i talked to men i didnt know, im not to proud of it either. my parents found out and flipped. ive been grounded from IMing and Myspace for about 8 to 9 months now. how can i ask my parents if i can go back on without getting them mad and not talking to me for a week like when they found out?
2007-02-19 09:39:30 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Miss Nikki♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In your parents eyes, you have to earn your trust back. It is not the end of the world, their are other things that you could be doing to prove to them, that you have learned your lesson!
2007-02-19 09:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is ur intentions Honorable about getting back on, or do you just want to continue where you left of. Talking to strange men you don't know is dangerous on more levels than one, all you have to do is open a newspaper and there is story's of Internet perverts. Your parents deep down are scared for you and what might happen to you, you need to show them that you can be mature and responsible and that the world can be a scary place no matter how much fun you think it is at the time to talk to these men. Talk to your parents about how you feel and ask them how they feel, i guarantee they are more scared than angry
2007-02-19 09:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by shy_irisheyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that myspace is not a very good site to be on why dont you just find some other chatting sites. the next thing is just play games on the internet this is some good advice you should follow this girls are getting murdered from being on myspace and I know you arent gonna like it but you really dont need to be on there.
2007-02-19 09:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Savannah H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would suggest take a brake form all of those for a month or so. so the they can see your sober from myspace and stuff. help them around the house,spend time with the and be am a sweet angel as u can possibly be then after that month or more just go up to them and with the things u've done with the and time u've spent with them they'll see that u've changed and probably let u go back to myspace and stuff
2007-02-19 09:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to earn the trust back..you cant force them to let you do something they told you not to.
If you are not proud of the fact that you were talking to men you did not know..tell them.. that you will delete them..and actually do it..infront of them..
but dont ask them yet to be able to go back on..after you delete them..then just leave it at that..then tell them you are really sorry for doing that...tell them your not proud of what you did and that you want the to forgive you because you've learnt your lesson...and then also leave that at that and dont ask them to let you go back on the net...
if they havent given you a different option within days of doing that..you can ask them..something like.."can i go on for atleast 1hr ...theres no risk of talking to guys i dont know cause i deleted the one's i didnt know..and if i get strangers adding me i wont accept them"
try that..goodluck
2007-02-19 09:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch, well I can relate to what your parents are feeling, and well gaining back trust just takes time, they just want you to be safe on line, and with all the recent stories about men abusing kids they meet on line, they have a right to be paranoid. Just give it time and try some discretion when you talk to some one you don't know, because you never know who you might be talking to. Never give your person info to someone you don't know.
2007-02-19 10:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by pissedoffpoet20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has it been since you were grounded? Wait at least a month, probably two, and be really really well behaved online, and then ask your parents. Your parents are right, you really need to be more careful!
2007-02-19 09:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by cg17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you mature a little more your parents will notice and let you get back on. Remember they know what goes on out there and they love you very much.
2007-02-19 09:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Maka 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to men you don't know, that would be a good place to start
2007-02-19 09:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men will be here,no need to rush in.if they trusted you to not do what you did,you should not want to visit those sites anymore.enjoy being a kid,all that will come in time.there's to many bad men/boys on-line with sexual motives in mind.please listen to your parents.
2007-02-19 09:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by walker4907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋