my dad is an A** H**, a B******. HE IS a Coward! who always find fault with mum and hit her when she is asleep.
I got mum and siblings out from home and put them in a hotel to for a few days til my elder sis and her hubby comes to visit us this Wed.( tmrw). Then, me and my sis will work things out to bring my mum stay at another place( so long it is far away from the MONSTER ).
2007-02-19 20:48:33 · 9 answers · asked by rinoao 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have done the right thing with your mom. However she has to ultimately make the decision to leave your dad. Hopefully you got things going so she can change her life to a better one that I am sure she deserves. It'll take time but she will make it. My dad was terrible to my mother. She took knives to her throat all the time. She was scared but finally got rid of him and we all were better off. Good Luck to you and your mom.
2007-02-23 15:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. you're right. Your dad is a coward not only does he hit a woman he hits her when shes asleep!!... Deffo a coward with a capital "C". A man should never hit a woman (full stop) He should honour and respect his wife. My partner and I both have a bad temper but despite how heated things get he would never lay a finger on me. Most people say violence isn't the answer but in my opinion, some people simply are unreasonable and are not rational. So I would keep yr mum and siblings away from him. Get your mum to get a doctor's report and lodge a police report and get a restraining order and if you get the chance beat the **** out of yr so called "Dad" DO IT!! if you can't handle him yrself get someone who can. Let him have a taste of his own medicine and let him pick on someone his own size. Some people just need to be taught. They need to meet their match. Problem is most battered wives tend to find excuses for their husband and tend to blame themselves and for some strange reason they keep going back to their husbands. I think you need to convince your mother that your Dad doesn't love her the way he should. Otherwise all your efforts in keeping them apart might g down the drain.
2007-02-21 03:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Pauline G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my dad never hit mum or us for that matter. It's good that you
are trying to keep everyone safe .I would pay someone to hurt him like he hurt your mum men don't hurt women and children cowards do it gives then power over someone else hope your mum is felling safe and you as a family fix thing out between you.
2007-02-19 22:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing the right thing. You have probably saved your mother's life. Make sure your mum stays at the hotel and doesn't leave. make sure your father can't find her. If you can't be there with her, try and get a well-trusted friend to be with her to ensure she doesn't get weak and call your father.
Yes, my father used to hit my mother. I didn't find out about it until after they divorced and I wish I could have known and done something about it.
2007-02-19 20:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by RIffRaffMama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for getting your mom out of that dangerous situation. Your dad needs some serious help. Try to get him into counseling and if he refuses call the police and press charges against him.
2007-02-19 23:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should also lodge a complaint with tthe police so that your father knows that this behavior will not be tolerated.
2007-02-19 21:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by Climbing the ladder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad never hit my mom, ever. Good luck to you and your mom and sibs.
2007-02-19 20:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
Yes good thing your doing.
My dad hit my mom once and i hit him back and broke a chair on is back.
I told him you SOB you touch her agin i will break your fu*** neck
2007-02-19 23:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by pcc122 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everything possible to keep them apart.
2007-02-19 20:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋