3 years ago my couisen was killed by a drunk driver he was on drugs too he got out at christmas and he is causeing trouble with our family we have done nothing wrong he took someone away from us he still got his life...he punched my auntie in the mouth 2 days ago i am sure this is not right he took away her son and now punching her what could i do .... i hate him so much he even coming in the night club where i work and causeing trouble i am stuck i don't no who to turn too .... he even got girls to start on me ... what would you do ...please help !!! ??????
2007-02-19 10:58:24 · 15 answers · asked by vicsta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's time for the family to conduct a serious meeting. What would I do if I were you? Bring the entire family together (make it a pot luck dinner if you wish) and discuss the matter openly. It is important to not only understand his history, but to get everyone input. You may want to try to invite a family counselor at the family meeting. Knowing the true back ground of this guy may help solve the problem.
You can call the police, put him in jail, but he won't stay there for long. Your statement is asking what to do permanently with this situation. It boiled down to having him committed or put him in a program for drugs abuse. Discuss this matter with your local D.A. office and find out what actions need to be taken! Even if he comes out clean and sober. He began to get on drugs again. You may have to start the process again. Only so much a person's body can tolerate drugs.
Talk to God about it! He needs prayers from you. Good luck.
God Bless
2007-02-19 11:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Contact the police immediately & try to get a restraining order-he could be violating his bail conditions by even being near your family & could end up back inside-deservedly so-every time he comes near a member of your family PHONE THE POLICE!!
2007-02-19 19:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in touch with the authorities, you can do him for assault on your auntie for starters, you can probably do him for harrasment, intimdation, abuuse etc...
i don't agree with grassing, but some people need to be locked up...
it's either that or send the boys round and beat him to within an inch of his life
3 big lads with baseball bats should get the message accross - he should leave you alone after that
butterflie: nice idea, but not safe - don't push him, he might jus wait till she's on her way home
Maybe the guy wants to go back to prison - he doesn't sound like he wants to forget what he's done...
2007-02-19 19:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Big Bad Ben 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the police or get a court order to make it an offence for him to even come into the same building as you.
You know they are all brave but they don't like being locked up.
2007-02-19 19:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the police chances are he is only out on licence if he is he would go straight back to where he belongs and also slap a restraining order on him and that will include stopping him harassing you and your family himself or through others
2007-02-19 19:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get A restraint/ no contact order on him. Report it now. Good Luck
2007-02-19 19:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by ladybugjan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try your hardest to get a restraining order on him. Push his buttons while he is in your night club. There's bouncers there. Then when he reacts, you can put the restraining order on his ***.
2007-02-19 19:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by truebeing3030 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police, this is harrassment and assault and should be stopped immediately.
He may have served his time but you ones are still serving yours and probably will for the rest of your lives. Do not put up with this.
2007-02-19 19:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by lynn a 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd cause trouble for him and wouldn't stop until he got put back in jail.
2007-02-19 19:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole town should get a restraining order on him!!!
2007-02-19 19:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋