2007-02-19 19:47:18 · 11 answers · asked by cowboysfan312004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Quit any one of them - Girlfriend or Liquor !!
2007-02-19 19:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself a couple of questions first to see if you do have a drinking problem:
Do I have hangovers? -this is your body's way of telling you not to drink that much
Do I say things or do things that I wouldn't if I wasn't drinking?
Do I embarrass others when I'm drinking?-ask if you don't know
Do I remember what I do when I'm drinking?
How often do I drink? And why do I drink?
Do I ever feel like I need to drink?
Do you seem to drink more now than say a couple of years ago?
Are any of your parents or aunts/uncles alcoholics?
When you drink a beer every now and then or two, there shouldn't be a problem, but if you never stop at one or two there probably is. I grew up with an alcoholic parent, who when he wasn't drinking was really cool. But, he got worse and worse as the years passed. He lost his wife, my mom, and any chance at a relationship with his son. Know that alcoholism runs in family's too. My dad cant work anymore because he shakes when he isn't drinking. He is dying of scerosis of the liver and still he is drinking. I'm not trying to lecture you, and really she cant tell you what to do. But, it seems she cares about you and your future together.
There is a program called Celebrate Recovery that my husband and I attend that deals with alot of things including chemical addiction and alcoholism. I wish the best for you and your soon to be family!
2007-02-19 20:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by molly hadley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U n people around you can only tell that you have drinking problem or not. Well drinking is bad 4 health n she loves you thats why she is stopping U. n there is nothing bad in it. If U love her then U should avoid drinking.
2007-02-19 20:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having a difficult time of it (not drinking, that is), then you just MAY have a problem. You shouldn't HAVE to drink to enjoy yourself. Respect your fiance's wishes.
Good luck!
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2007-02-19 19:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
head to the bar....
well, is she a priss that doesn't drink or do you drink too much. You know the answer.
2007-02-19 20:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by GranolaGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u think she could be right, only u know the true answer to that question.
2007-02-19 20:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every1 in this world should drink.. at least one cup of water everyday!!
2007-02-19 19:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by HeaD_BanG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself to AA meeting.
Sounds like you have a problem
If you love her......get some help
2007-02-19 19:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have one ??? ashamed of it ??? stop drinking
2007-02-19 19:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by breeze_over_stormy_ground 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove to her that you don't
2007-02-19 19:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by parkesmatt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋