what do you do when your parents dont go a day without fighting...and is this like..normal..does everybodys parents do this?I really need some advice...i feel powerless...my parents always yell at for stupid stuff....and i just want to no how to handle this....
2007-02-19 16:58:48 · 20 answers · asked by yo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
what i would do is if my parents were fighting is i would tell them to stop. and if they dident i would run away and go to a place that wasent far but they did not no about. they would be more worried about me than the fight and it would stop
2007-02-19 19:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by badmp35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents where once in your shoes right now. Life has a lot to do with it. The pressure of work, family, and just dealing with home life can get to the best of us. If they fight everyday, than it should like a power struggle, they are not hearing what is important to each other to feel important. If they are yelling at you for what you think is stupid stuff, sometimes the slightest little problem can cause parents just to go off on a crazy streak for something that's not worth it because its a release of emotion that's built up.. All parents don't do this, but most do. Try helping out around the house or doing stuff to ease the pressure on your mom or dad, and see if it makes a difference or not. Also try talking with them to see what the problem may be. Take a look at the things you do as well, look at it as if your a parent and would it matter to you whats going on. I hope this helps.
2007-02-19 17:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I know just what you are feeling here. The best way to handle this is by not handling this. It is not for us to handle but for God. Pray and pray a lot. Get involved in a Christian youth group and do it right away...my only regret is that waited sooooooooo long.
Not only will you get away from the yelling, you will be pleasantly surprised in many other ways because you have a family of friends who have been praying for you to show up and you will be amazed at the peace, the love, and all the unbelievable things you will get to do.
better late than never
Sista C
2007-02-19 17:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by sista c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your parents think that they are the only ones in the house. You need to bring this up to their attention and tell them that their behavior by yelling and fighting is affecting you and you can't handle it anymore.
Your parents are acting like immature people with no respect, love, and appreciation for one another. You have that right not to be in that kind of environment, so if things get worse, you need to find a close relative and let them know about your situation.
Otherwise, get these two books for your parents called, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands".
Let them know that they are hurting you, with you seeing them act like that.
2007-02-19 17:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents yell alot. And as a result of it I blame myself for everything so they will see me taking the blame and maybe stop! OK! do not do this I have a condition now and it's not pretty. Maybe you should confront your parents in a calm non yelling way and tell them how much it bothers and hurts you when they yell.
2007-02-19 17:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sasa<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them and tell them that it's bugging you. My parents have been married for 20 years, and they fight a lot, but it's stupid fights...mostly about money. Then they yell and scream, then get over it in a couple minutes. Really, I think it's normal for parents to fight. Everyone has their differences, and I think it may be kind of healthy actually.
2007-02-19 17:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let your parents know how their yelling constantly is affecting you. They are adults and should handle their problems like adults. If it doesn't get any better talk to a school counselor, he/she may be able to help more on a one-to-one level.
2007-02-19 17:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by tylw85 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seriously sounds like you need someone to talk to you can trust. Nobody on these message boards can understand what you're going through and help you sufficiently.
1-800-999-9999
That's a support line I called when I was 15 when I really needed some help. They're there to help you.
I really hope that helps.
My prayers are with you, my friend.
2007-02-19 17:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sparxmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents need some professional help. They should learn how to handle conflicts and differences peacefully. Perhaps that is the way how they handle stress.
2007-02-19 17:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your family how you feel, let them know it brought you and you are afraid that someday it will go further then just yelling, and you think they should seek counselings, to try and find out what the problem is.
2007-02-19 19:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋