now. give me something fun to do.

2007-02-19 08:55:38 · 28 answers · asked by lilly 2

Are they a psycho or just desperate to be on your level or both?

2007-02-19 08:49:19 · 13 answers · asked by Daya 2

I saw similar questions on here, but my Brother and I were born on the same day, at the exact same time, and exactly one year apart!! Isn't that weird?? I am sure the odds of all of that coinciding exactly have to be astronomical!! His first birthday present was me!!! Someone told me once that there was a name for this- some kind of twins, but I don't rememeber what it was. any Idea?

2007-02-19 08:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by wheezie 3

2007-02-19 08:38:27 · 6 answers · asked by rustyat28 1

This summer Im moving to florida with my grandparents. i live in california right now, and my mom and dad and my littlest brother live in florida. well my grandparents gave me the option to stay here with my friends, or live in florida with my parents and brother and start over with life in highschool. what should i do?

2007-02-19 08:35:24 · 3 answers · asked by robotloserr 2

I have two kids a husband with two jobs, I also have two jobs and only one car. My mom takes care of my kids and every time I ask her to watch the kids a little longer she always gives me an attitude. I never ask her to keep them so my husband and I could do something just the two of us. Like for example today I need to get some erands done before I need to get my husband back to work and it's just easier for my mom to keep the kids. When I told her she just said "Fine, whatever".
I don't know what to do, I need her help but at the same time I wish I could just find another person to watch my kids.

2007-02-19 08:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by littlemama_rules 2

I want a computer in my room really badly. I tell her that I won't go on bad websites or I won't watch bad things. She says she doesn't wnat me to have one. Same with a cell. She says i don't need one. Are there any reasons I could say to convince her to get me at least one of the two things I want. Any good reasons out there?

2007-02-19 08:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by whats_upp 2

My sister has been maried for almost 5 years to a phsycho guy that threatens her and her family's life. They have a 4year old son and she doesn't want to take his daddy away from him and prevent him from seeing him. But at the same time she wants to get away from her husband. She wont file a restrainning order because of the baby..... and she cries herself to sleep at night because she doesn't know what to do. If anyone has any advise I would be interested to find out what you think before she gets hurt.... or worst...... killed, Please help me out. Thank all of you!!!

2007-02-19 08:25:11 · 2 answers · asked by Pearl 2

heyy ,, this question is based on another question by me ,, was about how to steal ma father's money :D lol
so let us start ,
am a guy 16 yrs old frm egypt ,
am in high school i will finish it the after next year
the egyptian high school is extremly hard and we have to work hard so we havnt got any time for a part time job
u know ,, guys in our age need money for extra things like new mobile , computers addons ,, things like tht
so tell me how to get some money ???

2007-02-19 08:24:15 · 3 answers · asked by egy-guy 2

They were divorced only 6 months after being married. He is not only physically but verbally abusive. I have tried to just let it go but it consumes my thoughts. I have recently been reading about positive thinking and laws of attraction but I just can't seem to turn this negative into a positive situation. Any ideas?

2007-02-19 08:22:53 · 2 answers · asked by Marie D 1

We are going to be nine people im the youngest one, 17. i already told him that an adult is going (which is not true) but he still says not,can someone give any advise?

2007-02-19 08:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by Forgotten 5

My sister is going to have a baby girl soon and I was just wondering. I'm trying to help her think of a good name. She wants a creative name, not a common one like emily or sarah. Is Infantino a good choice?

2007-02-19 08:09:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous